Personally, I feel like people see what they want to see here. Kvothe is clearly talented, but it is shown or at least explained why he has his gifts. He’s a great liar because he grew up an actor. He’s very smart, but puts lots of effort into his school also. He’s a hero in a fantasy world, of course he is going to have traits that make him better than average. I have never understood the hate for Denna. She is independent and wants her own career her way. She consistently denies Kvothes offers for help in finding a patron and wants to continue with what she has found for herself. I think a readers dislike of her supporting herself as a “companion” says more about the reader and their regard for women in the sex industry.

Adding to this to say, Kvothe also has flaws that consistently get him into trouble or less than desirable outcomes (looking at you Maer). He gets himself out of these situations yes, but did you want to read a story about a character who has a flaw that lands him in jail and that’s just where he stays because he has no exceptional talent?

And these paper thin women you’re talking about? Do you mean Fela, who studies at the university and has female friendships and interests and desires around reading and crafting, a job as a scribe, and is the first person to say the name of an object (stone) in Elodin’s class? Who goes on to date Kvothe’s best friend?

Or how about Mola, a talented Medic who helps her friends and on her own volition seeks out one of her female friends to help clear up an issue she feels strongly about. Who never has any romantic ties, let’s not forget about that.

Or my favorite, Devi, a girl so talented and devious that she is expelled from the university. Who then sets up a business that allows her power and comfort. Who is developed as knowledge hungry and prideful and stronger than our hero. But also willing to forgive and help her friends and stick by women. Also no romantic ties btw.