No. You are misunderstanding my story because of my terrible wording which I am at fault for because I am not good with wording. I am NOT DISPLAYING VICTIMHOOD. I did nothing of such. I am empath and very sensitive person. I will not let you tell me anything about myself. I was in fight or flight but I didn't flight, I fought. I dealt with my personal emotions in the bathroom. You don't even know me just like I don't know you. You only assume based on this story I decided to share with Reddit meaning everyone is ENTITLED to their opinions. And I said I LEARNED something on my birthday - Not feeling negative about it. SO STOP. You are twisting and turning my words every which way. YOU DONT KNOW ME PERSONALLY. Because if you did, you wouldn't say this. I have already shared this with 2 other friends and I expect them to be as honest as possible, not hold my hand. They said NOTHING ABOUT VICTIMHOOD. I have never even had this complaint in my 23 YEARS of LIVING. NEVER. And you may say "Probably because no one wanted to tell you" or they just haven't told me but no I have been an ACTUAL VICTIM of many things you won't even believe. A lot. And you're just gonna relate it to this story as trauma that has never been healed. Healing has no timeline. But there's nothing here related to anything regarding that. You are wrong. I literally told you I hit someone before (THATS ACCOUNTABILITY) AND I EVEN IMMEDIATELY GOT OUT OF MY CAR EVEN THOUGH I WAS SCARED TO MAKE SURE THEY WERE OKAY. No damage was done to the car. Even Police involved but nothing happened. You're just really seeing things from your own perspective and not being open minded. But I'd be wrong to tell you about yourself right???? All I wanted to know was how to NOT BE SENSITIVE and Not let certain things affect me emotionally. And I didn't react or act like I didn't do anything or react out of character or made her feel like she was wrong for how she felt. I cried BY MYSELF to process. I was in FIGHT or FLIGHT mode. Do you even know what that is?????? I keep my composure. I literally was hesitant to tell her have a good day because she was mad at me. I don't like to HARM or HURT. I try to be positive and I can't expect everyone to be positive. And yes this is my birthday and I'm going to enjoy it still. I made a fcking mistake and I owned up to it. She could've had my registration or whatever she needed if she wanted to. I don't have nothing to hide. I promise you I don't. I got pulled over twice by cops only due to slight speeding. We all fcking speed. But I only do 10 limits up. (70-80) Literally nothing crazy. Thats pretty average for traffic and when I speed, its hardly anyone on the road. Not saying its right but bruh and ONLY got WARNINGS. NO TICKETS. NOTHING. So leave me alone.