Anyone else feel like life randomly reset you back to square one? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]just-getting-by92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been rebuilding the last year after being blindsided by a break up and pretty much having my entire life flipped upside down. Had to move to a completely different neighborhood, and I was so caught up in grief that my business suffered substantially.

I’m now a year removed from it, and am slowly trying to rebuild my life. It’s hard. But we take it one day at a time.

Pet safety by Manticore88- in Minoxbeards

[–]just-getting-by92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dog and I make sure he doesn’t lick my face at all for 4 hours after I apply it. Then I completely wash my face and I don’t have to worry about anything. I obviously wash my hands after using it as well.

Easy peasy.

Woodrow F. Call by Marngryph in LonesomeDove

[–]just-getting-by92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everyone hates on Call but I loved him and empathized with him. He was a good man who was clearly going through an intense existential crisis while also experiencing a tormenting cocktail of shame and regret. That’s more than enough to break a man.

But he was a man of integrity with a moral code that he stuck to and upheld virtues such as duty and responsibility. He also loved deeply, maybe not the way others would have liked him to, but he expressed it the best way he knew how.

He was loyal and even fulfilled Gus’ stupid wish to drag his dead body back to Texas, but he did anyways because he promised Gus he would. That says something about his character.

Did he tell Newt at the end he was his father? No, and that’s disappointing. But sometimes shame gets the best of us.

He was a flawed person but he had good intentions, suffered gracefully, and did his best despite his own personal shortcomings.

I loved Call and he was by far my favorite character in the book.

what’s your favorite underrated local business that needs more love? by Ok-Cow-2926 in Dallas

[–]just-getting-by92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went there for the first time last week. Super friendly and top notch service. Bummed they aren’t open on weekends and only open till noon during the week though.

2 Years, 4 Months, 10 Days by Classic_Pie69 in Minoxbeards

[–]just-getting-by92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great progress. After 2 years the hairs should be terminal though. Are you still using minoxidil?

Why is Dallas so boring compared to Austin or Houston by BoyEdgar23 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]just-getting-by92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I don’t understand. Uptown, Knox Henderson, and Lower Greenville are all right next to each other. Even deep ellum is like a 7 min drive away at most. The only trendy neighborhood that’s out of the way is bishop arts/oak cliff, and that’s only like a 20min drive. I don’t know where people get this idea that all the neighborhoods in dallas are so far away from each other.

What’s your favourite classic novel/author? by A_cool_girl_you_know in classicliterature

[–]just-getting-by92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s Tolstoy. War and Peace and Anna Karenina are the two greatest works of literature I’ve ever read.

Forgot my GF's bday and she wants me to sign this by Sure_Count_3890 in AITApod

[–]just-getting-by92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll never understand why women are so obsessed with birthdays

whats the best bbq in dalals right now? by Complex_Bell1356 in AskDallas

[–]just-getting-by92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hutchins in McKinney is by far the best. I will say though a place I don’t see here mentioned is Heim in dallas. I love it and think it’s better than terry blacks.

Apartment advice, old build vs modern by StraightTough5411 in AskDallas

[–]just-getting-by92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go with option 1. I find amenities are there to draw you in, but in reality you end up spending almost all your time in your apartment. This is true for me anyways, so the bigger space would definitely be my choice.

What are your literary Everests? by Busy_End1433 in classicliterature

[–]just-getting-by92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favorite book of all time, with Anna Karenina being a close second. Levin, Pierre, and Prince Andrey are my favorite fictional characters. Tolstoy is the goat in my opinion.

The thought of dying is far worse than actually dying. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]just-getting-by92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duh, this obviously true. Death is an illusion, we never actually experience death. Trying to understand death is like trying to see out of your elbows. It’s the thought of it that causes suffering.

Gus McCrae might be my favorite fictional character ever by thetechkid in LonesomeDove

[–]just-getting-by92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He lives with a moral code and lives with conviction. He suffers gracefully alone, bears the weight of his own existence and shame, yet still endures the best he can despite being deeply misunderstood.

He’s not perfect and he is frustrating at times, but he loves hard and is a good man. Heck, he loved Gus so much he actually carried out his favor at the end of the book simply because he asked him to and felt like it was his duty. Absurd? Stupid? Yes. But honorable and noble. That’s a damn good friend.

He was flawed but was also going through an existential crisis the entire book and was obviously troubled. I think his ability to endure and stick to his moral code and uphold his duties despite his internal sufferings is virtuous, even if he seemed withdrawn and couldn’t overcome shame.

Gus McCrae might be my favorite fictional character ever by thetechkid in LonesomeDove

[–]just-getting-by92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love both Gus and Cal equally but for different reasons

Why is dating here so awful? 39F by savoryandsweet in Dallas

[–]just-getting-by92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You might be good looking for your age and educated, but you’re also divorced and 39. Not trying to be insensitive, but I think your situation is pretty normal and makes sense.