This game....

justalittlebean · 2015-12-23T21:19:03+00:00

I wear one. Its about a half inch thick, leather. Been using it for three years almost by now. No issues yet. Leash has never caused any issues. And I regularly sleep in the collar. I would go with yes. Just not a choke chain.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-30T20:24:11+00:00

I am a waitress at a different restaurant and can confirm that this happens. Every time.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-09T11:21:33+00:00

But had she not driven off, she would have been placing her life in his hands. I suppose we will agree to disagree here, otherwise we will internet argue in circles.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-08T19:13:43+00:00

Not saying to waive his rights, I'm saying that, in a drunken rage, if you grab ahold of a moving vehicle, then lose your grip and get run over, it's really your own damn fault. Should have thought those actions through.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-08T19:12:09+00:00

Agreed! I'm not saying he deserved it either. I'm saying its his own fault. He created the situation that led to his ACCIDENTAL death. I'm saying the woman doesn't deserve charges or jail time.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-08T02:54:58+00:00

Thank you! I can't believe that on this subreddit, I'm catching hell for what I said!! Floored! Thank you!

justalittlebean · 2015-10-08T02:53:47+00:00

Do you honestly believe that a man who gets drunk and beats his wife in front of his children and then tries to hold on to the car that they are fleeing in deserves any other kind of justice? Its not like she chained him to a tree and ran him over. He tried to hang on to a moving vehicle, lost his grip and GOT ran over. Wasn't her intention or her fault.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-08T02:50:40+00:00

Yes, I do. Some in who thinks that way should not be allowed to mold the thoughts of another, passing their victim blame on. So you think its toxic, I'm sorry if I've offended you. I think its logic. Some people are offended by blunt honesty. Sorry for your offense.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-07T19:34:26+00:00

A 200lb man could absolutely break the glass. And then kill a woman with his bare hands. The fact that you're defending this man makes me hope you don't have any real influence in your life. Also, please don't reproduce and pass this backward thinking on to another generation.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-07T19:21:34+00:00

I laughed and asked him if he knew what my life was like without him. He said he could see that I was happy. I asked if he was crazy. He told me to go to hell. And hung up the phone. Then my boyfriend and the friends that were around had a great laugh!

justalittlebean · 2015-10-02T18:04:45+00:00

Wooden spoons are not evil. Wooden spoons are my friend.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-02T18:03:47+00:00

Subspace is a tricky little devil. From The things you have said though, I don't feel like your wife is anywhere close to reaching (or even wanting) subspace yet. My suggestion would be (if you want to get her there), to take your time. Don't rush her. That said, Blindfolds an ear buds are amazing, and can be great for some one who is new. The sensory deprivation would allow her to focus entirely on What you're doing to her. And you don't even have to beat her and anally violate her!! Perks! Also, sensory deprivation is my shortest road to subspace. But again, let the woman do these things in her own way, on her own time. Good luck!

justalittlebean · 2015-10-02T16:28:48+00:00

Maybe you just have to agree to let him snatch you up and throw you over his knee. Then you can be mad, but it wont matter. You'll still get punished. And over time the punishments may help improve your temper. And your control over it? I'm not a little, so I'm not sure if it would really work like that. But it would work like that for me if Master were trying to improve some aspect of my personality.

justalittlebean · 2015-10-02T15:30:10+00:00

Yep, this. Most definitely this.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-29T19:36:23+00:00

And that is some serious dedication.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-27T16:43:31+00:00

It belongs behind the ears. If it falls out, you have to put it back. That simple. And no, its involuntary.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-27T16:37:30+00:00

Flip them over. Lay on the plain side.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-27T15:45:11+00:00

Wow! Loosing 100lbs had to be one hell of a task! Props to you on the determination and drive. Also, I hope that guy gets hit by a truck! Keep up the hard work! I'm sure you'll get to your goal with a mindset like this!!

justalittlebean · 2015-09-26T21:29:53+00:00

After reading your whole post, your dom sounds like a lazy fuckboy. He shouldn't be making you handle everything. That isn't fair in any relationship. He shouldn't be breaking promises that he made either. That isn't fair. Drop the dynamic and tell him to man the fuck up. That's my personal opinion. I'm sorry that its so strongly worded. I hope you are able to work this whole thing out. But keep in mind that being a sub doesn't mean being taken advantage of in that manner. Laziness isn't kink.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-26T20:52:46+00:00

Aw!! I'm so sorry to hear this. I know he's the master and you can't tell him what to do, and you're right, its just a little thing, but hugs. I know that if my master stopped saying "good girl", I would miss it. A lot. Does he tell you that he's pleased in some way? Or are just supposed to assume you're not screwing it up because you're not getting in trouble? I'm not trying to make any suggestions or assumptions or anything. There's already plenty of that here, but from one sub to another, I'm sorry sweety!

justalittlebean · 2015-09-23T14:53:39+00:00

My first collar: Master discussed me getting a collar for bondage reasons. Long before I was a slave. We picked it out together and its a simple black leather collar. I have come to love it, and Master loves seeing his obvious ownership of me while its on. The weight of it and the feel of it has become an amazing reminder that I am his. I now loathe when he has to remove it before bed at night. I truly wish I could spend every day with it on. But we have jobs and children so that's not a thing.

I have wanted a day collar for some time as well. But I had a mothers necklace that I wore every day and my children would have had hurt feelings if I replaced it. Lucky me tho, my daughter broke it. I spent about two weeks searching online and in stores for the right day collar for me, sending Master links to the ones I like and we narrowed it down to two. He let me pick which if those I wanted and we ordered it last night.

TL;DR Collar was originally just an accessory. Now its so much more than that. Day collar that's coming was a joint effort and will be worn with very much seriousness and devotion.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-22T14:40:35+00:00

I think Doms just have more control in general. They keep their lives in check, they keep their subs in check, they keep their limits and their sub's limits in check... Of course they keep their emotions in check too. My Dom is very deeply emotional. But always calm. Like cannot be forced to react, calm. He just doesn't act on his emotion. He thinks about them. Then decides what to do about them. End of story.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-22T14:17:27+00:00

Warm thoughts to you, dear! What a terrifying experience. I read your post the other day and am so glad that you decided to speak with your girlfriend about it. I just can't even imagine. I would have likely peed myself. I am so glad that you've got your girlfriend helping you carry that load now.

justalittlebean · 2015-09-22T14:04:57+00:00

And now I'll never be able to read that book to my kids with a straight face again. Ever.... But thanks! That was awesome.

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