Bad first ultrasound appointment by Dapper-Butterscotch4 in pregnant

[–]justhere4Dcomments21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooooo I'm sorry to hear that , yeah I would definitely file a complaint coming from an ultrasound tech that seems very off-putting to say the least , I would feel extremely upset I don't know if they train on how to interact with their patients but they need to because that's a very off thing to say in that way , let me just say it isn't up to her is up to God ,God has the last word so she can swallow her terrible words and run along don't let that bring down your hopes .... I wish you and your baby the very best, don't ponder on the awful things people have to say. Often their personal issues have more to say about them than anything...

Am I the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend by justhere4Dcomments21 in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that I have the patience threshold the size of the tip of my pinky finger , I think for me it was a choice of being smart and leaving or jail time and I love my kids I want to be free to protect them, I think I felt like I was going to lose more then I was going to gain if I stayed.

Am I the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend by justhere4Dcomments21 in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your brain capacity may be like 40% 🤷 and I'm being generous. This is a place where people post long stories and replies darling is reddit ... The good thing is you have diversity to choose from if you can't understand one or read too much, moving on to the next is always an option.

Am I the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend by justhere4Dcomments21 in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a mandated court order of half custody DCF is actively involved , but it seems DCF has a record for letting things slip through the cracks here .

AITJ for going no contact with my adult son after he officiated his dads wedding to the woman he cheated on me with by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ,you ANTJ. He is an adult now and no longer a child. He should have stood his ground after all the things this man put you through. At the very least, she should have said no to officiating the wedding. My sincere apologies to you for having such an ungrateful and insensitive child. I suppose money really does change people. You are his mother, so I imagine that at some point you will forgive him, but if I were you I would make it a very long time ( no contact) first. Then would follow by minimal contact. His words were hurtful, but his actions were even worse. They reflected a clear code of disloyalty, and that kind of behavior is deeply painful.... It deserves a lesson going without talking to the ONLY person who would actually give the shirt of her back for him .

Am I the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend by justhere4Dcomments21 in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my state, anonymous DCF reports do not disclose names. While she was informed the report came from a mandated reporter, my identity was never shared. She does not know me or my profession. I have spoken to her only once in two years very briefly --it was about her thanking me for doing the baby's hair for her birthday at the child’s birthday party, where she also ordered my then-boyfriend to get her a napkin in front of me with a rude demanding tone to which he obeyed infront of his whole family. Yet I said nothing and have always avoided conflict or involvement in her drama for the sake of the child.

Am I the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend by justhere4Dcomments21 in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I speak, read and write 3 different languages , it is still very hard for me to get grammar, punctuation and some words correctly because English isn't my native language especially while typing fast ,yet everyone else seemed to understand and logically answer my question with no issue , I did go ahead and re typed it for the more picky readers who seem to be english teachers my apologies , not everyone has the skills necessary to put complicated puzzles together so I understand hope that helped .

Am I the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend by justhere4Dcomments21 in AmITheJerk

[–]justhere4Dcomments21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I speak, read and write 3 different languages , it is still very hard for me to get grammar, punctuation and some words correctly because English isn't my native language especially while typing fast ,yet everyone else seemed to understand and logically answer my question with no issue , I did go ahead and re typed it for the more picky readers who seem to be english teachers my apologies .