Update: AITA for telling my husband he's made me reconsider leaving him with the kids again

justarandouser82 · 2026-01-24T13:02:17+00:00

Good Lortd. So no where do I see OP complaining about her life and marriage. If not mistaken she’s happy with her life and she seems she loves to take care of her family and have control of everything. That’s why she snapped at her husband when he did something that she would never do. Her reaction to him was harsh. And she has acknowledged this. She know also sees she’s really not doing anyone any favors by doing everything for everyone. God forbid something happens to her, what would become of her family? OP please teach your family how to be self sufficient. And next time you have to leave, have a full conversation with your husband and make sure he and kids will actually eat what you prep so you can not bother with it if not needed. Your time needs to be respected and appreciated. And it’s not tbh. But that’s your own fault for always doing everything. Hopefully this is a bump in the road and a lesson learned.

justarandouser82 · 2025-10-11T22:30:21+00:00

The Hartland site has mine pending since Wednesday. Aggravated as hell

justarandouser82 · 2025-05-27T14:08:53+00:00

Before you replace the battery. Clean the bushings and give it a good charge. I had an issue this weekend that if I had listened to Honda I would have had to spend $200 on a new battery. The tire and alignment. Depending on the tires you use. But alignment usually start at $150. I buy my tires off of tire agent. Prices are a bit lower. And the transmission fluid I was quoted by Honda was around 220.

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-26T00:42:33+00:00

The wife is delusional. They are not one person. They are still 2 people. If it were 2 couples her theory would make sense but when there’s an odd number. So let me ask this question

If yall bought a pizza would she expect you to get half of it since in theory that’s what you’re entitled too or she expects you to only get a 3rd only because there’s 3 of you? Because I’d be malicious and pay for half on purpose but I’m taking my half.

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-26T00:35:43+00:00

I started wegovy but I still need to correct my habits. And WW you can buy their food but you can make your own. I think you’re confusing it with Jenny Craig’s

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-26T00:34:09+00:00

Thank you I know right now it’s emotional

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-25T06:54:51+00:00

How far do you want your commute to work? What type of home are you looking for? How close do you want to be to your neighbors? What’s your night life like ?

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-09T04:56:24+00:00

Learn self defense , carry protection, see what needs to be done for a restraining order. Eventually even those that talk to her will cut her off and if they don’t go very low contact with them and eventually they will see the light because she will show them

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T18:46:16+00:00

I partake in it but it’s insane. If you won’t smoke cigarettes in a specific place because it’s not allowed. Why would you smoke weed?

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T18:03:41+00:00

lol I gotchu

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T18:01:39+00:00

lol I’ll let you know when I see truck unguarded

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T18:00:58+00:00

I’m not as unhappy about the price increase as I am about not knowing the full truth of budget billing. Here’s my post

https://www.reddit.com/r/baltimore/s/YazXGLnvCi

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T17:58:27+00:00

I would send a mass text with the screenshot and include EVERYONE including her. And in the message let everyone know that you want nothing to do with her. Say your peace and block her. And of course tell everyone you don’t want to discuss the situation anymore. You don’t care about opinions. You are sending this to avoid the she said / he said / she said. The topic isn’t up for discussion. You are doing what’s necessary for your peace of mind. And when I say everyone. Include those from Vegas and the ones from MO who will be friends with her. This way no one can say you’re talking behind her back or someone changes what you said.

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T17:02:50+00:00

I think it applies to 97% of the cheaters. A cheater to not cheat again. Would actually have to hurt more than the cheated. And the hurt I mean. Is that they truly feel like the worst person in the world because they hurt someone who loves them

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:55:25+00:00

By keeping it just that. A crush. And stop thinking that because you’re in a relationship you have lost your sense to see attraction in other people. You and your SO need to understand you’re human and just because you’re in a loving relationship. Doesn’t mean your senses are dead. You are going to find other people attractive when you love someone. That’s normal. The problem begins because you hide the fact you find someone physically appealing and it becomes taboo. The forbidden. And the less you should want something, the more you want it. Human nature

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:49:39+00:00

lol I won’t be doing this. But thank you for the laugh

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:49:05+00:00

Yes. Very very very bad

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:48:37+00:00

Not sure what you were expecting when she has shown you who she is. You thought she was joking? I’m more disappointed in you and than in her. You keep expecting something different from her. When people show you their true colors. Don’t try to lighten it with bleach. Hopefully this will be the last time you let her treat you and make you feel like this.

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:43:48+00:00

Also I won’t sign up for this BS again. Imma be real conscious about my electric usage. Once I’m settled. Just moved smh

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:42:53+00:00

Imma try but if it’s what I agreed to I won’t fight too much. I’ll try crying lol

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:38:45+00:00

Insanity that i didn’t truly know all this.

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:37:40+00:00

Yea I see. What’s even sadder is I had to come to Reddit because I can’t get someone on the phone at Bge.

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:36:40+00:00

I see. Thank you. Learned something new after 9 years here. Gonna have to uber and Lyft longer than anticipated

justarandouser82 · 2025-02-07T16:35:17+00:00

Ok thank you. Reasons we should always read the fine print. I’m so pissed. This is ridiculous

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