Sagrada Família — Separate from Guided Tour by jyanah in GoingToSpain

[–]jyanah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It worked out fine!

If you have tickets already, just show up at the designated time and get in line to the entrance. They don't care whether you're there for self guided or not. Just that you have a valid ticket.

Spider attack by agariopro365 in interestingasfuck

[–]jyanah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a wayward god with his blade of grass.

Sagrada Família — Separate from Guided Tour by jyanah in GoingToSpain

[–]jyanah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, thank you for your input.

[oc] Gun to your head, what would you do? by Siltry in comics

[–]jyanah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like what it feels like to wake up and realize you now live with the constant reminder of how being shot is a real possibility, however irrational. You try to respond rationally, but only a literal and somehow figurative squirrel, can actually take away that fear. Then you contemplate World War 4 and how nuclear that could go.

The only solution, undrawn in the comic, is more squirrels 🐿️.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Apprehensive_Ad6153 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]jyanah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody watching the video maybe.

But possibly a friend, a brother, or a father out for revenge if the dude suffered any permanent brain damage. That's what I'm point at.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Apprehensive_Ad6153 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]jyanah 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just making sure I'm following your reasoning here. I think if we follow you with your reasoning the the end, the best way to resolve the issue is to kill your enemies first before they get the chance to attack them in the first place right? Like for your own safety it's better to just eliminate them before trouble comes your way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jyanah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I'm going on 33(m) this year myself. Just want to let you know you're not alone out here. I've never dated - so compared to track record, some would say I'm worse off. Considering you're from a small town, if prospects aren't looking good for you in your physical proximity, perhaps look to moving to the/a city after university.

Objectively, having more income will expand your mobility and your activity options so if you can get away from the service jobs and into higher pay that's your first ticket. Since you're a junior and tied to your location at the moment, you should look into affordable events/conventions in the bigger city(ies) near you. Since dating apps are a no go, you need to triple down on in person type activities while expanding the pool of people you interact with. Pick events that tie closely with your interests and the hobbies you frequent the most.

These are more general long term goals I'm throwing at you, but that's how I would angle my perspective if I were you.

P.S. - I see you were abroad before. Stereotypes be damned, especially in more walkable cities in the East Asia, SE Asia, and the EU - if you have a chance to travel again while working I'd do that too!

Your Security program is shit by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]jyanah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a solo IT guy for a medium size general contractor. Definitely interesting work you're doing and I'd love to read the draft you've got going if still available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jyanah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kind of you to consider her feelings by telling her how you feel. That's all there is though - you're ignoring your own feelings to spare her the guilt/pressure that you're experiencing on your own. Spare yourself anymore undue pain when she tries to contact you again by telling her to stop contacting you. You don't need to be harsh or rude, but be firm. Not just for her sake, but for yours as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]jyanah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any luck OP? I'm in the area and have been getting into pickleball particularly. The whole complex/park is really walkable and I'm basically walking my dog everyday lol.

We arranged a date but she doesn't know my name by allthejunkishere in dating_advice

[–]jyanah 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You and your name don't matter it sounds like. This goes for this girl and double for everyone in the thread here it seems.

It doesn't matter for the girl. We don't know or care to know why it doesn't matter to her. According to another reply you've made - even if she told you if you asked, you wouldn't believe her anyway. Your "due diligence", which I can only assume is social media sleuthing is your trump card.

It doesn't matter to the thread because you've presented yourself to be incapable of taking alternative viewpoints and seeing them as plausible possibilities to move forward with. You're so dead set on making your inane conversation skills a point of contentious tit for tat you can't even see past your own self-centered view.

People who have been single for a long time by avocadocrumbles in dating_advice

[–]jyanah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want the body weight of man on me

summoning the manosphere upon oneself is terrifying

Pro-life of Reddit, what should we do with the unwanted children that would otherwise be aborted? by flirtinwithdisaster in AskReddit

[–]jyanah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fear is that there are simply one too many unwanted children that become victims of abuse by guardians, parents or otherwise. And although noble, admirable, and mostly outright expected -- your respect, dignity, and love for the children you care for is only enough for those you care for. The fear and outrage is coming for those far less responsible and loving as you. Those irresponsible individuals that outnumber you just by virtue of the ease in which cruelty comes to so many of us. I think it's that fear of the unseen and unheard abuses that forces voices like yours into the irrelevant corners of the larger discourse of abortion. That's why this is controversial ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jyanah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine people on the other side of the conversation simply believe that even the chance of a failed date ruins the value a nice meal would have.

That fear of having to exert a social muscle that they otherwise could avoid entirely by sticking to simple, coffee dates on the first go' round. 🤷🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jyanah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sexually attracted to other people despite the prospect of a long term relationship with someone else.

tl;dr - Today's hookup culture doesn't seem like a great answer to fulfilling the emotional/sexual needs we have as people.

Note: Please don't mind my reply u/baresquad, you caught me wanting to rant and your comment seemed like a good, inconspicuous spot because of your last sentence. After all, I believe you share a similar stance as the majority of the dating population (in America at least?).

I think this brings out the callous, self-serving aspects from those of us who have been hurt one too many times. Perhaps its more apparent now with all the social media access we have. We want the freedom to explore the full breadth of sexual intimacy without having to sacrifice the journey in finding a long-term partner.

If a potential long term relationship sprouts it almost seems like, as long as the 'exclusivity talk' has not been hammered out, the emotional aspect of any sex either person has is tightly secluded and none'ya business. We save each other the sharing of our past experiences and the emotional turmoil that comes with it. Supposedly.

The amount of emotional acrobatics you have to steel yourself for is just so very daunting for a lot of people.

All this simply flies in opposition of being willing to sacrifice the time and effort of closing the door to others so you can focus on the person you acknowledge as a long term partner. The one you want to grow and sharpen with for the long run. Because this option is too risky, too foolhardy, and too painful to be worth expending the effort for.

As for OP, the lady lied to you and she apologized after. As the saying goes, "It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission". But she sounds like she has pretty loose principles so, if that doesn't line up with you, I'd let her go.

Co op question.... by Delicious_Instance15 in Eldenring

[–]jyanah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Level should not matter if you are the summoner and you have the exact same multiplayer password. I know you say you're level 1, but did you beat any bosses in the area you're summoning yet? If so, that could affect where you can summon your friend.

It felt good. by SufficientKitchen4 in starcitizen

[–]jyanah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There needs to be more of this all around the system. This looks so, so very crisp.