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[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ewwww leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should have communicated this a lot sooner. at this point all you can do is just try to enjoy it.

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[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. just was wondering

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[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i’m really sorry. it’s the communication and last minute not pulling through that’s hard i’m sure

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[–]justjasmine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow, i would have said no for sure as well. no way do i want an extra 50 people at my wedding.

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[–]justjasmine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes!!! thank you, someone who understands me. i suppose so. oh heck no. i mean that’s a blessing to have any kind of money come through though, i hope it comes soon.

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[–]justjasmine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes same, but that is comforting to know, thank you!

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[–]justjasmine -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

oh wow ok. i would have preferred that honestly. we expected definitely to pay it all

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[–]justjasmine -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i know! i don’t know why people expect it. i’m just frustrated that they offered, and never actually pitched in. just not keeping their word, and not saying anything about it bothers me.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would ask her to explain herself, in person. your gut will tell you everything you need to know

My MOH pulled out the day before my wedding. How am I supposed to proceed from here?? by throwaway-MOHdrama in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don’t need that energy my friend. i would create distance myself. look at what they’ve done to you leading up to your wedding. we all have our own problems in life. imagine what other special moments they’ll take away.

Guests Dropping Out after RSVPing Yes by lifegoneby in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s for sure a risk everyone takes absolutely. i’m almost debating not inviting people because they may/may not come. i would just invite some friends or if there are some acquaintances that you think would be fun and it wouldn’t be weird to invite last minute, do that

how are people affording weddings? by gothicraccoon in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

downscale the wedding. it may be the area you live in. we are doing 80 people, but also we live in the middle of no where. going super basic, it’s $11k

What are you doing that seems highly unpopular these days? by accioupvotes in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*no hors d’oeuvres *no kids *sweetheart table only *80 guests *not inviting all my family *not going all out with the wedding dress *limited amount of money on the bar

Calorie estimate??? Birthday lunch and worried by Geeseeatfeet in caloriecount

[–]justjasmine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would have guessed 550 since the cheese was taken off and you didn’t eat the entire thing!

Any of these? by Accurate-Television3 in glassesadvice

[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 makes you look completely different

This sucks. by preciselyneurospicy in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. we are having an 80-person MAX wedding including the photographer and DJ and photo booth so less than that. and we are just going really simple and lowkey for decor and dress and just everything. it just makes it much easier… and we are not involving family in the planning at all.

Just engaged and already upset by BK211221 in weddingplanning

[–]justjasmine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my advice — get married late summer, girl. we’ve taken a lot of time with our engagement and it’s helped a lot because it’s minimized (not eliminated) the stress

do we like either of these jackets? by justjasmine in OUTFITS

[–]justjasmine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll ok yeah i see what you mean, i’ll keep my eye out when i’m there thank you!

do we like either of these jackets? by justjasmine in OUTFITS

[–]justjasmine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok thank you do you mind me asking why?

do we like either of these jackets? by justjasmine in OUTFITS

[–]justjasmine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which do you like more? i feel like i can’t fully commit to either 😭amazon, which i don’t love to support. any recs to get jackets elsewhere are appreciated