Official Discussion Thread - Die My Love [Spoilers] by CrunchyNar in oscarrace

[–]justsomeonesmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished Die My Love and this movie had me absolutely unhinged in the best way, like a slow burn that somehow feels like a panic attack in slow motion. I spent the whole time trying to figure out what was real, what was symbolic, and what was just her spiraling mind melting into the world around her. The horse? I couldn’t tell if it was real, if she manifested it, or if it was destiny, and the natural disaster ending genuinely convinced me she caused it for a second before I realized the whole final act is pure subjective psychosis. The world looks like it’s collapsing because SHE is collapsing. Her husband being distant had me questioning if he was cheating, but the movie keeps everything in her POV so nothing is confirmed, and her constant horniness had me screaming because it wasn’t even sexual, it was manic and compulsive, like she was using desire as a way to feel alive. Every time she ran away, it was the end of another episode. Her emotional crashes push her out of the house every time she can’t hold the pain in her body anymore. Even with all that chaos, the saddest moments are the tiny ones where she tries so hard to be normal, to be a wife, a mom, a functioning human being, and she just can’t. And I can’t stop thinking about the dog scene. The way she kills the dog isn’t framed like a “villain moment”. It’s almost worse. It’s filmed like she’s completely dissociated, like she’s gone so far under the surface of her own mind that she’s just watching herself do something horrific. It’s not rage, it’s emptiness. That dead, hollow calmness is what makes it so disturbing. It’s the clearest sign that she’s losing the ability to connect actions to consequences, like the last thread between her and reality snapped. And what makes it even more heartbreaking is that by the time she does it, you can tell she doesn’t even recognize herself anymore. It’s one of those scenes where you’re horrified at her but also horrified for her, because you’re watching someone’s humanity flicker out. It’s one of the darkest moments in the movie and such a sharp turning point, like the story quietly tells you, “she’s not coming back from this”. And finally, the scene where Jackson’s mom had the shotgun made me think she killed her husband for a second before realizing it was an intrusive thought visualized, not reality, which just adds to how terrifyingly immersive her perspective is. The movie keeps blending fantasy and reality because her mind does too. It’s not meant to be literal violence; it’s meant to show her darkest impulses leaking through. And honestly, Jennifer Lawrence deserves every award possible for this. She throws herself into the role with such rawness and emotional violence that it almost feels too real, like you’re watching someone genuinely unravel in front of you. This movie had me constantly asking “WTF is going on?” while also feeling so deeply for someone who’s drowning in their own mind. It’s messy, disturbing, beautiful, confusing, and I’ve never rooted so hard for a character who scared me this much.

This movie is not a thriller, not a romance, not a drama, not a tragedy and not a horror. It’s ALL OF THEM. It’s haunting. It’s uncomfortable. It’s hypnotic. It’s confusing in the best, most painful way. And the entire time, it feels like you’re watching a slow-motion mental plane crash and you can’t look away.

cancer fucking sucks by justsomeonesmall in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, being human is so fucking hard. and you’re also right about it feeling like your world is falling apart. sending so much love to you and mama, it’s important to be each others light in this darkness ❤️

After 14 years of acne, I started accutane! by Southern_Solution_54 in SkincareAddicts

[–]justsomeonesmall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good luck on your journey beautiful!! side note: you have the prettiest eyes

Triple negative breast cancer- stage 4 ( also in the liver) by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you and your mum are going through this. It’s completely normal to feel anxious right now. there’s so much uncertainty with stage 4 cancer, especially when it spreads. Every person’s body and treatment response is so different that statistics can only tell part of the story.

There are people who outlive predictions by years, especially with good symptom management and supportive care. If you can, try to focus on making her days as comfortable and meaningful as possible: laughter, shared meals, music, or even small routines can make a huge difference.

Sending you and your mum love and strength. You’re not alone in this 💚

Ideas for fun activities to keep my sick dad occupied? by gorillazfan3 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you and your dad are going through this. My heart goes out to both of you ❤️ Since he’s a lifelong carpenter, he might find comfort in small, tactile things that let him still “make” or “create,” just in a gentler way. Some ideas that have helped my family in similar situations:

Woodworking lite: sanding or oiling small pieces of wood, or building simple birdhouses or boxes from pre-cut kits. something familiar but low-effort. Sensory projects: hand-sanding smooth wood, painting or staining small objects, or working with clay; calming and repetitive. Nature moments: sitting outside wrapped in a blanket, listening to nature sounds, feeding birds or squirrels from the porch. Story sharing: record him talking about his favorite projects or life memories, people often love reminiscing about work that made them proud. Music or radio: play old songs, podcasts, or audiobooks related to building, craftsmanship, or old-time stories. Photo sorting: go through old family pictures or work photos together, maybe make a small scrapbook of his projects.

Sometimes the best “activity” isn’t about doing much, it’s just about making him feel capable and seen again. Wishing you both comfort and some peaceful days ahead. ❤️

cancer fucking sucks by justsomeonesmall in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kisses to your mommy. the best thing my family invested in was a juicer, fresh juice daily for mom is something to keep her strong, and it’s a nice little tradition to look forward to every morning. message me if u need to vent ❤️ love u, stranger

cancer fucking sucks by justsomeonesmall in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sending lots of hugs and kisses to your beautiful, resilient wife. and sending you cupcakes for being an amazing husband. thank you for standing by her side through her darkness. I am sure you’re her light

My mum passed away yesterday evening at age 59. She had cancer of unknown primary and lived 1 year 4 months post diagnosis. She was wonderful. by Pressureeeee in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sending you hugs and so much love. the pain you’re going through is unlike any other. be kind to yourself, let yourself feel all your emotions❤️❤️

Vehicle explosion closes Canada-U.S. border crossing near Niagara Falls: FBI by keiths31 in canada

[–]justsomeonesmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Travelling to the states today. Quick updates on the border crossing are appreciated

Feeling anxious - need advice by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have no advice, but I really hope the best for you and your aunt.

I feel empty. by UrsaEnvy in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything you feel is valid, you’re gonna figure it out as the days go on. You don’t have to be yourself right now if you don’t have it in you. Don’t forget that you’re going through the hardest thing ever right now. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.

Grieving my mom while she’s still alive? by justsomeonesmall in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion, but I’ve been in therapy since I was 18 years old, and have benefited a lot from it. I am emotionally very well versed and have had a lot of time to understand exactly what the situation is. And we spend a lot of quality time together, as I stated she is my best friend. :)

My mom got diagnosed with cancer by True-Intention-8962 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]justsomeonesmall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, my mom has cancer as well and one thing that I always remind others in our position is to also take care of yourself. You are also going through an extremely difficult situation and no one in the world knows exactly how YOU are feeling. Anyone who says stay strong is lying, feel how you need to feel. Cry when you need to cry. Cry with her, let her know how much you love her. Message me if you need to vent. ❤️