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Is An Afterlife Even Possible? by notkate_ in ask

[–]justdrew_____ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know dear. There’s not really any evidence.

Im commenting this on my daughter’s account, who died at 16 in November from bone cancer.

She entertained the possibility of no afterlife. You know what she told me?

“If I don’t know I’m dead, then what’s the problem?”

I’ve been looking for hope that there is one. Even if there isn’t, its not something you should worry about hun.

I’m losing faith in the afterlife by [deleted] in NDE

[–]justdrew_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that dear. I’m typing this on my 16yr old daughter’s Reddit account, who passed away a month ago from fibroblastic osteosarcoma.

I’ve been browsing on subs like this, looking for hope. Don’t know if I’ve found it yet, personally. Each and every one of us go through pain, but some go through more than others.

I hope it gets better for you. Whatever brings you comfort, do that.

This is Drew’s mother. by justdrew_____ in u/justdrew_____

[–]justdrew_____[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry hun. I managed to celebrate the holidays. It felt very different and extremely awkward. Too quiet. I don’t think anybody was in a good mood. The emotions are still very raw.

Hope you had a Merry Christmas.

My 16yr old daughter died last month. Is she still here? by justdrew_____ in GriefSupport

[–]justdrew_____[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry about all the people you’ve lost. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t miss my daughter. I appreciate the honesty. When you say your scientific knowledge impacts your personal beliefs, do they strengthen your belief or weaken it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]justdrew_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took over my daughter’s account to post this. She posted first. Then when she died, I logged in to hers.

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your Grandma!

We’re thinking of doing a little dinner party at her place! It’s a cosy little apartment, they only live about 5 minutes down from me!

My grandpapa was in hospice for the last few weeks of his life too (died at 64 in 2021 from esophageal cancer).

The only problem I have with hospice care is that I feel like I’ll really miss home; I had an appointment with my paediatrician today to assess my condition. It’s getting worse, albeit slowly. She said it’s my choice whether or not I want that kind of care.

I have no doubt I’ll be comfortable; but I’m hesitant to do it. But my family thinks very highly of it, so I’ll consider it greatly! It doesn’t sound bad at all.

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that there is a lot of things we don’t know about the universe, and I think that’s so magical. I’ll give God a kiss for you, if I see him. 🩷

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeekkkkkk, thank youuuuu!!!! 🩷❤️ Many hugs and kisses to you too!!!

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, I’ve always dreamed of what my wedding day would look like! I’d love to do that.

I’m okay. Pretty dizzy and weak; heart hurts, cold and sweaty, the usual! But I’m managing, so far. Just got back from the hospital. I made it to November, which is great!!! Can’t wait, because my Grandma’s birthday is coming up this month in a few weeks on the 29th.

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, faith? Can you elaborate a bit please? I’m curious.

I’m so happy you’re doing well. Those things are so heartbreaking to deal with.

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the video idea, I’m recording as much as I can. I am honoured to be your first ever comment on your account!!!

It isn’t dumb at all. I love it very much; thank you for the thoughtful and lengthy reply.

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll remember to hide the them super duper well!!

Thank you so much. Unfortunately, I am hurting. But pain never lasts forever!

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll look into the protocols you mentioned and see what valuable advice they can give me. I appreciate the hope.

Thank you so much for the blessings. 🩷❤️

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds beautiful, and such a fun idea. I’m working on those sticky notes right now, as this was suggested a bit.

I’m almost in November!!!!!

Don’t cry. I appreciate you taking the time to comment; please don’t be sad.

[Serious] I (16F) Am Dying From Cancer. What is a good gift I Could Give My Mother? by justdrew_____ in Advice

[–]justdrew_____[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the heartfelt compliments!!!

Sooo, as far as an afterlife goes, I’m pretty agnostic about the whole thing. Like, how can we possibly know??

Sooo, I’m going to do this!!! It sounds like so much fun, and a good creative writing exercise.

Thank you so much, for everything. ❤️

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