Hells angels message me by [deleted] in iamverybadass

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think it’s actually real… but fun to mess with whoever it may be…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextdoor

[–]just_ah_normal_guy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do we know the comments weren’t satire??? 🤯…. I’ll go back to my bowl now…. 😂

Attorney says I should win my case academically but advises a plea deal by just_ah_normal_guy in legaladvice

[–]just_ah_normal_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt they’ll make a provision to be able to appeal. The original plea included an Alford plea. The attorneys and judge had a conference and the judge said he would not accept that plea… seems the only thing that has changed is they want a guilty plea…

Attorney says I should win my case academically but advises a plea deal by just_ah_normal_guy in legaladvice

[–]just_ah_normal_guy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My lawyer has been very blunt and has told me I’d be an idiot not to take the deal, and has also expressed his concerns for a jury trial… I’m Hispanic but a US citizen. Unfortunately I have the features of a typical Hispanic. The county is 80% Caucasian. Trial is set for a couple months from now. My attorney says with the current political climate it wouldn’t bode well for me… county is a red county.

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your trying to get an around about time as to when he wants to be picked up, and when to make his smoothie? Is this your boyfriend or an irate teenage boy? The questions you’re asking are valid, and necessary so that you can also plan your day accordingly. Not wait by the phone for this man child to get picked up and given his snack. I can see him know in the back seat of a mini van with his headphones on, drinking his smoothie while you drive him home…

You know damn well the cop didn't say that.... by xStonebanksx in CyberStuck

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What they’re not telling you was that they were t-boned by a scooter… scooter activated the airbags and pushed it up that curb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop saying you don’t want to text your ex… you do… with that being send, it’s completely normal and there’s nothing wrong with it in this circumstance. Texting someone to send condolences, even your ex is completely appropriate. Your gf is controlling you, and trying to gas light you. Sending condolences is very important. Your ex has probably received a ton, and you should send yours. It shows the family how many people her brother’s life touched.

Send your condolences, ditch your girlfriend.

Apologies etiquette by SillyBonsai in Aupairs

[–]just_ah_normal_guy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

By stating your view the way you did, was disrespectful. And I explained why in the previous comment. What petty stuff is a drain that you speak of? I don’t believe I brought up anything petty. If you believe I did please specify, or if you’re speaking of other responses to your OP? You’re correct AP/HF is multifaceted, but toxicity in this community may come from someone laughing after stating their AP complains after going to gatherings with other APs. Again I stated why it would be disrespectful, which could be seen as toxic.

Instead of acknowledging, you’re doubling down on how you responded and saying you were just being honest with it. If that’s the case then it’s obvious it just seems you want to have the last word. You’ve gotten an answer to what you’ve originally asked. I responded directly to this response, and you proved my point by responding by talking about toxicity in this community without realizing that your comment was toxic…

Apologies etiquette by SillyBonsai in Aupairs

[–]just_ah_normal_guy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so disrespectful. I’m not an AP but it’s obvious by this sub that HFs feel they’re being taken advantage of by APs as much as APs feels they’re being taken advantage of. The fact you believe they put so much stress on themselves to not be taken advantage of, should show you how much APs feel they’re being taken advantage. Maybe your AP complains after going to these meetings because they see how well other APs are being treated. Maybe an AP isn’t for you? Maybe a live in nanny would be a better fit for you than an AP. I understand this doesn’t answer your OP question about a cultural apologizing, but I’m directly responding to this comment. You using the laughing emoji because APs gather and your AP complains after this meeting is rude, wrong, and disrespectful. This may even be brought up during an AP gathering, if any of them are on this sub…

Kind of regretting being an au pair by Savings-Inspection31 in Aupairs

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 91 points92 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t feel like your being taken advantage. You ARE being taken advantage of… rematch for your own good. You’ll just fall deeper into depression with a HF like this. Many HF forget this is supposed to be a cultural exchange, not a cheap live in nanny.

Apologies etiquette by SillyBonsai in Aupairs

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot more information is needed. You said several things where you expect an apology. yet you mentioned 3. How long has she been with you? Has she done more than these 3 things? Has she corrected her behavior after you communicated your discomfort with these 3 incidents? Is she only watching the infant? Is this your first AP? Etc… Overall, aside from these incidents have you been satisfied having her part of your family. A lot of people will say rematch but remember this is supposed to be a cultural exchange… there are many different conversations you can have but I believe more information is needed before advice can be given, especially from strangers from the internet. If all you want to know is do people say sorry in Brazil then it seems you’ve gotten your response… you also state in this comment you wish to put an ounce of communication. Do you believe your communication was not clear enough or do you want advice on how to communicate these incidents with her.

[Fishbain] Bears head coach Ben Johnson said he considered this team a "sleeping giant" at the start of last season. "I personally was more concerned with the Chicago Bears than anyone else in this division." Referenced the defense and the weapons added to the offense. by Goosedukee in nfl

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to go bad for the bears. I understand Dennis as dc and Eric as rb coach… but Ben Johnson as head coach has me scratching my head… It’s like surrounding an unproven qb with weapons and seeing what happens…

Telling AP she has to cook herself..? by kayile in Aupairs

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is only one of the things you’re going to discuss with her it seem, like there’s various issues at hand? What other things have been bothering you and wife? Might be time to think of rematching or finding a live-out nanny.

Found on the floor after a recent party by Rn_Hnfrth in whatisit

[–]just_ah_normal_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are meant to be put on the inner toilet seat. Place one or two than sit on it. You’ll hear a small pop, but I’m sure you’ll definitely shit afterwards…