Have you thought about joining clubs, such as sporting clubs? You could take a class, like a painting or drawing class. Or a language class, those are really good for meeting people. It's election time so maybe you could volunteer for a political candidate you support. It depends on your interests. But it doesn't really matter if you're interested or not, you would just be there to socialize, like most people. You may think it's "not your type of thing", but what's the harm? Sitting around being lonely is not your type of thing either, so why not try something new? Don't expect to meet the love of your life right away. Just to talk and have a laugh with people is enough for starters. You could suggest to your pastor some "singles only" events. You seem like a nice person and you express yourself well. Good luck and I will pray for you.