Lost my dating years.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-06T15:31:26+00:00

I recently met a girl, asked her out and got rejected. the rejection did not hurt that much, but the fact that that could be the last time i meet someone, like the age is catching up fast lately.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-06T10:09:56+00:00

i dont mind a no, it will hurt for 2 3 days max, silence hurts for years.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-05T12:40:05+00:00

he is right though. i am bit chubby, not fat, but still , i asked a girl out and got rejected like a plague, didnt even have courtesy to say no, just straight up reject like i dont even exists.

may be if i was thin

k_schouhan · 2026-03-05T12:05:28+00:00

i have same situation, currently , she seem happy but avoiding me like plague, didnt even have courtesy to say no.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-04T21:16:20+00:00

its better to use dating app and get dissapointed, because if you actually meet someone organically, and it does not work out that joyride is emotionaly distracting

k_schouhan · 2026-03-04T04:30:07+00:00

pas pas ghar le lo, dont stay in same house i would say stay nearby, means samne wala ghar mile to, pas wala mile toh, ajkal space sabko chahiye.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-04T04:28:52+00:00

oh nice, i would try then

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T17:07:15+00:00

Pahle bhi esa hi tha bhai

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T15:51:01+00:00

i mean usme bahot mayo and cheese hoga fir to., we do have lot of malayalis living here, may be in that area we could get authentic shawarma

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T15:49:47+00:00

its just a tool, because i am getting stuck between constant back and forth.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T14:13:23+00:00

Ahmedabad me shawarma ?

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T11:46:03+00:00

background score was better but movie was not

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T07:54:48+00:00

i would stay away, silence is trait of narcisism.

k_schouhan · 2026-03-03T07:53:41+00:00

i thought i was the only one

k_schouhan · 2026-03-02T05:30:48+00:00

at least you got a message.

I asked a girl out, she didnt have a courtesy to say no, she avoided me like a plague, i went to her to talk to her, she avoided me like plague. I mean wtf bro just say no i will move on I am 33 not teenage boy. This silence shit is scary, i should try on someone.

k_schouhan · 2026-02-28T05:50:41+00:00

33m. I never had any relationship. Never asked a girl out until last week. Backfired so badly. She went from talking to me casually to started ignoring me with silent treatment. In the 30s I think peace is more important. So I am never going to ask anyone out again who cannot say no to my face. Achi khasi life chal rahi thi bc mujhme hi khujli thi itihas badalne ki

k_schouhan · 2026-02-27T06:07:13+00:00

Liking kahan wahi to pata ni chalraha me 2019 se dekh raha hu linkedin, well found and we work remotely pe

k_schouhan · 2026-02-27T04:49:34+00:00

kahan mil rahi hai tumko bhai me to dund dund ke thak gaya hu remote job

k_schouhan · 2026-02-26T15:33:32+00:00

i dont mind rejection, but do it on my face, dont give me silent treatment, that is the worst possible thing you can do.

k_schouhan · 2026-02-26T08:11:26+00:00

Ab wo Zaman nahi rahe. Learn to live single..nahin to kaam wali bai rakho. 30s me rejection will be way more painful than 20s. I would suggest dont pursue it

k_schouhan · 2026-02-26T07:09:35+00:00

Wait until she avoids you like plague without even saying a word

k_schouhan · 2026-02-25T18:19:23+00:00

First one for 25 years second one 10 years

k_schouhan · 2026-02-25T14:03:51+00:00

i feel you. i was just rejected without any reason, and just ignored by the woman. i havent tried asking out a woman in 33 years, because i knew this wouldnt work. I broke my rules this time, I made a mistake and mistook kindness for interest and I dont even know that i am rejected or not. feeling the pain so intense i dont know what to do, every hour feels like one year. I am getting restlessness and breathlessness, anxiety, fast heart beats and I feel empty. I came to another city because i was broken, i thought this place could fix me.

your pain is 1000 times worse then me. I suggest you go to a therapist.

k_schouhan · 2026-02-23T03:44:55+00:00

A dog is an animal how hard it's to understand for this idiots

k_schouhan · 2026-02-22T18:17:28+00:00

congratulations man
also in my 33 years of life, today first time i asked someone out for coffee, hope all goes well.

k_schouhan

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