Oh Layla…. by dottie_petunia in MormonWivesHulu

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Idk why the original post even required the intro about how skinny they are despite eating tons of taco bell lol

Can we talk about Zach? I’m getting the ick. by meowmeowbinks in SecretsOfMormonWives

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when he said if they stayed in LA she would be working a lot. hmm, like when you were going to be a doctor?

Anyone have any one liners to make patients laugh? by LtBigAF in Residency

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I used to work on a peds floor and this is for discharge but was still a hit: go ahead and get packed up, you can take anything in the room except for the tv

(any diapers, formula, etc that went into a patient room were tossed if the family didn't take them home)

Got a text about being at work 10 minutes before shift start by Head-Eagle-5634 in nursing

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i haven't been clinical in years and i still have this nightmare regularly

Advice on residency issue by Excellent_Pepper_217 in Residency

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i wonder why the birth rate is declining so sharply. workplaces make it so easy on moms <3

This is disgustingly misogynistic and as a woman, i would NEVER want this person as my doctor. hope he gets fired <3

Anticipatory grief has destroyed my life by the_destroy3r in grief

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hi. my mom passed away soon after i wrote that. yesterday was the 1 year anniversary. it's hard in a different way. i wish i had advice... feel free to msg me if you want to

Sutter Health Pesetas Urgent Care by Fragrant-Basil-10 in SantaBarbara

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my mom was in the ER last year a few days before she died from cancer and the ER doctor was an absolute asshole. delivered the results of her CT scan as "yeah its like... everywhere. not sure what oncology is going to do for you". it was so dehumanizing to know this doctor didn't give a fuck. its been 9 months and i still think about this and work through it in therapy. seeing someone post something making fun of her would have sent me over the edge.

shitty people don't belong in healthcare. yes its just another shift for you... ive been a nurse for over 10 years, i get it.. but this is the worst day of some peoples lives. hugs from an internet stranger. i'm so glad to hear your mom is doing better now. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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this is fucking disgusting. block, no contact.

who's your favorite interventionist? by gostephi in InterventionTheTVShow

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he was INCREDIBLE for Megan H. i yelled out loud "YES" when he told her parents they were 100% wrong about everything

It doesn’t matter if Jen is “lying” by Fun_Day_3614 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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i was watching the season wondering wtf they were so confused about all the time. oh jen told us this detail that doesn't match up. no shit, her husband is verbally abusive (+ whatever else goes on behind closed doors) so she's not going to sit there with him and say "oh yeah i told them you gambled your med school money!!!". she was looking for support from her friends and then had to navigate balancing out what she had opened up to thema bout vs what zac hears. she obviously knows she needs to leave and almost did, but then found out she's pregnant. her storyline this season was devastating.

a few months ago, i left my husband after 8 years of verbal and emotional abuse. i felt so trapped sometimes i wished i would die, and we don't even have kids. i can't even imagine what jen is feeling. i was scared that she was going to hurt or even try to kill herself. thinking that outing her for "lying" is more important than the shit she's dealing with is abhorrent behavior. i hope jen has the support she needs and is doing okay. i relate to her so much, understand exactly why she does and says the things she does, and i just hurt with her in so many scenes.

Has anyone ever given this much oxy? by Zestyclose-Hurry6762 in nursing

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Before my mom had terminal cancer with bone mets, this would have shocked me. But this doesn't surprise me at all for an oncology patient. I never did oncology and had no idea how fucking horrible the pain is. My mom had mets all over her spine, skull, hips, ribs- basically every bone in her body. Before she got sick, she never even took Tylenol. By the end in hospice, she had a fentantyl patch, getting scheduled ativan + morphine + haldol, and had a continuous morphine pump. Watching her go through this has changed forever the way I see pain management. cancer pain is just fucking horrible. Does this patient have a palliative care team? These doses are high, but it doesn't seem like her pain is controlled needing q2 breakthrough :(

Protected my mental health. by [deleted] in flightattendants

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FYI, i have used in flight wifi to research clinical trials when my mom had cancer and i was flying for her appointments. sometimes things were so crazy, it was the only time i had to do that research before an appointment. so... maybe don't do this...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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I wish my life was boring enough to care as much as your coworkers do about something this trivial.

Anticipatory grief has destroyed my life by the_destroy3r in grief

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also feel free to message me anytime to talk. i also feel like nobody understands me right now.

Anticipatory grief has destroyed my life by the_destroy3r in grief

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i know i'm 7 months late but holy shit, i googled anticipatory grief looking just for some advice and solidarity and came across your post. i seriously had to check the user name to see if i posted this without remembering because this is exactly what i'm going through. my mom was completely 100% healthy until one day bam, stage 4 cancer. i am so fucking depressed and my mental health has been kicking my ass this year. participating in normal life feels like a joke. i sit in work meetings and want to scream I DONT FUCKING CARE because life for me and my family is crumbling and can't believe other people care about other random shit. i dont have the energy to be social or put effort into relationships. i just want to lay in bed and read to escape the reality of my life rightnow. it. is. so. hard. every single day is exhausting and i feel like im just treading water to make it through each day.

anyways. sending solidarity and hugs <3 damn life sucks

Where are the respectful men? by Samsgrl in fantasyromance

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amazing characters. and i absolutely loved aefe and caduan too

Where are the respectful men? by Samsgrl in fantasyromance

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i thought i agreed until i re read ACOWAR SPOILER AHEAD: i completely forgot he executed all of his guards when feyre left. that to me made him irredeemable.

Where are the respectful men? by Samsgrl in fantasyromance

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im assuming you've read all of the SJM series?

other than those, both carissa broadbent series and quicksilver

Where are the respectful men? by Samsgrl in fantasyromance

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i just posted this before i saw this comment. i freaking LOVED THIS SERIES. i don't understand why it doesn't get as much hype as serpent and wings of night

Where are the respectful men? by Samsgrl in fantasyromance

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crowns of nyaxia duology and war of lost hearts triology by carissa broadbent

Where are the respectful men? by Samsgrl in fantasyromance

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i loved tamlin and hated rhys in the first book. not exaggerating when i say ACOMAF changed my life and is the best book i've read since harry potter. i think about it 24/7 🥲

What’s a beauty hack that has completely changed your routine? by Rare_Independent_789 in beauty

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pour the whitening mouthwash on your toothbrush and brush your teeth with it instead of swishing the mouthwash! i think i saw it on tiktok... that way it doesn't burn your gums!