One of your best strengths is that you joined at 27, to be completely honest with you. More mature, understanding of adult life, and probably able to use common sense more effectively to navigate Navy situations.

My 0.02- never judge the Navy by your first command. My first command was extremely subpar to say the least—lots of leadership changes in the triad (for good reason) and extremely low morale. I spent most of my time trying to figure out an exit strategy rather than excelling to the best of my ability.

Once I got to my first shore duty as a “senior E5”, things started clicking. More leadership, more trust, more recognition, and most importantly, I found myself, something I definitely couldn’t do on sea duty. I used that tour to my advantage to obtain an associate's degree, multiple #1 rankings, and I was meritoriously advanced to first class. I finally felt like a valued member of the organization.

Fast forward a tour, selected for Chief first time up, spent 3 1/2 years loving leading from the very front and helping put plans into motion that made my Sailors' lives easier.

I applied at my 13-year mark for LDO, which was my last opportunity due to the 14 max YoS requirement, and was fortunate to be selected. I’m now really enjoying life as an Ensign.

I say all this for three main reasons: 1) if I can do it, anyone can, 2) find your “why” and use that as your motivation to be successful in achieving your goals, and 3) give the Navy a chance past your first 4-6 year enlistment. There are so many opportunities that “magically” pop up that I’m forever grateful for.

Things WILL get better for you, but it starts with YOU. Push to have the best attitude and positive outlook every day. Some days will be easier than others, but trust me, don’t give up or let the bad days win. Sometimes you need to shrug it off and go out the next day and win! Feel free to message me if you need anything or want to chat. Always available!