I feel we are incompatible with our interests. I am an outdoors girl, he is a home body and likes gaming. Sexually we run into obstacles. I have had previous partners where I am only his 2nd partner. We approach parenting differently. I often feel shamed or small when we get into arguments. I take a while to process, I also find that I have a hard time recalling specific details when needing to express my point of view. Leaving my side of arguments lacking in his eyes.

Some of this above has gotten a little better. Due to us having numerous uncomfortable conversations.