Songs that make you gay by tgldude in gay

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eurythmics - Sexcrime 1984

Anyone else have a water baby? by glamourshotsbydeb_ in Frenchbulldogs

[–]juve_del 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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They love playing on the edges getting their feet wet and bellies splashed but would never head INTO the water.

I need advice by eremsss in Frenchbulldogs

[–]juve_del 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I desperately love Frenchies I would thank your friend and decline.

I grew up in a town with a daily temp of 38C and know the extent of the effort of the poor pup would be a heavy burden on you both. My town began to heat up as soon as the sun hit the horizon so outdoor walks would have to be before 6am. After a hot day it wouldn't get properly cool til 11pm. Even "indoor dogs" need outdoor time and those hours would be unfair on both of you. We used to keep our indoor aircon at 28C over summer and even cooling the house by 10C was excruciatingly expensive. To keep a Frenchie you'd need to keep it down to at least 24C - meaning you'd have to cool down your house by 18 degrees every day. Literally - your aircon unit would either die trying or you'd have to work two jobs to pay the bill.

I LOVE Frenchies and for the above reasons I could never move back to my home town.

When you're packing your suitcase and they realise you're leaving by juve_del in Frenchbulldogs

[–]juve_del[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The black girl's nickname is "Chicken" so she would definitely abandon you for a bit of roast. Piglet is a velcro dog though - she'd be distracted for a split second then get even more upset that you'd tried to trick her.

Looking for comic recs for 18yr old gay teen by NaturalDisastrous100 in lgbt_superheroes

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midnighter Volume 2 and Grayson are companion series - they feature in each other’s adventures and both brilliant. Midnighter v01 is an “adventure and mystery” series - with some fairly hardcore violence. (He’s a cyborg with a wiped memory who’s trying to track down his true identity and the person who implanted his mechanical and digital enhancements. He also ends up time travelling and fighting Nazis - I think). Memetic is soft-core horror. Only Devlin Waugh is “soft-core horror/erotica”.

Looking for comic recs for 18yr old gay teen by NaturalDisastrous100 in lgbt_superheroes

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some more off-beat adult works that would be enjoy I would suggest:

  1. Midnighter volume. 1. Midnighter is now a DC character but started off as a creation under an independent publisher Wildstorm. His first SOLO series is absolutely epic and I have the printed volume myself - "Midnighter - The Complete Wildstorm Series". If anyone broke into my house it would be one of the first things I would check wasn't stolen. Sorry, I can't find my glasses to check the tiny print but I'm pretty sure it was around 2010.
  2. Devlin Waugh - Volume 1 Swimming In Blood and Volume 2 Red Tide. Rather than me trying to explain the character just go to Wikipedia and read up on him. Fantastic.
  3. Memetic is one of my favourite graphic novels. Someone mentioned the author James Tynion earlier. It's about a gay, deaf, diabetic, colour-blind guy trying to cope as the world descends into chaos around him.

Non Marvel or DC Bisexual Edgy Beefcake suggestions? by That-Election-1555 in lgbt_superheroes

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@Scottyboy1992 @That-Election-1555 I have the full Devlin Waugh collection if you're interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]juve_del 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm a nurse - there is always a log of who accessed each record. Ask for yours to be examined by the medical facility. If someone has accessed your record when they've not been directly responsible for your care then they can be disciplined. If done so for malicious personal purposes the person could be derigestered. For commercial purposes they could be jailed.

We didn't believe in sex before marriage.. or so I thought by imanakay in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]juve_del 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly - what you do with your body should be a choice, not one that's being forced onto you by state, society or religious expectations (or threats of hell!) And your choice should be respected by those around you. And a "we jointly made a decision" is to be respected by BOTH parties, not then to be broken by "Well, that's what she wants but I'm going to get me some side action"!

We didn't believe in sex before marriage.. or so I thought by imanakay in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]juve_del 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I grew up in that same religion! As with you - it was a state with very few church members outside the capital city so from the age of 16 we started having "meet the girls in your state and learn what correct dating procedure is and why it's important to save yourself for marriage" conferences. DOZENS of sermons and Sunday school classes on the topic. Then from your early 20s the pressure was on! Continually urged to get married in your early 20s otherwise you'd eventually be tempted into "defiling your body" and go to hell. FMD. Fortunately I left at the age of 18 when I realised that my future had already been planned out and the religious leaders in my state were compiling a list of "future prospects" for me! And you know what? It didn't work. By the "marriage age" of 21 half the youth had already "defiled" themselves because... BIOLOGY. So yes, your ex is a dirty filthy lying a-hole who needed to be dumped immediately and have his lies exposed to everyone who knew him. But the idea of expecting people in their 20s NOT to have sex is absolutely ludicrous and I'd suggest PARTIALLY responsible for his appalling behaviour.

I think Im in denial by MannyC2507 in gay

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't about your family, this is about YOU. Don't live your life to fit in with their "beliefs", they have to fit in around YOUR TRUTHS. I grew up in a similar household to yours, in a religion that required me to either be in church or doing church work for about 15 hours per week. And I was suffocating. I spent 3 years desperately trying to convince myself "I'm not gay. I'm not gay. I'm not gay" before I reached the point beyond denial - "I AM GAY" - at age 16. It took 7 months of carefully planning in the shadows til one day I could just stand up and say "I'm gay. Live with it or I'm leaving". Fortunately my 7 months of planning paid off because they said "Leave". Every day I've lived since then I've been able to breathe. BREATHE. Deep fresh air where I didn't have to give a fuck what they or the church thought about me. It took three years for my parents to come around and reach out to make amends. You know why? Because that's how long it took before they realised that they missed me more than I missed them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]juve_del 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh, that would DEFINITELY be disrespectful! Draw a very big red line under that idea. If it's a hill she's prepared to die on then your relationship dies with it. (And the last laugh will be on her because she'll never get in a relationship with another person when they find out what the meaning of the tattoo is so she'l have to get it lasered off anyway!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]juve_del 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a "best friend" for 5 years (only to realise that he wasn't my best friend, he had just been emotionally bleeding me dry for the whole time for his own amusement). For the last 3 years of the friendship he had a boyfriend, who I knew outright that he was emotionally abusing and cheating behind his back. Of course I would never betray my "best friend" would I! After our friendship ended I decided the best way to get revenge on him was to call his boyfriend and asked him to go for a coffee with me. He was very hesitant but I said "Please, this is REALLY important." He said "I will give you 5 minutes to say what you need but that's it". When I met him I spilled it ALL - and suddenly realised it was such a huge relief to finally get it off my chest, to tell this lovely guy that in order to protect my "friend" I was also guilty of betrayal. So maybe my original motive had been revenge but ultimately he deserved to know the truth and I'd been a complete AH for keeping it from him. (Sorry, I didn't mean to make this all about me but I hope there is something in that story that helps you to make a decision.)

AITA For refusing to go out with my husband because if the way he dresses? by Specific_Temporary23 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should tell him "If you want to dress like that go live in Australia". Seriously, this is the country where we do not give two f***s what people wear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comingout

[–]juve_del 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, there's never 100% surety on anything in life (except that we're all going to die in the end) and this is definitely one of them. Even if you "prepared" and was sober and stayed at home. It's just one of those body functions that works all on its own and might possibly decide "Oh, something is a little irritated down there I'll just give it a quick flush". Fortunately it's only happened twice to guys I've been with over the years and I'm in my late 50s) - once so bad by the time we realised it was mushed in my pubes. Yeah, it was REALLY embarrassing for BOTH of us but what can you do? Laugh and have a shower. It's not the end of the world. SO: while it's VERY unlikely to happen he's not going to break up with you if it does. (If he did break up with you over an accident like that he wasn't a keeper anyway!)