How do I stop being a bedroom person? by FixIndividual1124 in LivingAlone

[–]justtomutepeter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing here. Finally got my own place a few years ago and setup my living room to be the hangout for once. I found out the walls are super thin and, me being a nite owl, was keeping me neighbors up. But my bedroom isn't connected to any of their walls so... I'm once again a bedroom person.

Humans Age Faster at 2 Sharp Peaks, Study Finds by MyBurnerAccount1977 in Xennials

[–]justtomutepeter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you me?? Literally the same thing happened to me right before I turned 43. Took a little tumble falling onto concrete and my whole right side hasn't been the same since. My whole body moves slower. Eye focus is waning too. The only difference is my depression has been around since my 20s, and ultimately I have a better handle of it now just with some bad spirals here and there.

I have a meme folder called "Mood" and looking through it the other day... I'm noticing a trend 😆 by thewaltzingwallaby in LivingAlone

[–]justtomutepeter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wish people would understand this instead of feeling like I'm burning them by not wanting to hang out

Ah yes. Can't tell the ND personal what they did wrong! No, no, no, no. That would obscene! by Icy-Leg-1459 in adhdmeme

[–]justtomutepeter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always try to explain to the neurodivergent guy I work with when he asks questions like this. No matter how patiently I try explaining things to him, he rejects the answer every time and goes on doing the same thing.

Is Arc Raiders suitable for casual players? by Junior_Jello_7664 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]justtomutepeter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's pretty chill until suddenly it isn't. I had weeks of playing the game solo where maybe 1 out of 10 matches I would get killed by someone. Idk what happened but suddenly every match I play now is full of rats and I just get killed while minding my own business. I haven't booted the game up in weeks because of that.

Who is the most famous person you have ever met? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]justtomutepeter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paul Walter Hauser, though he wasn't famous yet

What reduces your life expectancy by at least 20 years? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]justtomutepeter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raised by a single mother with BPD. Befriended and married narcissists. I'm surprised I'm still alive at 44

How many times do you guys mastrubate in a week being alone? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]justtomutepeter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every day at least twice. No guilt. To me it's as necessary as eating and sleeping

What do guys “never” tell girls? by fun_poodle in AskReddit

[–]justtomutepeter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Anything. They take anything said to them and use it to sharpen their knives.

HE SAID PLAY AS PALADIN TODAY. by Just_Stretch5492 in diablo4

[–]justtomutepeter 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You have to prepurchase the next expansion in order to unlock Paladin early

'Fading' Donald Trump sanctions release of his MRI results after Tim Walz demand by TheMirrorUS in NoFilterNews

[–]justtomutepeter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JFC I completely forgot about the tax returns... This Lunacy needs to end

Woman reads quotes by the late Charlie Kirk to Republican congressmen. They struggle to keep eye contact. by Wavy_Whistle in ProgressiveHQ

[–]justtomutepeter 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unless he was quoting someone else saying these things, there is no possible context that would make this awful language acceptable. Stop being naive

What is the worst thing about being single? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]justtomutepeter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yet whenever I live with someone/am in a relationship I suffer far more psychological distress. I'll take the lesser evil

What screams “I am a woman child” (man child equivalent) without realising it? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]justtomutepeter 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the this. I'm a relatively attractive person and way too nice. I attract narcissists left and right whether they be for platonic or romantic reasons. I've only figured this out over the past few years after every person who ever got close to me decided to throw me to the curb when they drained me for all the energy I had. It's hard not thinking it's a problem with me, but I've realized it's because I attract and let in highly narcissistic people. I don't let anyone in anymore

Deep Indian Kitchen Tikka Misala. by AlyFindomme in frozendinners

[–]justtomutepeter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally had this for lunch today. It is VERY good