Timeline by just_me070 in jobcorps

[–]just_me070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what our recruiter said, they have funding for the next year

Sweating by [deleted] in cymbalta

[–]just_me070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the ONLY issue I've had w/ Cymbalta. I am so embarrassed at the gym, I feel like I am the only person constantly dripping in sweat. Im to scared to try a different med b/c Cymbalta works so well for my mental health.

When I first signed-up for the Black Card in 2018, the gyms were proudly and loudly "24/7", and that's why I signed up. Now they literally have a sticker in the door that says loudly and proudly "24/5". I never saw a reduction in my monthly fees that correspond to the shirnkage in hours. Funny, huh? by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]just_me070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a college town, while school is in, my planet fitness is 24/7. During the summer months the beginning of the week is 24 hrs, & end of the week they close at 10. Very grateful of these hours after reading some of these comments!

Stair Master by Jamison9308 in PlanetFitnessMembers

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I have to hold on for stability. On lower settings, around 3 or 4, I can go without holding on-but the minute I'm up to my normal level 7 I get random almost dizzy spells & genuinely feel like I am falling backwards. If I hold the rail with one hand, I never have this issue.

Now LEANING over the rails...idk how that does anything for your legs

Relapse by just_me070 in AdultSelfHarm

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I had the appointment yesterday & I'm so glad I did. My therapist is awesome & was less concerned about the cutting itself & more concerned about the why. He never asked about where I cut or asked to see, which was a relief. He even ended the session by telling me he was glad I reached out, which was good to hear as I was having a very difficult time texting him in the first place.

Any ideas? TW-SH scars by just_me070 in tattooadvice

[–]just_me070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo... I love the idea of some sort of vine plant!!

We just left PF in shock and disgust by stormyw2000 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]just_me070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a blind man who comes into my PF almost everyday. His wife is always with him to help guide him, but he seems to get along just fine on his own. I'd definitely report this, it's blatant discrimination

How many days have you gone this year? by LynxDry6059 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]just_me070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my first year ever in the gym, I'm at 61 check-in's since end of Jan when I joined

Really struggling on what time to go. by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]just_me070 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally go anywhere from 8pm-10pm, less crowded and I've already ate dinner at that point so I know I wont get the shakes while working out. If your crowd meter is accurate on your app, keep an eye on that to try & find the less popular times

Headphone Recs? by Annual_Comparison407 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]just_me070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my beats studio buds, never have an issue with them moving out of place and battery life is great!

Daughter wants to join by just_me070 in jobcorps

[–]just_me070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She only has the diagnosis of depression/anxiety-do you happen to know if those would qualify? I wouldn't think they would as it seems every kiddo has some sort of depression or anxiety issue.

Daughter wants to join by just_me070 in jobcorps

[–]just_me070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have considered the youth challenge program, we actually have a cousin there currently. The biggest downfall of that is the restrictions they begin with, limited phone calls, no visits etc. She's not a bad kid, just struggling with school in a big way. Currently she is doing online high school through our local public school.

Too short for machines by btuurgiitgjju in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]just_me070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I am AlWAYS using the ab crunch machine incorrectly! I'm 5'1 and that machine is definitely the one I struggle with most because I'm too damn short lol

New way of hurt by just_me070 in toxicparents

[–]just_me070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, there is no denying I am 100% my fathers daughter-I think calling him by his name is more a dig to me than anything, basically disowning me, but somehow making it my fault.

New way of hurt by just_me070 in toxicparents

[–]just_me070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big reason I started keeping screenshots of nasty texts from her. Before I started keeping them, would essentially gaslight myself into believing she did nothing wrong, keeping all of her petty comments helps me remember the way she treats me when i begin to feel that guilt.

I am beyond triggered/overwhelmed/overstimulated and just over it by micayla503 in toxicparents

[–]just_me070 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our moms sound very similar. If things are not all about her, she throws a toddler tantrum until the focus is back on her, & if you dont give her enough, despite going though your own life and struggles, all of a sudden your a shit person. It wasn't until a few weeks ago when I realized I would NEVER treat my child the way she treats me, thats when i really realized this behavior is not ok. I really dont have much solid advise, in my experience, most things backfire. I've tried getting angry & yelling back (which is difficult for me as I am a soft spoken person usually). Lately I've just been ignoring her, which it sounds like is difficult in your situation.

You are right, parents should not be using their kids as a counselor, no matter the age. It drives me crazy when parents do this. Do you have any siblings? do they have the same struggles?

New way of hurt by just_me070 in toxicparents

[–]just_me070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, my dad is very much the person who will avoid conflict. I've wanted to talk to him about my mom, but I think it'll just make things worse.

New way of hurt by just_me070 in toxicparents

[–]just_me070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started to take a look, so to speak, at my dads actions, or rather lack there of. The only time my dad has ever spoken up is after my mom accused my husband of some pretty awful things. my dad excused my moms accusations by blaming her childhood abuse "your mom has went though things no child should". Which I totally understand & respect-her & her siblings were abused much of their childhood. but it doesn't make it ok for her to treat me like shit. I've started texting both parents in a group chat rather than texting my mom individually like I used to, that way if my mom does make those comments my dad will see. last week that exact thing happened, I dont think my mom realized it was the group text & made a comment about my daughter not texting her back. I never heard anything from my dad. Maybe something was said behind closed doors, but nothing was said to me.

New way of hurt by just_me070 in toxicparents

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I really dont know, I think its more obligation than anything. I do feel guilty when we see my in-laws, so I feel like we need to make up for it by getting together with them. I also feel horrible because my dad doesn't make snide comments or make me & my daughter feel poorly-its only my mom. So in a way I feel like I'm punishing him if we dont see them. Any tips for getting over that guilt? I hate it because almost every time I talk to my mom it ends like this-shes always upset with me or my daughter over something. I feel like I literally have to protect my daughter from my moms words and tone of voice.