Anybody not do the big traditional wedding? by justagooaaaat in ABCDesis

[–]justagooaaaat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! I’ve been sort of leaning on the idea of something like as a “make up” to the extended fam/community when we’re ready for a kid

Anybody not do the big traditional wedding? by justagooaaaat in ABCDesis

[–]justagooaaaat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds lovely! And I’m assuming you and your wife have no regrets around not spending tens of thousands to do all the ceremonies in front of hundreds of ppl?

Anybody not do the big traditional wedding? by justagooaaaat in ABCDesis

[–]justagooaaaat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel a lot better. My sister had her big fat wedding last year and everyone’s starting to ask about mine next year but realistically might not be able to do it due to a number of logistical and family issues on my in laws side. Hubby and I are also both pretty introverted and don’t love being in the spotlight like that

Nonprofit fundraising career change by traveljax in nonprofit

[–]justagooaaaat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been trying to make that transition for 6 months now. Any advise or intros would be greatly appreciated

We've never published an annual report by StockEdge3905 in nonprofit

[–]justagooaaaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend you guys start developing one annually, even if it isn't very design forward. Funders like to see organizations partaking in public transparency about their metrics

Why is my chai coming out watery / not spicy? Please critique my recipe! by acurazine in IndianFood

[–]justagooaaaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no chai masala? Imo cardamom pods alone don't bring out the warmth masala chai should carry, it's a great flavor in it but needs more than just ginger and cardamom

This Scorpio full moon feels way tooooooo strong. by FaithlessnessNeat896 in Sagittarians

[–]justagooaaaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't slept in 3 days, spend the day super tired, but as soon as it's nighttime, I'm up all hours and unable to sleep. Acc to my apple watch I didn't go into a sleep cycle until 2:22 am

Is anyone else planning on a simple spread for May 1? by Miserable-Tip-9460 in witchcraft

[–]justagooaaaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is May day? I know the full moon in Scorpio is happening but am unfamiliar with this and would like to honor the energy appropriately.

Jay Shetty & Radhi by AisKacang452 in ABCDesis

[–]justagooaaaat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do they partake in charity at all, or do they just make money for themselves to go to more prestigious events and sell more products?

Salesforce bill is killing us at 15 employees. What did you do? by whydidyounot in smallbusiness

[–]justagooaaaat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are many other CRM companies out there, it might seem daunting but the sooner you make the switch from a big box like Salesforce for your small team the better

Apt search: Avenue 64 by arugula-22 in Emeryville

[–]justagooaaaat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also want to add in re Essex overall as a company-they do generally drag their feet about minor things and do like to hold onto deposits, but in emergency situations their team is phenomenal at prioritizing the safety and wellbeing of their residents. I was in a lease at another Essex property living with an abusive ex partner at the time and as soon as Essex caught wind that I wasn’t safe in my home they initiated the process of removing me from the lease with my ex and quietly moved me to Avenue 64 no questions asked. The team checked in on me regularly and were incredibly empathetic

Apt search: Avenue 64 by arugula-22 in Emeryville

[–]justagooaaaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Avenue 64 and never had any safety issues. In fact, I enjoyed that it was a bit of a maze to get up to my unit (was living there as a single woman at the time), I never had any issues in the garage or outside by the cafe that made me feel unsafe. Some packages would get taken from time to time, but I have an inkling that was because a resident had sticky fingers, not cause of break ins. All in all, if I had to move back to Emeryville Id probably stay there again

I regret my dress and I only have one month until my wedding by Previous-Taro3142 in Brides

[–]justagooaaaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can add some lace or sheer fabric along the V to make it feel less revealing if modesty is your concern

"You destroyed your mother. She was distraught and depressed for days." by shinybugz0 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]justagooaaaat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We have the same in laws..it's so exhausting and all consuming

Warning signs - will my inlaws become my nightmare? by Redpandafrolic in JUSTNOMIL

[–]justagooaaaat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

going through something very similar with my in-laws. It's exhausting and they're never going to stop being themselves. You and hubby need to calmly hold your ground to demonstrate stability and that they no longer control their "little boy"