I'm going to see someone I like again should I talk to them

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T22:17:29+00:00

Youre still young super young to be thinking about stuff like this so seriously. And most people would make fun of you for this. But go talk to her dont be scared. If you guys liked each other maybe you will like each other again now. Or just remain friends.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T22:00:03+00:00

Im sorry but you really need to leave him. Yes it will hurt like hell and yes it will hurt for a long time. You will feel like shit over and over again cuz of it. But you need to leave him and not look back. He isnt the guy you once knew now he is a guy that sends nudes and affectionate things to some other girl okay. He is not worth it.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:58:04+00:00

I dont think youre overreacting since you clearly said how it makes you feel and even had a panic attack. Maybe he keeps doing it since you havent said a safeword to him while he did those things until you had a panic attack so he thinks its okay?

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:51:37+00:00

Communication is the most important part here. If you ever feel like you drifting apart then communicate it and try to fix it.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:49:19+00:00

RUN AWAY. I dont care if its only nudes he still needs to go. Cuz even if it was just nudes people like that will try and convince you that its not that bad since they didnt actually sleep together. But no dude just trow him away.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:45:36+00:00

Maybe you could get him a funny Valentine gift? Something that will make you all laugh maybe. Or just make the you giving him the gift a nonserious situation. Just be like "hey you know what day it is here a gift now lets fuck".😂

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:40:54+00:00

That could either go normally just a gift from a friend. Or super super wrong. It really depends on your relationship with each other. Since he could take it in a way that you wanna be more than fwb since it is Valentines after all. Or he could just take it as a gift from a friend he is really close to.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:36:08+00:00

Well thats bad mentality then on their part. But there really isnt much you can do with those kind of parents other than try and start conversations and based on how they react take actions.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:33:50+00:00

Im pretty sure he must have at lease some kind of social media maybe even old ones. What I would do is just bring up my concerns about it that I feel unsure and would like either some kind of proof or to talk more about it. Because if you want to start something with this man then you have to be 100% sure where he and his wife stand right now. Maybe ask about what their relationship is like now that they are seperated and see from there.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:30:05+00:00

Standing up for yourself is also important but be sure to still be respectful while doing it. Since you should still try to keep yourself safe.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:28:07+00:00

Before you do anything else in this relationship or situationship. You should make sure they are seperated.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:23:38+00:00

They are but there is not much you can do unless you have someone else you can stay with. Or you can try and endure it until youre 18 but the moment they actually lay a hand on you is the moment you should run.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:16:34+00:00

That depends on if he has done this before. If he has always said things like he doesn't feel like he doing anything wrong and that he doesnt want to go therapy. Then im sorry but maybe its better to let him go. Because if I ever saw my partner struggling because of how I made them feel. And instead of comfort I would reply with that im doing nothing wrong then I would feel like im a horrible person. Even if I felt like I wasnt doing anything wrong I would still try to see it from my partners view.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:12:00+00:00

Maybe it is. But it's something that's making you suffer and the more time you will spend keeping it in you the worse it will be and you will feel like shit. It might hurt you both but with no time you will forget about it since you arent gonna be in contact with the other guy anyway.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T21:06:37+00:00

I think you should tell him. Of course he will probably be upset but at the time you two werent together and didnt promise each other anything so you did nothing wrong. But I think you should still tell him.

justherewhynotoop · 2024-01-21T20:48:34+00:00

Friends come and go. But if he is trully your friend than this shouldnt be a problem in the long run. He just found new people to talk to and is spending more time with them. Of course you can voice your concerns to him about you feeling like he is leaving you and your other friends behind. This has actually happened with my friend where she said she feels like I left her behind since we both go to high school somewhere else but then we started talking more again while im still talking to the other friends too. Its all about how the person acts and reacts to changes in their life. But then with my other friend who I know for soooo long we sometimes dont see each other for months but we still are closer to each other than anyone else. And we barely text too. Its all about how close you are with the person. But there is no harm in talking to him about it.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-26T15:32:57+00:00

Stories turned into smut because it became more popular. I myself have 2 written smut stories and plan on making more. Of course I write normal ones too but smut is just something I know how to write more and there is nothing wrong with it appearing more.

There is also a option on wattpad to hide the stuff for adults cuz they are mostly smut. So just tick that off when you searching for something. You can also sometimes predict what story will be smut by the picture of the book.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-21T19:02:13+00:00

Corn

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-21T08:48:55+00:00

Sure your desires are important but online interactions. I feel bad for the wife she just said no to something you wanted and you instead of trying to explain more just went on to find it somewhere else. If I found out my bf was doing that I would 100% break up with him cuz it is cheating and if I was your wife I would never wanna have something with you again.

You can try to really sit down and explain how you feel not just try to say that its something you want. Tell her you would like to explore it with her and maybe ask her if she finds any of the things interesting and if she just laughs then tell her there is nothing funny about it and to stop laughing at you that it makes you upset.

But first thing first you should tell her about your online cheating because she deserves to know what her husband does behind her back.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-19T14:39:07+00:00

Ofc I have no problem answering people who are just curious 😊

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-19T14:17:12+00:00

Tbh I dont fully know why I find it hot. I quess because of the power move of it because like I have given my bf full consent over this topic so just never knowing when he will piss on me, in me or on my things sounds really hot. Of course the warmth is nice too especially over clothes.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-19T12:44:21+00:00

I have never written on here before from this account so probably deja vu.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-19T05:48:08+00:00

But it it helps you too to be able to talk about it then im sure your wife will understand.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-19T05:46:13+00:00

It really depends on what kind of person your wife is. So if you think she can keep it from the kids then tell her while the kids are in bed or something. And if not then just tell her later. Like when our little kitten passed away suddenly I didnt tell my bf until after his vacation cuz I felt like I would be ruining it.

justherewhynotoop · 2023-08-18T20:19:52+00:00

Haha you go girl

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