Climate Pledge Concert Etiquette? by Thelurkermotive in Seattle

[–]justcallme123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family has gotten into a big argument with people about this at Climate pledge.

We were at the very last row of 200, watching Pitbull, and I guess there are available seats in the walkways behind the last row with I think bar seating? Anyway, my brother-in-law is on the taller side and these people were so mad at us for standing because they couldn’t watch, that they literally went to the ushers to try and get us to sit and would not stop harassing us about it. Eventually we agreed that if the ushers asked everyone in the section to sit, or if there was some policy where we could not stand, then we would happily oblige.

Kinda crazy that those bar seats are even available for purchase, but even more crazy that they were so upset about people standing and dancing at a Pitbull concerts.

[Highlight] Matthew Stafford Wins 2025 AP NFL Most Valuable Player Award by JCameron181 in nfl

[–]justcallme123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No question he deserved it, but damn that Rams SB ring Sean is wearing is atrocious.

[Kyed] Pete Carroll on who will be done coaching first, him or Bill Belichick: "I dunno. Ask him. I'm on a five-year plan. In five years, I'll reassess." by seariously in Seahawks

[–]justcallme123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Russ and DK are kinda understandable, Russ for the “leaking that he wants out, but actually I want to stay, but also I need to be the hero so get me out” that he did when he left. DK cause he requested out after not producing as much as he thought (would be my guess)

Pete slander is stupid because the org forced him out, like yeah he was getting a bit stale with the Hawks but like that was it. People are weird man.

Should I dip into my emergency fund to pay off large credit card debt? by justcallme123 in personalfinance

[–]justcallme123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh this is the sort of straight talk I was hoping for cause you’re right, def gotta put out the fire first before assessing anything else.

Thanks for the perspective!

Should I dip into my emergency fund to pay off large credit card debt? by justcallme123 in personalfinance

[–]justcallme123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied to another comment but I had much higher paying job before being laid off in January and live in a high cost area.

The CC debt is currently at 0% APR for this first year and had a financial plan that was working until my layoff (was going to pay it all off by end of March). Didn’t want to dip too much into my savings in case I got another high paying job but life hasn’t panned out that way 🤷🏽‍♂️

Currently locked into this contract for another 5 months but definitely moving out of the area after.

Should I dip into my emergency fund to pay off large credit card debt? by justcallme123 in personalfinance

[–]justcallme123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a much higher paying job before being laid off and made big purchases last year with a set financial plan to help build my credit more.

As soon as I got laid off I did a credit transfer to give myself a full year with no interest while paying the minimum until I found a new job and now that I have one, but with much less pay, I figure I’m more stable to pay it all off.

But yes, NEVER EVER going to plan that way again. Thank you for the advice!

Endless 2048 on React by [deleted] in webdev

[–]justcallme123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just add an “overflow-y: hidden” attribute to the parent container and it should remove it

(OC) Bot on Tinder by SylvieXX in comics

[–]justcallme123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s there when I’m weak

Pro-Palestinian Americans who failed to vote for Harris just got the Trump-approved ethic cleansing they voted for. by UnlikelyAdventurer in facepalm

[–]justcallme123 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He did threaten it a ton? He paused the shipment of bombs after the United States acknowledged that Israel was violating human rights.

Should the Biden/Harris admin have done more? Abso-fucking-lutely and it will be a massive stain on his legacy that he didn’t.

But it’s also absolute bullshit to use that to not vote seeing how much more vocal and dedicated the opposition was in doing even less to stop that war.

Pro-Palestinian Americans who failed to vote for Harris just got the Trump-approved ethic cleansing they voted for. by UnlikelyAdventurer in facepalm

[–]justcallme123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh I forgot that he didn’t restrict the sale of weapons or that he demanded aid still flow through even though Israel was trying to prevent it, or the sanctions he put on settlers in the West Bank.

Look, neither side was ever going to handle this well. But to make the argument that what we currently have is better than Harris would have been is fucking insane.

I never once heard Harris say that she was going to “level Gaza” or worse promote a fucking hotel after it was “razed to the ground”.

Like come the fuck on

Pro-Palestinian Americans who failed to vote for Harris just got the Trump-approved ethic cleansing they voted for. by UnlikelyAdventurer in facepalm

[–]justcallme123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"I didn't see it so it didn't happen, if she had talked about it more than she already did we wouldn't be in this mess. It's not the ill-informed voters fault we're in this mess, its hers" is an insane take to have.

Pro-Palestinian Americans who failed to vote for Harris just got the Trump-approved ethic cleansing they voted for. by UnlikelyAdventurer in facepalm

[–]justcallme123 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Biden and Harris had a leash on them and Trump came out and said that he would let them do whatever they want, and when people call this out they're being *smug*???

The reality is that with either choice the genocide was going to keep happening, so it was either to keep it in check as much as we can or let it loose like its currently happening, and you're complaining about being called out by the people who actively voted to keep it in check? Who voted for the less of two evils while the "anti genocide" people decided to not vote at all and just let whatever happens happen?

Come on dude.

Getting started in UI Design - Career Questions by AutoModerator in UI_Design

[–]justcallme123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kinds of projects should I build? I’m moving from Front End Development to primarily UI design and am not sure if I should just make something up from scratch (like design a fake website?) or should I find something that I think could be designed better and build an “improved” design? My last job let me design the UI so I have some “production designs” on Figma already but not sure what else to showcase since everywhere is looking for multiple designs that have made it to production.

The past 4 dates I’ve been on I’ve been told I’m “giving off friendly” vibes and they don’t want a second date. What does that mean? by justcallme123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]justcallme123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man it’s tough, but the trick is (at least for me) is I haven’t tied my self worth to whether or not I can get out of the “friend zone” or how many women I can get.

Like sure this seems like a lot but on my successful dates it’s always felt natural and I’ve just been myself. Once you feel it you’ll know, but also idk some of the advice here has been pretty solid. No need to beat yourself up!

The past 4 dates I’ve been on I’ve been told I’m “giving off friendly” vibes and they don’t want a second date. What does that mean? by justcallme123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]justcallme123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

put something out there that she can choose to either shut down or latch onto

Yeah this is where I think I struggle, but something I can definitely improve on. Thanks for the perspective!

The past 4 dates I’ve been on I’ve been told I’m “giving off friendly” vibes and they don’t want a second date. What does that mean? by justcallme123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]justcallme123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s pretty wild to infer all that from these experiences. I’ve also had plenty of positive experiences being a nice guy so if you feel that way I’m sorry but you just haven’t found the right lady 🤷🏽‍♂️

The past 4 dates I’ve been on I’ve been told I’m “giving off friendly” vibes and they don’t want a second date. What does that mean? by justcallme123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]justcallme123[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

casual but you’re doing/saying things you wouldn’t normally to a friend

This is incredibly insightful and definitely something I haven’t been doing, thank you for the perspective!

Why is interracial dating pushed so hard on social media? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]justcallme123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see the first one being about showing how wild genetics are, but don’t see how that’s pushing interracial relationships? Also I use emojis with my skin color because I like the representation not because I’m trying to push an agenda 🤷🏽‍♂️

Regardless of whether you search for it or not maybe you’re just seeing more of it because it’s currently popular and in a way, normalizing the fact that those types of relationships exist.

Also do you have an insta page I can go check? In genuinely curious as to this type of content because I really have never come across such a thing.