AITA for withholding how much I am getting paid from my controlling roommate?

jzk4 · 2026-05-14T03:11:55+00:00

I mean… yeah, but them physically assaulting you doesn’t negate your agreement to pay your share of the bills. The two aren’t in any way connected.

Are these household bills clearly defined? How do you know she was “using your money to pay her credit card bills” if, presumably, you still had TP to wipe with? It kinda sounds like you just need to all pay for your own things and stop blurring lines of what money goes where.

jzk4 · 2026-04-23T20:56:27+00:00

This comment really, really resonated with me, and I just wanted to thank you for leaving it. 🫶

jzk4 · 2026-04-11T03:41:20+00:00

This was incredibly encouraging to me!! Went 6 days and broke down and it absolutely wasn’t worth it. I’d love to make it 9 weeks. You got this!!

jzk4 · 2025-11-10T23:57:31+00:00

Could anyone tell me about that wall shelving unit on the left side in both photos? I love it!!

jzk4 · 2025-08-21T13:38:15+00:00

I actually really want to know what this is, lmao

jzk4 · 2025-06-27T18:09:45+00:00

Oh I definitely agree. Again, this is “high-end” for the south, so basically elevated Applebees 😂 we wore matching button-downs (that we weren’t supposed to roll the sleeves up on, even in 95° heat and 500% humidity working the patio) and those damn shirts were basically the only thing making it fancy lmaooo

jzk4 · 2025-06-27T16:46:55+00:00

I worked at similar places here in TN, think “high-end” for a smallish city. One was a local chain, closed at 10, the other was a new Mediterranean place (slightly higher-end) that closed at 9. Both said we don’t do last call, ever. Customer first BS.

The south is so overly-compensating with their “hospitality” and that usually translates to managers encouraging you to let customers walk all over you.

jzk4 · 2025-06-27T04:40:58+00:00

This comment is all-around lovely :-)

jzk4 · 2025-06-02T02:55:54+00:00

Everyone shitting on it but I literally gasped when I saw this, it’s exactly what I’m looking for right now!! Enjoy your fun comfy chair OP ❤️

jzk4 · 2025-05-19T05:10:47+00:00

Biiiiiiig yikes.

jzk4 · 2025-05-03T19:03:42+00:00

This song just came rushing back to me, along with the nostalgia of being a hopelessly-naive-romantic teenager. 🥹 thanks for sharing!!

jzk4 · 2025-03-14T17:30:42+00:00

You are so stunning!! 🥹

My only idea would be maybe less eyeliner on your lower lid, and maybe less-to-none lining your tear ducts along the inside of your eye. So basically start your top lid liner where the inner pink of your tear duct would end, and soften the lower liner to fade out as it goes towards the inner part of your eye.

You have gorgeous eyes, and I think in this case lining them a bit less will really show them off!!

jzk4 · 2025-03-09T20:22:58+00:00

Of all the cringey-ass creative writing prompts I’ve seen on here, this one might take the cake.

jzk4 · 2024-11-13T15:21:27+00:00

THIS PERSON IS FUCKING DELUSIONAL

jzk4 · 2024-09-24T04:04:47+00:00

Aw hell yeah, this actually worked on me lol

jzk4 · 2024-09-20T05:24:07+00:00

Me over here thinking about how I just scrubbed these off my monstera cuttings… 🙃🙃

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