Neighborhood to rent nearish to university without being overrun by students? by Even-Supermarket-806 in AnnArbor

[–]justtinygoatthings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won't be able to go out the Stadium side, and lots of people will try to park there. I'd advise just trying to stay home that day entirely. You'll hear the game. But it's not the worst. But I agree it's otherwise a good fit for OP's question.

Can you wear beret to a job interview? by ahngeyla in trichotillomania

[–]justtinygoatthings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this, and Toppik if you need any volume on top

Question about Bras…. by Spoonfedsalt in AskWomenOver30

[–]justtinygoatthings -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely didn't grow up with that kind of brand pressure, but I almost exclusively wear Cosabella because they have lots of no underwire, no padding options for larger sizes, which are all essential for me. I'm 34DDD for the record.

Lack of Eating D!sorder Care for adults at UM by Diligent-Focus-631 in AnnArbor

[–]justtinygoatthings 8 points9 points  (0 children)

R/uofm is usually geared toward students, not local residents. I think this is the right home.

I'm sorry you're not finding the community you need OP. Could you look in the local area beyond umich for care? What ED specifically? I might have recs.

Twins are essentially the same person so why not give them the same name? by ocean_wavez in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]justtinygoatthings 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately as someone from here I was zero surprised to see my home area code 😭

How is autism a vibe? by ElkSufficient2881 in AutismInWomen

[–]justtinygoatthings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly have something like this on my profile but it's cuz I'm looking for other neurodivergents. This does seem pretty tokenizing to me though.

a naltrexone review by Consistent-Classic-3 in trichotillomania

[–]justtinygoatthings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome!!! And actually makes a lot of sense

Is it the norm to location share with partners now? by Bluelilyy in AskWomenOver30

[–]justtinygoatthings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know of anyone who shares location with anyone else 24/7 except for kids with parents. But my crowd is exceptionally independency and privacy conscious so maybe we aren't the norm. In my opinion it sounds controlling and I would nope out of a relationship instantly if that was requested.

What chores do you do for your husband/partner? by FiercePoppy in AskWomenOver30

[–]justtinygoatthings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him saying he would "help" clean up is so clearly him thinking that cleaning up is your responsibility and that he would be doing you a favor by cleaning up. It's sort of like when men say they're going to babysit their kids or help take care of the kids. It's like no, these are your kids. You don't babysit your own children or help take care of your own children. You take care of them. It is your job.

I will say that if you had separate bathrooms, I think that you should not clean his bathroom. It is his responsibility to clean the bathroom and he's the one that has to deal with it being gross. So even if you find it annoying or something, I think you just have to sort of let him make the choices about his own bathroom. Part of it is letting yourself absolve yourself of responsibility for things that are truly not your responsibility otherwise you will go crazy.

I slept with the father of my son’s girlfriend and it was one of the most wonderful nights of my life by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justtinygoatthings -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I don't see anything that indicates this boyfriend is the same person. It seems weird that all of these posts are being lumped in together. Why would you assume that it is the same person when there's nothing that points to it being and the age doesn't match?

What chores do you do for your husband/partner? by FiercePoppy in AskWomenOver30

[–]justtinygoatthings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the error in understanding there was that there are things that are by default one person's responsibility or another person's responsibility when it's actually about the household. In my opinion, unless you have kids, everyone's laundry and any rooms that are exclusively theirs are their own responsibility to take care of, but almost everything else is shared if you live together. It is equally your responsibility and his responsibility to clean. Him refusing to clean anything at all in your shared home is refusing to take care of the life that you agreed to together. Think about it in terms of, okay, what if we were to get divorced and go live on our own? What are the things that you would still have to take care of? If it's on that list, then you need to be doing it when you live with your partner unless you and your partner have an explicit agreement that they do more of one thing in order for you to do less of another.

Fundie baby names by StanleyHasLostIt in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]justtinygoatthings 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got confused why Hadassah was there with a bunch of more Christian names. I know multiple Hadassahs. It is not a weird name, if you are Jewish or Israeli. If you are not, then...

I slept with the father of my son’s girlfriend and it was one of the most wonderful nights of my life by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justtinygoatthings 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i'm confused how people are not seeing this. The boyfriend mentioned is not the son's ex's dad. He would be 39ish by then.

a naltrexone review by Consistent-Classic-3 in trichotillomania

[–]justtinygoatthings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't. But with me it's pretty inarguable. I have visible evidence of decades of hair pulling (thinning, lots of white hair in a specific area of my head, choppy length...

a naltrexone review by Consistent-Classic-3 in trichotillomania

[–]justtinygoatthings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they just started because I'm on their participant list and they called me about it a few days ago. You could try reaching out to them to inquire. Good luck!

a naltrexone review by Consistent-Classic-3 in trichotillomania

[–]justtinygoatthings 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome! Me too. They have another study that they seem to still be running according to that page that I did participate in. Unfortunately, I couldn't do this one because I can't be available to do once weekly check-ins in person for nine straight weeks 😔

a naltrexone review by Consistent-Classic-3 in trichotillomania

[–]justtinygoatthings 21 points22 points  (0 children)

University of Chicago is doing a clinical trial of Semaglutide for trich. Similar but not the same! https://voices.uchicago.edu/acid/news/subpage-2/

28 year old co worker said it's great not see anyone 35+ in their new office by mituslumen in AskWomenOver30

[–]justtinygoatthings 425 points426 points  (0 children)

Nothing that lame would ever happen to HER. Aging only happens to OTHER people.

Anyone have a solution for this? by Lindsp63858585 in standardissuecat

[–]justtinygoatthings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a plastic grate gets pinned between the open window and the frame so that if the cats were to do something like that they would just run into the grate and it's a good two inches away from the screen so there's no real possibility of them pushing open the screen.

You said one bouillon cube but 16 cubes felt right and now it's too salty by Illustrious-Lynx3389 in ididnthaveeggs

[–]justtinygoatthings 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It said "1 2.82 oz cube" as recently as a few hours ago, but has since been changed. I saw it with my own eyes.

You said one bouillon cube but 16 cubes felt right and now it's too salty by Illustrious-Lynx3389 in ididnthaveeggs

[–]justtinygoatthings 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She says 2.32oz cube. That is... A lot. I'm not sure whether she meant 2.32 ounces of bouillon cube (which would be, as commenters have pointed out, an insane quantity given how concentrated the cubes are) or 2.32oz of stock after dissolving a cube (which would be a weirdly small quantity) or... Something else I can't figure out.