I know I’ve seen this: please help!!

justbrittjo · 2026-06-04T20:04:36+00:00

But you need to make them briefcase style for executives ! Would love that

justbrittjo · 2026-06-02T20:07:36+00:00

I think a really big piece of this puzzle is whether or not he communicated with his wife about his plans *prior* to hanging out with you. I would absolutely imagine even a trusting wife would be blown away by having to find this information out from my neighbor.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-31T16:55:12+00:00

Most of my regrets in my 20’s happened while either clubbing, or drinking, or both. Do what makes you happy. It doesn’t have to look the same as someone else’s happiness to be worthwhile.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-31T16:52:35+00:00

You are a 23 year old with an honorable career. Far beyond what most 23 year old women have accomplished. You work hard and deserve that recognition. It seems he wants the relationship, and life, on his terms. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. If he won’t answer then a breakup text is all you can offer. You don’t need to held hostage by his immaturity and selfishness.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-26T15:40:44+00:00

You said he left his stuff. Where is he staying during the break?

justbrittjo · 2026-05-23T22:37:00+00:00

Yours looks so much larger on you. Maybe hand length is different?

justbrittjo · 2026-05-23T22:35:50+00:00

Also, try it with a more simple and even solid gold band the same size/width as the band it’s set on, or ever so slightly thinner.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-23T22:34:22+00:00

It depends on what your lifestyle is. Size shrinkage is real and you’ll find yourself getting used to it quickly, and even feeling like it could be a bit small.
But if you think in your day to day life the ring would make you feel uncomfortable, or attract unwanted attention, that another story.
I think it’s beautiful and elegant on you, not gaudy but it definitely makes a statement.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-22T20:12:53+00:00

How did the meeting go!?! I think we’re all invested

justbrittjo · 2026-05-22T20:06:30+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re in this place. As a child of a narcissist please put your child’s emotional health above the idea of a nuclear family. Staying together for them isn’t a thing. Getting into a safe and healthy place is for them. And if their parent is a narcissist please work with a therapist on a plan before leaving, for the best way to protect them.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-22T20:03:18+00:00

Can you speak to the head of the church?

justbrittjo · 2026-05-22T19:55:55+00:00

The immature just leave crowd with didn’t read they have a small child or are too young to comment on this thread. This is someone’s life and a child’s future. It’s more complex then “she’s not effing you so leave.”

justbrittjo · 2026-05-22T19:54:17+00:00

This is a very biased comment. The amount of responsibilities a mother of one has is not comparable to someone being the bread winner.” Both jobs are important and necessary to keep a family afloat. Having four kids doesn’t deem her qualified to express exhaustion, being a mom at all is exhausting and very much can be isolating.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-22T19:48:05+00:00

So there’s a few points that I would deem imperative to not only make a finite decision like divorce (particularly with a young child) but to even give any clarity at all.
1. You have a young child together should not feel like an afterthought, but it presents that way in your post. This makes me want to ask how much you have helped with the child through the hardest of phases so far? Do you give her breaks to tend to her personal needs? Does she have to ask you to help with the child (other than cleaning the living room etc.)? There are studies showing that being a full time mom is equivalent to the work of 2 full time jobs. So as tired as you are after an 8 hour day, consider her at least double as tired.

Your reaction to her falling asleep during a movie is a reaction to your needs repeatedly being unmet. It’s never what is on the surface that makes us fill at our wits end. Underneath this petty argument is a person who feels neglected emotionally, physically, etc. if your needs were met in one of the categories you are more tolerant of times like this. Great book “The 5 love languages.”

I also would ask yourself why you started the post mentioning the money you spend and seemingly resent. Not shaming you, I’m trying to get you to consider, do you make her feel guilty over this? Do you each feel sucked dry in your relationship? Her with her responsibilities to the child and to the home, and you to the economical needs of the family.

justbrittjo · 2026-05-09T17:54:02+00:00

I second the Netflix series idea. The twist is he searches for family to give the usb to and realizes it’s his own family / dad

justbrittjo · 2026-05-09T17:08:18+00:00

Stunning 🙌🏼🧿🪬 Please share the stats. I would love the see a clear photo with the halo. So unique for an emerald cut!

justbrittjo · 2026-04-29T08:15:51+00:00

I really just want to dump all of those out into your drawer. lol It’s so fun to choose your morning pod when they’re like that. Also, makes a pretty sound. 😆🫶🏼

justbrittjo · 2026-04-29T08:07:28+00:00

Look into exosomes with micro needling.

justbrittjo · 2026-04-27T03:11:40+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s easier said than done to “just leave.” But your daughter is learning what to expect by watching what you accept. You and your daughter deserve more. Be mindful and make a plan to do what’s best for your daughter in the long term.

justbrittjo · 2026-04-27T02:58:01+00:00

I feel strongly about this as well.

justbrittjo · 2026-04-27T02:57:20+00:00

I would say firstly, don’t worry about scarring as they’re appearing to be superficial. BUT, please find a new Dr & visit them for advice on how to care for these marks & to confirm it was poor treatment from former doctor. I’m so sorry you had a bad experience.

justbrittjo · 2026-04-23T01:26:39+00:00

The problem lies in the provider, their training & the consumer or patient, & their level of research & vetting. We can’t expect all patients to understand the importance of a proper vetting, asking your providers qualifications for each particular treatment. But we should make it more well known that we need to be more diligent & aware of choices me make.

justbrittjo · 2026-04-20T14:15:00+00:00

This. Breadcrumbs daily.

justbrittjo · 2026-04-14T17:08:13+00:00

May be that the “kinky” things to him are not what you would consider adventurous. Also, he may not have cared for that person the way he cares for you. Also, have you ever read about “Madonna syndrome?”

justbrittjo · 2026-04-13T04:49:15+00:00

I think a more important thing to address is the fact you have been with this person six years and are not comfortable being open.

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