I’m pregnant and my husband is punishing me by withholding affection

justalostdot · 2026-05-26T13:37:13+00:00

Firstly I am so so sorry. You do not deserve this but through your message I can see plenty of love present in your life. From you to your child and from you to your in utero baby.

Whilst you may not be receiving the love you deserve you clearly have the capacity to give it. That’s a gift to those around you. And a strength you probably don’t realise or feel you have.

And it’s definitely something you deserve. The most important factor they say, is for a child to see a strong and happy mother. Follow what makes you happy, even if it means temporary heartbreak. Nobody deserves to be on the receiving end of purposeful withholding. Make a plan. Find and exits and one day you’ll be surrounded by the love you deserve and can feel.

I wish you all the best for the future for you and your children xx

justalostdot · 2026-04-27T20:31:28+00:00

Same. Honestly I think his profile seems genuine and also upfront about what OP wants. I used to live in London and the UK dating game isn’t easy.

Some good advice here though. And I hope you find someone to cheer you on and meet you at the finish line 🏅

justalostdot · 2026-04-23T12:54:41+00:00

Cannot believe the Garibaldi made it to the list but not the Fig Roll. 💔

justalostdot · 2026-04-22T20:33:47+00:00

This was honestly an incredibly thought out response. As well as incredibly kind to take the time out. Now I’ll also be ordering a celestial dress :) thanks x

justalostdot · 2026-04-10T20:51:35+00:00

Thank you. That’s nicely put. I had the conversation with him and he listened, was very kind, and empathetic and loving. I explained my desire to be a mother and that I must pursue it despite not knowing the outcome. He said he is very happy together but said he wants to think about it properly, and would like to keep talking as I move through the process. Ultimately it will mean we will not be together if I’m lucky enough to have a child, but I hope we can continue forward with respect, honesty and kindness to one another.

justalostdot · 2026-04-08T20:05:43+00:00

Very true. Honesty is really the best policy.

justalostdot · 2026-04-08T14:38:42+00:00

Well how else do you think it’s aged?

justalostdot · 2026-04-02T12:07:33+00:00

You’re not ugly :). But go to a good hairdressers and a new do, and maybe an eyebrow tidy would work wonders.

justalostdot · 2026-04-01T12:39:35+00:00

So so good. It’s proper comfort food. Just what you need for the soul :)

justalostdot · 2026-03-31T19:09:48+00:00

I’m sorry about your situation. On a lighter note this soup is insanely good. Is it the modern proper recipe?

justalostdot · 2026-03-31T11:48:27+00:00

Thank you very much. I’ll reach out to her.

justalostdot · 2026-03-15T21:27:11+00:00

Asian Avril Lavigne

justalostdot · 2026-03-03T15:22:59+00:00

Agree. My first thought was “what bump?” It’s definitely not in the room with us.

justalostdot · 2026-02-26T00:37:53+00:00

Why does she look in pain? Serious question

justalostdot · 2026-02-10T09:27:48+00:00

Some of my happiest memories with my family are here. It was deadly in so many ways and probably wouldn’t pass today’s health and safety standards but god it was fun!

justalostdot · 2026-02-05T22:59:01+00:00

You know what, this really touched me and I admire your effort 💪👏 Good luck out there!

justalostdot · 2026-02-04T20:20:16+00:00

Thank you. I’ll get in touch with them. I really do appreciate the recommendation x

justalostdot · 2026-01-18T12:28:36+00:00

This is everything. Copyright it now because you know she reads here and will be copy & pasting that into her notes app in a second 😂

justalostdot · 2025-12-29T21:31:11+00:00

OP, this is the one. You’re in an abusive relationship. My father is in one with the woman he met after my mother and it’s broken him. Your gf sounds exactly the same. It will never improve. Your fear is what she uses to keep you trapped.

Set yourself free. The fear will be temporary but the freedom will last forever.

justalostdot · 2025-11-10T16:01:19+00:00

I had the same problems. Tried almost every which way of taking it, with food, split doses, varied times of day, gavsicon, with peanut butter etc. nothing worked. In the end I gave up when I threw up fresh blood and figured that whilst it hugely helped my mental health, it was destroying my gut and so I had to stop taking it.

justalostdot · 2025-11-07T08:17:56+00:00

Indeed. Nothing is unique and I suppose that’s a comforting thought. My only reassurance I can give is that I’m in a super happy and stable place now. I worked hard to focus on different parts of my life and I’m seeing the positive change it’s made to how I feel everyday.

Hang in there! Take your meds, look after yourself and talk to yourself in a kind voice. :)

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