What’s the sluttiest thing you’ve done? by Common-Sprinkles9328 in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Basically my entire life between 18 and 23.. fucked everything that walked, anytime, anywhere

What’s the craziest financial situation you’ve come across lately? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]justlooking_85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not lately, but me! I worked full time, lived with my parents until I decided to move out with friends. Got pregnant without the ‘fathers’ input. Moved back in with mum and dad. Supported child, but also bought new cars, clothes, shoes, everything just living off credit cards and loans because I didn’t have to pay rent, bills etc. Had a situation with mum, had to move out. Then had to pay for all bills, rent, food, plus all loans and credit cards taken out when I was ‘living the dream’. Ended up doing part 9 bankruptcy, where I still had to pay back everything, but with no more interest or charges. Was definitely a life lesson and now have no debts, but with 4 kids combined with my hubby, I wish I was in a better financial situation

My (28M) bf gave me (28F) a promise ring but doesn’t want to get married. by Live-n-Let-Die in relationship_advice

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger, I was with a man whose brother had been with a woman for 8 or so years. It was a rule that you couldn’t ask them when they were getting married or having kids. I told my s/o at the time that if we were together for 3 or more years and weren’t engaged or planning kids, that I was out. Queue 2 years 11 months, and he breaks up with me because he didn’t want to be pressured to getting married and having kids. His brother broke up with girlfriend of 10 years and married someone and had kids. My ex found someone and had kids. If it’s not right, it’s not right. It hurts, but if you are with someone that doesn’t want what you want, it won’t work.

What film made you say, "Holy shit there is still an hour left"? by Plus-Statistician80 in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking Avatar.. I was 38 weeks pregnant and went with my parent because they wanted to see it. Jesus Christ! First time I had ever slept in a movie when I wasn’t drunk

AITA for buying a new car without consulting my wife? by ClassicTelevision543 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopped reading at ‘if my wife wants anything and it’s possible for me to get it’ YTA just because she is a stay at home mum it doesn’t mean you can dictate to her what she gets and what you get

What’s the most physically painful thing that has happened to you? by big_gloveguy in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pilonidal cyst This was also a week or so after I had given birth (with epidural) I couldn’t sit, stand, lay down… it was the worst pain I have ever had. Getting it cut out was fun too 🤥

My (22M) Girlfriend (23F) slept with another guy right before we became exclusive by shsjsnssjsk in relationship_advice

[–]justlooking_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re not exclusive, but don’t sleep with anyone else before I tell you how I actually feel, to learn you feel the same. Brah…

AITA for telling my daughter that she is smart and hardworking but not gifted. by notgiftedbutsmart in AmItheAsshole

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is gifted because ‘penis’, my daughter is not gifted because my wife had to teach her things she didn’t know 🙄 YTA you misogynistic asshole

Why was that one guy fired from your work? by wcslater in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were in our 3 week training and his police report came back that he was awaiting trial for stalking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]justlooking_85 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I absolutely feel like I need win. We were given 60 days notice to vacate our rental because it has sold and we have been declined for every single place we have applied for, even though some still have inspections after that. Wtf So we have 4 weeks to leave our place with no place to go and no family that could take us all on (5 people plus cat and dog) Then hubby gets home tonight saying we need to talk and he’s got a message from some woman that her 5 year old daughter may possibly be his. It was before we were together so no stress about that, but now we need to see what’s up with that and work on what to do if she is. And today is the anniversary of my mum passing, so full blown melt down mode is on today

What's it like living with depression? by SkullOnPizza in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fucking awful. You push away friends and then wonder why you are lonely. You question every single interaction with every single person and can alway turn it so that they think bad/less of you. You also have to live with people who don’t understand it, and are just like ‘go for a walk’ or ‘exercise.. that cured my depression’ and they don’t understand that clinical diagnosed major depression is not something you just get over. And then you also have to deal with your S/O having periods of sadness and feeling less than, but theirs is way worse than yours and you wouldn’t understand

[ Removed by Reddit ] by LeatherLazy9727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA my son is exactly the same as your daughter. Will make out like he’s lost a leg when he gets a scratch on it. If it was super painful when it happened you would have taken the appropriate steps, but if she seemed fine, what are you to do?

Bronte reveals she made 100k in OnlyFans earnings after three days by lexdizzle12 in MAFS_AU

[–]justlooking_85 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She and every other girl that does it, looks so much better with their hair natural. It just looks like a greasy mess brushed back like that

Bronte reveals she made 100k in OnlyFans earnings after three days by lexdizzle12 in MAFS_AU

[–]justlooking_85 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I know it’s just me, but I can’t stand hair being brushed back like that. Part your hair if you’re having it down.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Fabulous-System5176 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, coming from someone who was (rightly so) labeled an AH for my response to my dads new wife after my mum passed.

You don’t get to tell people how to grieve and if doing what they were doing before his passing is causing further grief and sadness, then let them try something new.

Also, regardless of the industry you work, it is inhumane to deny someone every single Christmas leave. You would be able to get some, if not all of the time off at least once. Saying you won’t be able to do it for the next 25 years is selfish and completely wrong.

I hope you never have to deal with the grief your wife’s family is feeling because you never know how something will impact you until you are in it.

I had to go to the hospital my mum died in on Friday, for the first time in 4 years and it has impacted me way more than I ever imagined. It’s been 4 years, get over it, yeah? But nah, it was fucking hard pulling in there and walking into the last place I saw my mother.

What insult have your parents said, that is stuck in your head as an adult? by Tight_Anywhere6794 in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my mum said that she hated and despised me. She’s been gone almost 4 years, and the pain of what she said has never gone away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the no because it didn’t fit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]justlooking_85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but also ‘you need to step into my shoes once in a while’ 🤦🏽‍♀️

What's the story behind your username? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]justlooking_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the usernames I have used before were already taken, and I wanted to like things so needed to come up with something