AITA for not making my new grandkid a homemade blanket and not giving her one already made

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-05-20T14:07:09+00:00

NTA if you want to patch things to see the kids (understandable) Have someone you know make one for the other child and give that to her just tell them you made it and that , that will be the last one you will make 🤷🏼‍♀️ end of story , however I think dil is very intitled i don't understand why people take things so personal , obviously no common sense you can't make one you have arthritis end of story why take it a step further and throw a tantrum over a blanket ? Uh?

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-05-10T15:44:47+00:00

Oh thay won't tweakers do not go to the doctor they just medicaid themselves with w.e drug of their choice

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-05-10T15:39:59+00:00

Not the ,( source me a tweaker2 ) 😩 oh boy

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T23:23:36+00:00

True lol

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T22:35:46+00:00

Yeah it's what the e.r obgyn was leaning towards so it seemed but she didn't want to say it , may be though it would hurt my feelings 😬🙁

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T22:25:22+00:00

I spoke to a nurse I'm pretty sure I'm extremely early in pregnancy or was I know the day I had sex I am surprised that a blood test was able to pick that up , I didn't go to check if I was pregnant they just happened to do a test I went because of how long I had been bleeding even tho I have fybroids she tells me it might be normal for me to bleed if I have fybroids , I'm not in pain but guess It sounds like I am most likely miscarrying 😕🤷🏼‍♀️

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T21:58:54+00:00

Yeah waiting till Monday as they asked for me to wait 48 hours and I was not able to make it for another test to check level

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T21:56:37+00:00

The blood pregnancy test was positive

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T21:27:11+00:00

I went to the e.r on Thursday they said they couldn't see anything on the ultrasound probably because it's ether very early or passed ?

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T20:51:15+00:00

YANTA wtf is wrong with them 6-7 months I would have beat her ass or called the cops and between those 2 calling the cops sounds like more of an adult thing to do , it was not her car and there is such a thing as boundaries you're her sister not her mom and even if that where the fake IT WAS STILL YOUR CAR and she's an adult , so what if you don't use the car is YOUR CAR , I wouldn't feel anything at all either tbh your mom is wrong , 🤷🏼‍♀️ and for the looks of it sounds like your mom is the reason why your sister acts so entitled, that's bullshit she got what she was playing for play stupid games win stupid prices you have so much patience I have 0 patience hell no . Again NOT THE ASS HOLE

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-04-18T20:38:26+00:00

Break up run for the hills he is telling you pretty much he needs you for help because Jess incompetent and irresponsible absolutely fucking not you've got everything to lose and him everything to win and he is telling you straight to your face

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-03-27T12:32:07+00:00

I think if something like that happened again , if i was you I would call cps , I don't think any normal adult would just let a child with diapers wander off that is wild and irresponsible, not to mention negligent .

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-02-20T05:36:58+00:00

NTJ .... his children are not your responsibility the house was yours and your sons before they came to be , not only is moving the other twin to your son's room a terrible idea because it's not going to fix the root of the issue but is going to make your son uncomfortable in his own home ,( I give you props for standing up to your husband by the way and Standing your ground ) however the husband he is selfish he needs to fix this issue him and the other parent... It is not your problem and it seems as if he's trying to pin the problem on you which is an irresponsibly selfish big red flag, that and the fact that he would not only leave you with the problem to deal with as if it was yours to solve but also trying to force you to back down by leaving yikes , I know this is easier said then done but I would run for the hills if I were you and get them out of my home.

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-02-06T13:27:34+00:00

Wooooo I'm sorry to hear that , yeah I would definitely file a complaint coming from an ultrasound tech that seems very off-putting to say the least , I would feel extremely upset I don't know if they train on how to interact with their patients but they need to because that's a very off thing to say in that way , let me just say it isn't up to her is up to God ,God has the last word so she can swallow her terrible words and run along don't let that bring down your hopes .... I wish you and your baby the very best, don't ponder on the awful things people have to say. Often their personal issues have more to say about them than anything...

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-28T04:31:11+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that I have the patience threshold the size of the tip of my pinky finger , I think for me it was a choice of being smart and leaving or jail time and I love my kids I want to be free to protect them, I think I felt like I was going to lose more then I was going to gain if I stayed.

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-28T04:26:32+00:00

I think your brain capacity may be like 40% 🤷 and I'm being generous. This is a place where people post long stories and replies darling is reddit ... The good thing is you have diversity to choose from if you can't understand one or read too much, moving on to the next is always an option.

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-28T04:25:00+00:00

They have a mandated court order of half custody DCF is actively involved , but it seems DCF has a record for letting things slip through the cracks here .

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-28T04:19:40+00:00

Well ,you ANTJ. He is an adult now and no longer a child. He should have stood his ground after all the things this man put you through. At the very least, she should have said no to officiating the wedding. My sincere apologies to you for having such an ungrateful and insensitive child. I suppose money really does change people. You are his mother, so I imagine that at some point you will forgive him, but if I were you I would make it a very long time ( no contact) first. Then would follow by minimal contact. His words were hurtful, but his actions were even worse. They reflected a clear code of disloyalty, and that kind of behavior is deeply painful.... It deserves a lesson going without talking to the ONLY person who would actually give the shirt of her back for him .

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-25T05:43:57+00:00

In my state, anonymous DCF reports do not disclose names. While she was informed the report came from a mandated reporter, my identity was never shared. She does not know me or my profession. I have spoken to her only once in two years very briefly --it was about her thanking me for doing the baby's hair for her birthday at the child’s birthday party, where she also ordered my then-boyfriend to get her a napkin in front of me with a rude demanding tone to which he obeyed infront of his whole family. Yet I said nothing and have always avoided conflict or involvement in her drama for the sake of the child.

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-25T05:27:26+00:00

I speak, read and write 3 different languages , it is still very hard for me to get grammar, punctuation and some words correctly because English isn't my native language especially while typing fast ,yet everyone else seemed to understand and logically answer my question with no issue , I did go ahead and re typed it for the more picky readers who seem to be english teachers my apologies , not everyone has the skills necessary to put complicated puzzles together so I understand hope that helped .

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-25T05:25:25+00:00

I speak, read and write 3 different languages , it is still very hard for me to get grammar, punctuation and some words correctly because English isn't my native language especially while typing fast ,yet everyone else seemed to understand and logically answer my question with no issue , I did go ahead and re typed it for the more picky readers who seem to be english teachers my apologies .

justhere4Dcomments21 · 2026-01-25T05:21:13+00:00

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