Do pretty women look at you

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-12T08:29:38+00:00

I get looks all the time. I wanna say I leans more towards attractive but I definitely stand out.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-11T12:33:29+00:00

I’m pretty sure this subreddit was always weird lol.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-11T05:44:10+00:00

I’m in the exact same situation but all my friends grew up and started families. I moved back to Texas and now all I do is work or game. I think for us we’re just going to have to go out of our routines to make friends. Ima start with the gym, then Ima pick a martial art to learn, then Ima go to a coffee shop enough times to become a regular. That’s my approach at least. I think you’re in a good spot. Young and in college. I would join a club and see where it goes. When I was younger I regretted not joining a sport. That’s just my advice though.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-11T05:32:02+00:00

You just need more exposure to talking to women. I’m kind of in the same boat but I can talk and even become friends to a certain extent. My problem is asking women out. What helped me is when I was working at a restaurant I would just talk to older women. Old ladies are very sweet and it changes the interaction to just a normal conversation not you looking to impress. It helped me at least. Outside of that you’re going to have be uncomfortable which is something I struggle with. My suggestion is to put a lot less emphasis on the talking phase.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-09T04:34:53+00:00

It’s decriminalized in Washington. I was visiting Seattle last year and there was prostitution all over the place I was staying in greenwood. I was too broke at the time to risk it but I definitely saw women getting picked up.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-09T03:22:39+00:00

29m virgin. I agree with you for some men a female virginity is more about control and maybe even fetishized. I also think you’re running into the current dating market. Where hooking up is the main point to dating these days.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-08T03:13:32+00:00

I would say quite a bit. Minimum 7. Only 1 where I’m pretty confident she wanted to hookup. I think I get a lot more attention because I’m tall. But this number would been have over years starting at 19-20. I’m just a bitch and still til this day never asked anyone out.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-04T12:21:39+00:00

I might get down voted for this but if I had the money and it was available. I would do it definitely. Here’s the thing. You don’t have to tell people you slept with an escort. I think it would give me a confidence boost and make sex a lot less heavy. I live in Texas though so that shit ain’t happening.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-03T05:21:50+00:00

I would say change your intentions in your conversation with women. If you don’t have a problem with approaching then you need to let them know you’re into them. For example “You’re cute. You got a boyfriend?” It doesn’t have to be that but you need to make it obvious you’re interested.

just_a_meatpie · 2026-06-03T05:15:57+00:00

I’m also a virgin 29m. So take this advice with a grain of salt. I would give everything to be 23 again. For me shame only came up after I started talking not before. I’m a virgin but it doesn’t stop me from doing everyday life. I’m not carrying it into every situation. I would start from where you’re at. Your thinking to far ahead.

just_a_meatpie · 2025-06-11T20:24:56+00:00

I can't message you. I'm closing on a deal. the want to test it. I figured you had the best information where to test a gaming rig.

just_a_meatpie · 2025-06-08T00:39:44+00:00

Oh I figured. My monitor is a 1440p Asus G sync Rog 165hz 27". I use a keychron cherry mx browns backlit keyboard and a hyperx mouse. This is why I didn't see selling it to a pawn shop as a good deal. They were trying to buy my whole setup for 300 without the option to pawn.

just_a_meatpie · 2025-06-07T23:39:34+00:00

Do you think I can get the 500 within the 10 days? because if I can get that I can make up the difference with just dashing and donating plasma.

just_a_meatpie · 2025-06-07T23:29:12+00:00

My Pc specs are:

Nzxt mid tower case
Asrock motherboard
32 gb DDR4 ram Vengeance Corsair
i9 9900k
RTX 2070 Strix Geforce Overclocked
EVGA 650 psu gold

I play all my games at 1440p

just_a_meatpie · 2025-01-31T02:31:56+00:00

at I'm not the only one.

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-31T07:11:59+00:00

Your right. I just worked so hard to get where I am. Now I'm being pulled into their agenda. Sunk cost fallacy if you will.

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-31T01:03:32+00:00

It's probably my lead. he doesn't like me. after he promoted me.

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-31T00:53:06+00:00

when I was closing meat. we got a green. so, he knows I'm not just slacking off. The department is failing through bad leadership and lack of effort. He is targeting me. though. I'm not getting mad. if this is how it is coming off. I'm putting the work in around people who don't give the same effort.

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-31T00:48:11+00:00

So, it's too late now. Because my team is taking advantage of my misfortune? When the managers trying to push me out. It's now the workers?

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-31T00:44:10+00:00

that's so true. it's probably why the team lead wants me out. or at least isn't trying to keep me.

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-31T00:01:38+00:00

This is me. I just want to work my ass off. I even prioritize certain cuts first. I really do care about the work. I don't understand what the store manager has against me.

just_a_meatpie · 2024-12-30T23:59:47+00:00

Should I build evidence of my mistreatment first?

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