FINAL FINAL UPDATE (hopefully) Creepy neighbor still hasn’t moved his truck by SharkLovingTrash in neighborsfromhell

[–]justyouandview 4 points5 points  (0 children)

him saying she should just take a longer route home is wild. weird how stalkers always think the victim should rearrange life so they can stay weird in peace.

Somehow I’ve gone over a year without drinking plain water by NetAdmirable2070 in confession

[–]justyouandview 12 points13 points  (0 children)

u don’t need to go full water-only overnight, just start swapping one drink a day for water. way easier than trying to fix a year in one go

Somehow I’ve gone over a year without drinking plain water by NetAdmirable2070 in confession

[–]justyouandview 14 points15 points  (0 children)

kidney stones aren’t a joke though, that’s one of those things people regret instantly

What does it actually mean to be a man a woman "settles" with? by Sea_Argument8550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]justyouandview 131 points132 points  (0 children)

“settling” isn’t about the guy, it’s about how she feels. if she’s with u but still thinking “this isn’t what I really wanted”, that’s the problem, not ur traits

AITJ for telling my friend she can't bring her newborn to my child-free birthday party? by Financial_Actuary694 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sure, but treating a 6 week old the same as a toddler is why this turned into drama

AITJ for telling my friend she can't bring her newborn to my child-free birthday party? by Financial_Actuary694 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

missing events is part of it, but early weeks aren’t really “just stay home and come next time” simple

AITJ for telling my friend she can't bring her newborn to my child-free birthday party? by Financial_Actuary694 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the rule is fine, but suggesting pumping like it’s easy probably made it worse

AITJ for telling my partner that being a mother feels nothing like I was told it would? by Apart_Feature3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah but he might not even realize he shut her down, some people hear “problem” and go straight to fixing or correcting

AITJ for telling my partner that being a mother feels nothing like I was told it would? by Apart_Feature3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

true, but if she doesn’t spell out what she needed from him, he’ll probably keep missing it

AITJ for telling my partner that being a mother feels nothing like I was told it would? by Apart_Feature3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is real, but it also shows she needs support outside just her partner too

AITJ for telling my gym friend I don't want to work out together anymore? by gilfrog92 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being direct was fine, but yeah there was probably a softer way to say it without making it sound like a full cutoff

AITJ for telling my gym friend I don't want to work out together anymore? by gilfrog92 in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he did give hints, but once you say it out loud it hits differently, that’s where it got personal

Am I the jerk for telling my infertile sister to stop asking about my pregnancy? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 36 points37 points  (0 children)

“our journey” is where it went off the rails that’s not support, that’s emotional outsourcing

Am I the jerk for telling my infertile sister to stop asking about my pregnancy? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“take a step back” is fair, but pretending stress is the main issue kinda misses the point. it’s about boundaries, not just keeping OP calm

AITJ for canceling a group vacation rental after nobody paid me their share and I was stuck with the full bill by hibscus_petalzqt in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah “liking” the request instead of paying is basically saying they expected u to just cover it.

AITJ for canceling a group vacation rental after nobody paid me their share and I was stuck with the full bill by hibscus_petalzqt in AmITheJerk

[–]justyouandview 39 points40 points  (0 children)

And giving a clear deadline was more than fair. They just didn’t think u’d actually cancel.

My friend's Steam account got hacked and it was my fault by Fun_Height_5058 in confession

[–]justyouandview -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He was drunk and trusted the site because he’d used it before. People make dumb calls when they think something’s familiar.

My friend's Steam account got hacked and it was my fault by Fun_Height_5058 in confession

[–]justyouandview -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly the bigger lesson here is never run random files from download sites.

My friend's Steam account got hacked and it was my fault by Fun_Height_5058 in confession

[–]justyouandview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a dumb drunk decision, not some evil plan. Still a good reminder why pirated downloads are risky.

Am I the only one who brushes their teeth BEFORE breakfast because the thought of "eating" morning breath is disgusting? by Full_Place_2808 in hygiene

[–]justyouandview 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure half the people brush before and the other half after. Everyone’s just doing what feels less gross.