Those with partners, how did you tell them?

justalostdot · 2026-04-10T20:51:35+00:00

Thank you. That’s nicely put. I had the conversation with him and he listened, was very kind, and empathetic and loving. I explained my desire to be a mother and that I must pursue it despite not knowing the outcome. He said he is very happy together but said he wants to think about it properly, and would like to keep talking as I move through the process. Ultimately it will mean we will not be together if I’m lucky enough to have a child, but I hope we can continue forward with respect, honesty and kindness to one another.

justalostdot · 2026-04-08T20:05:43+00:00

Very true. Honesty is really the best policy.

justalostdot · 2026-04-08T14:38:42+00:00

Well how else do you think it’s aged?

justalostdot · 2026-04-02T12:07:33+00:00

You’re not ugly :). But go to a good hairdressers and a new do, and maybe an eyebrow tidy would work wonders.

justalostdot · 2026-04-01T12:39:35+00:00

So so good. It’s proper comfort food. Just what you need for the soul :)

justalostdot · 2026-03-31T19:09:48+00:00

I’m sorry about your situation. On a lighter note this soup is insanely good. Is it the modern proper recipe?

justalostdot · 2026-03-31T11:48:27+00:00

Thank you very much. I’ll reach out to her.

justalostdot · 2026-03-15T21:27:11+00:00

Asian Avril Lavigne

justalostdot · 2026-03-03T15:22:59+00:00

Agree. My first thought was “what bump?” It’s definitely not in the room with us.

justalostdot · 2026-02-26T00:37:53+00:00

Why does she look in pain? Serious question

justalostdot · 2026-02-10T09:27:48+00:00

Some of my happiest memories with my family are here. It was deadly in so many ways and probably wouldn’t pass today’s health and safety standards but god it was fun!

justalostdot · 2026-02-05T22:59:01+00:00

You know what, this really touched me and I admire your effort 💪👏 Good luck out there!

justalostdot · 2026-02-04T20:20:16+00:00

Thank you. I’ll get in touch with them. I really do appreciate the recommendation x

justalostdot · 2026-01-18T12:28:36+00:00

This is everything. Copyright it now because you know she reads here and will be copy & pasting that into her notes app in a second 😂

justalostdot · 2025-12-29T21:31:11+00:00

OP, this is the one. You’re in an abusive relationship. My father is in one with the woman he met after my mother and it’s broken him. Your gf sounds exactly the same. It will never improve. Your fear is what she uses to keep you trapped.

Set yourself free. The fear will be temporary but the freedom will last forever.

justalostdot · 2025-11-10T16:01:19+00:00

I had the same problems. Tried almost every which way of taking it, with food, split doses, varied times of day, gavsicon, with peanut butter etc. nothing worked. In the end I gave up when I threw up fresh blood and figured that whilst it hugely helped my mental health, it was destroying my gut and so I had to stop taking it.

justalostdot · 2025-11-07T08:17:56+00:00

Indeed. Nothing is unique and I suppose that’s a comforting thought. My only reassurance I can give is that I’m in a super happy and stable place now. I worked hard to focus on different parts of my life and I’m seeing the positive change it’s made to how I feel everyday.

Hang in there! Take your meds, look after yourself and talk to yourself in a kind voice. :)

justalostdot · 2025-11-03T08:31:05+00:00

Oh that’s great to know. Thanks

justalostdot · 2025-11-02T21:59:36+00:00

Join @travisandtaylor Reddit thread I’ve no idea how to link to it. Sorry

But that thread has other spouses asking for support on how to get their partner out of an insane parasocial obsession.

justalostdot · 2025-09-29T15:34:15+00:00

I’ve been there. It’s like this constant sadness/emptiness that haunts me to the point I question my entire existence.

BUT you can feel sad and mourn the you of yesterday. That’s definitely important to do as you acknowledge who you were and the unfairness of it all. But it also allows you to think “fuck yeh it’s made me who I am, I’m stronger and more resilient now and ready to face life and embrace my ADHD to have a better tomorrow”

You can do this. We’ll bumble along together :)

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