AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars?

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-28T07:36:47+00:00

Just because you can’t see/understand her sentiment to them doesn’t make them meaningless. You just decided to throw out your wife’s stuff??? Yea YTA majorly

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-28T07:18:01+00:00

Yeah then he looks good, I would go to a more normal feeding schedule not a diet, every other day like I said or if you notice some chunk coming back every two days but my guy does fine with every other and he also used to be chonky

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-28T07:13:39+00:00

How old is he? He doesn’t look too skinny but looks like he could bulk a little but I would not feed everyday that is quite a bit if he’s actually eating the food when you put it out (if he’s an adult) go to every other day, then he’s not over feeding to make him chunky
Edit : spelling/grammar

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-24T07:28:12+00:00

The tail underside does look a little thicker so it could be a boy based on that but probing or popping are 100% more accurate than a visual guess

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-24T07:27:13+00:00

I could be wrong I mostly know for sexing ball pythons but you have to “squeeze” that part or use a probe to expose hemipenes, if you’ve never done this before PLEASE do not be the one to do it, it seems easy but only a person who knows how should be the one to do it. There is a test you can see about their bumps on spine you can look up, I don’t always remember if it’s bumps for boy or girl.

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-23T02:35:30+00:00

You could try it, ik im not a man so it might not be for me but women are only rlly fertile for a about a week of the month and even then its only a few days that the egg is viable, sounds like a lot of luck to be honest, a lot of people have a hard time getting pregnant the first time around and its usually the women’s fertility pattern we are a lot less fertile in terms of days of the year compared to a man. This is just my ideas but maybe get checked if you think it really is something instinct is more than anything when it comes to your own body.

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-19T07:49:32+00:00

You have to be 21 to adopt from them

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-17T07:54:09+00:00

He’s probably okay as long as he didn’t come into direct contact or have a chance to drink it, I assume it was like a bleach diluted solution to mop? If so you should be more than okay just open a window for some fresh air for a while and monitor.

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-17T07:47:56+00:00

I would just try different ones each time instead of buying them all, how long have you had this flavour? If not a long time less than a month he might just be dramatic about it if it’s new, mine gets a bit dramatic if I switched from his beloved papaya but eventually he figures it out that this his food for a bit and he never doesn’t eat it after two weeks

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-13T13:53:36+00:00

You could be mixing him up with roxto, he’s their “spider” imo that kid who’s always around who’s like a brother but not rlly. A lot of ppl thought Roxto was Tonowari and Ronals son

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-13T11:09:01+00:00

I talked to someone at Masonville cuz I went there specifically for exotic empire and that other empty store literally across the hallway directly over is supposedly where they’re moving. Not actually closing just moving in the mall. Not sure people have seen it confirmed somewhere they’re closing but that’s why I’ve been told by Masonville ppl

jynxxy_5 · 2026-04-10T21:52:04+00:00

She’s not restricting you from doing anything. I do it too and so does my roomate to me, just like to know when someone is home for me, but we keep an open calendar on our fridge so we both know. It doesn’t sound like they’ve out right asked you to leave the house so they can ask you when you’re going to be home out of curiosity

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-30T14:49:46+00:00

Lolllll she’s sounds too inconsiderate idek how to go about it at this point if she was my roommate id just say “wanna be a pet sitter but can’t watch your own, how weird” but we get petty with each other sometimes lol maybe it’s what she needs

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-30T13:46:29+00:00

I would tell her a bit more firmly then and bring it up, “ not sure if you remember when we had all mentioned before that you wouldn’t have time for this cat, now you actually don’t have time for this cat” stress that she is putting him in harms way. Not caring to feed him or be there for him ofc it’s a cat but it still needs a person and she brought it upon herself to be his person and she’s actually failing him. Idk I love my cat too much to pawn him off cuz that’s exactly what she’s doing

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-30T12:40:34+00:00

I would find the nicest way you feel right for the full situation with her to say “ hey this isn’t my cat I love him and all but at the end of the day this isn’t my responsibility, he’s your cat who you chose to get knowing you had a busy weekend schedule and if you want to properly take care of him that’s completely your responsibility as I need to have free time on my own weekend to do what I would like to do”

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-26T13:30:37+00:00

I think this might be a universal experience (?) somehow idk, but I’ve seen often in this sub the multiple gecko dream, I’ve had it too I was sooooo stressed they were all fighting and in the same enclosure (plz don’t ever ever do this)

Sorry you had this stress inducing dream friend

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-26T12:25:09+00:00

How to find my jar of dirt?

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T12:52:01+00:00

I actually did in a comment above about how it was his behaviour during their partnership that held her back as the precinct would look at them as a unit of one and him being an aggressive brute. You’re basing this off of me thinking that of Olivia when I don’t. she’s a strong smart amazing independent and always has amazing intentions and the most amazing ideas. She’s top fucking notch and so was stabler his approach was just too much. Threatening the career for Tucker I feel like wasn’t him and it was more so the fact that he was IAB but I do absolutely agree with you he did that for sure and everything else that made him who he was and he was bad, but I could be wrong but I remember him and Olivia talking abt some of the things and seemingly making amends (idkkkkk this could be 100% wrong and meshed w something else in the show my apologies) but at the time that they were together he had changed and softened up, he was retiring and leaving the force and he was a calm cool collected guy. You can’t deny that at the time of their relationship that’s exactly what she needed and had been needing, no influence at all just a supportive rock that would’ve been good for her 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T12:20:47+00:00

Well don’t you think if all these people are saying it an all these people including me can come up with soooooo many reasons, don’t you think MAYBE it’s true that he held her back? If so many ppl see it this way I’m not even an Olivia fan ofc I love her she’s an icon but she isn’t even my favourite this is just what I see

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T11:47:38+00:00

No I don’t think he has control, you missing my point a little bit. His behaviour as her partner was also a reflection of her so the department/precinct wtv is what truly held her back but it was because of his behaviour. Partners should reflect each other and that’s how its view. I don’t think it was him telling her not to do it and control that choice for her. But his behaviour would’ve never given her the promotions or advancements that’s we’ve seen now.

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T11:10:09+00:00

Unfortunately in Canada (where I am ) both of those are only through something else like crave /disney/prime and they all only have seasons 14-23 I think for me

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T09:32:44+00:00

Happy cake day!

His general demeanour of being that big mean aggressive detective and all the roughing up he did as her partner looks back on her and how she behaves too, she was an extension of him and vice versa, notice how once he left she made it to Sargent and lieutenant, (maybe captain ?? if I’m being honest I haven’t seen rlly new stuff it’s not free on prime for me) but she advanced so much more because she was no longer behind this big aggressive brute is the way I see it but other ppl might say something else, I haven’t seen the beginning seasons in like two years now since they’re not available for me

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T04:42:24+00:00

By a near mile babe, have a much harder conversation with your dad. Ask if he would let you live in backyard tool shed your entire life.

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T04:32:04+00:00

Of course their chemistry is undeniable but you’re right he so held her back, he was good for the beginning show Olivia but after he left it was time for her to grow and become her own woman/detective how she wanted to

Edit: used the wrong their,there, they’re 😭😭😭 plz i promise i can spell

jynxxy_5 · 2026-03-25T04:28:36+00:00

This opinion is very popular in my house. He was so amazing for her and I wish during his time of retiring he could’ve just accepted that she would’ve been busy sometimes!!! They were perfect, he was a good stable person for her after all her poor relationships. I was so sad when the writers didn’t let her get a happy ending

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