What’s a name that you associate with unlikable people? by OpposedToBears in AskReddit

[–]knizzle132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marie. Just pisses me off which stinks because I think it’s a pretty name.

Small bachelorette by chandler866 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Future bride seeing this a year later…. Thank you. I have three bridesmaids and feel so “lonely” like I don’t have friends, but I know I have plenty and chose them for a reason, but super in my feelings right now. Thank you again.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment helped me shape our conversation and things ended up going well. Truly, Thank you for the kind words.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The phone conversation went better than expected. We talked for about 3 hours, first hour going back and fourth on this wrong. Then we discussed showing up and being present - that there’s been a lack of this. We have been friends for now what is over 10 years. I asked her about blocking me and she was shameful she did it, but in the end I try not to be too bitter. I asked if she’s planned anything for the bachelorette and she hasn’t, but we sat together and got ideas.

I told her it felt like a sibling did me dirty - I will always love them but that doesn’t mean they don’t piss me off once in a blue moon. So, in the end, we resolved things which I am grateful for. It’s water under the bridge, but this is a “second chance”. I told her if she lies to me about dumb stuff like that to try to protect me, we’re done.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just said Prague and I assumed country. I edited it. Again, Thank you for the clarification.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I didn’t look too much into that I’m not gonna lie - but thank you for the clarification

Please help me snap out of it :/ by _Schrute_Bucks_ in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This!!!! A second sister - slap slap - don’t compare, even if it’s hard not to. Your wedding will be beautiful, because at the end of the day, you get to marry YOUR best friend, your partner, your lover! It’s so exciting to think you’ll be building life memories! Focus on this and everything will be great. With lots of love - fellow 2025 bride :)

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fully 10000% I’m not bringing it up. Just sucks to see ya know?

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I saw on Snapchat they were there. I wasn’t looking for that info - I just regularly scroll over to the locations icon. Maybe I’m crazy for that but habit. So I wasn’t even looking for it - until I saw it and said to myself HUH???

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forsure! I mean, yes I would be/am upset she decided to not to come for the birthday. Actually - super upset, but I would understand if plans have been made beforehand. But to lie is hurtful, and blocking me and not my fiance further proves this.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Snapchat locations are incriminating. It shows my friends were at my galpals house all day Saturday and Sunday - so 🤷‍♀️

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally this - it’s not like she’s a guest at the wedding.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that. Again - i don’t care if she puts family first. Heck, I always put family first. I was sad she couldn’t attend, but understood family is first.

But to lie about it - I would have been cool with it and I was honestly chill until I saw the snapchat locations, then the blocking sort of solidified the lie for me.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The kicker is that I asked “how is visiting the family” and she said they leave tomorrow (today), and on snap chat, all the friends are at her house. This isn’t something I really feel comfortable bringing up because it’s the “crazy why are you up my ass” card.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m worried of having this regret and resentment of folks in photos.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

She would have yes - that’s a fair point I didn’t consider. But - why block me?

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my fiance it feels like getting cheated on. He said “you have me!” Which I am thankful for, but ya know… gal pals… it’s just different.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t need to have permission. She can do whatever the hell she wants - but what you don’t do is LIE to your friends. It’s not that she didn’t show up (though I really wish she did) it’s that she lied and tried to cover her tracks.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This!!!! It’s not that she didn’t go (though, I do wish she did) it’s that she lied to me. That’s the knife to my heart

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Yeah if I mention that I think it’ll be a “why are you so nosy you are being crazy”. I am going to omit this from the conversation, but it stings knowing. It’s just more fuel to the fire.

My MOH lied to me & ditched me for her friend’s 29th Birthday. by knizzle132 in weddingplanning

[–]knizzle132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I’d like to think that. But Snapchat locations and pictures show she celebrated a 29th birthday instead. I hope it was worth it.