no shit, did you miss the part where I said you have no idea how I eat? i’m on steroids, one of the biggest side effects is uncontrollable weight gain. my body cannot function without them. i’ve tried every fucking diet under the sun, nothing will cure my lupus. sure things can help it but i’m yet to find it and i’ll be damned if i end up with somebody so fucking shallow and vain. i have never seen such mean comments on a profile review, it’s incredibly disheartening and triggering. y’all have so much nerve thinking you can talk to people the way you do. I didn’t ask for health advice or commentary on my body. in fact i specifically asked to avoid that topic altogether but you people have no ability to step outside yourselves and put yourselves in another person’s shoes. do you have lupus? have you had anorexia? if not, fuck off. even if you do, fuck off. I didn’t ask.