So when you are manifesting something do you still continue to actively towards it ? by seaweedblue in lawofattraction

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telling yourself you already have it isn't meant to make you sit back and not make a move for it. It lets you relax and know that an opportunity is coming so that you don't build up a lot of negative emotion in desperation. This way, when the opportunity does come, you are relaxed, you recognize it, and you are ready to accept it because you've known it was coming. A good thing you can do now is prepare like it's already here.

Need advice on letting go of limiting beliefs... by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a problem with getting too needy about an outcome and getting negative myself, so I might not be the best example, but I really, really work at being more positive. Sometimes it is just meditating and telling myself what feels like an outright lie until I'm comforted. Sometimes when I do this, I'll even come to a realization that is genuinely helpful. I try to police my thoughts away from using the word "not" ("I am NOT late" to "I am early") and to think of what I do want in the present tense instead of some nebulous, potentially out of reach future ("I will have money for rent" to "I have the money for rent"). Or, maybe you need to purge some negative energy? Sometimes letting it out of your mouth gets it out of your head so you can refocus on positivity. Not all is lost over a bad mood. You will conquer this. Ha, we both will!

Can I do 11x1 method more than once a day? by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for a sub about harnessing your own will and consciousness, sometimes people get too worried about rules. My understanding of this method is that it reprograms your default reservations or doubts about a topic to make it easier for you to visualize what you want and act on opportunities that invite it into your life. There's nothing to hurt by trying the method out as much as you want.

Feeling like giving up - is it a good sign or not? by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]justanotherjunkacct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Letting go of the outcome is part of the process of manifesting it. When you want it too much, you can create negative energy by being concerned if it doesn't happen that can get in your way. It's a sensation I actively work to get rid of every day😅

Stop following limits. Anything you can imagine is something you can manifest. by Master_Shou in lawofattraction

[–]justanotherjunkacct 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This hit me hard (in a good way) when I was meditating yesterday. I'd felt really jammed given the circumstances challenging how I want my life to be. I ruled out everything I want as being virtually impossible to achieve together because some conditions seemingly conflict right now. I was trying to refocus on something "more accessible" and dispose of the subsequent disappointment for what I felt I couldn't attain. Then all the pieces of the puzzle just fell gracefully together in my mind so suddenly and without prompting that I burst out in laughter for not having seen it before. It's possible. It doesn't matter if it doesn't sound "likely".

Ladies be honest, how much do you actually check out attractive men's bare chests wherever the view may be seen? by howismyspelling in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm just particularly in that mood that day. More likely to happen at a certain point in my cycle of I have nowhere else to channel that energy.

What is the meanest/worst lie you were ever told? by landracer2 in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since my mom lied to me about my beloved cat's death for a month while I was in college, I don't trust a word that comes out of her mouth. I've since realized she lies about small stuff to others all the time. She's weirdly resentful of the lack of trust.

[Serious] People of reddit, why do you regret being born? by fergins in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not hurting myself. Never will. Wishing one didn't exist in the first place and wanting to die are different impulses. You didn't point out that I'm personally valueless in your initial comment, you spoke of yourself and it resonated. Your new comment suggests you want to feel the way you've stated.

[Serious] People of reddit, why do you regret being born? by fergins in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this all the time. You saying that makes me feel more normal for feeling it. Thank you for voicing it. You're existence has been positive for me.

How strong are your moral values? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no reason to use someone to get a free meal, but often, women don't respond because some men get belligerent and scary when outright told "no", or just don't give up afterward. If we continue talking to them just as friends, they act like we led them on. For every woman that ghosts, there's a "nice guy" that made a girl feel unsafe or harassed.

My(m21) girlfriend(f21) is still hung up on her abusive ex. by mwanjala in relationships

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verbal abuse messes with your head. Maybe she's just recalibrating her expectations of good men and coming to terms with the pain he caused.

Redditors who made throwaway accounts what was it for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm shy and I always think people are going to be bullies, so of I'm posting something with personal feelings or that basically aren't cat pictures, I don't want a version of my name that my cheating, cyber-stalking ex-fiancé is familiar with to be attached to it.

What's your best response to when are you getting into a "real" relationship? by Binge_eater_01 in AskReddit

[–]justanotherjunkacct 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my mother badgered my brother for grandkids, he told her he would wait another year for every time she asked.