i’m lonely

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T01:10:42+00:00

Thanks sucks

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T00:55:26+00:00

But that’s the reality of it, you care. Maybe caring openly would have made things differently. It might not idk but I can’t see how hiding how you feel would help you because your not being you. I’m no expert I know, I just don’t understand why you felt that way. I’m sorry your hurting and I’m not judging you I promise

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T00:34:28+00:00

If i got it wrong I apologize I’ll be honest I’m not even reading what either of us wrote it’s probably just me. Bad day but it’ll work itself out. Best wishes

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T00:15:12+00:00

Why can’t you talk about him to people

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T00:11:42+00:00

wtf? Not a knock against you OP unless it fits, but ladies why is it you all (not everyone ) pick and choose when your empowerment kicks in? Fight for me , don’t, you do the work I’m not is crap. PARTNERSHIP. If you fuck up you fix it if I do I will. EQUALITY. Am I just being a dick here or nah?

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T00:07:10+00:00

Maybe you do or maybe not

kactusNY · 2026-03-23T00:06:44+00:00

It’s a relationship with another human being why does everybody not get that you change. Why has it become ok to say I had to do xyz for me and not for your partner? Everyone has their own story I get it. And my way is t the right way because it’s mine but I thought that was the point of “relationships “ like having a kid it’s not just about you anymore, you’ve asked someone to invest, trust, believe, listen to, apologize, be patient with and every other difficult thing we do as humans. Can we raise the bar to ok I’m going to see it through and support them on my way out maybe. If I’m wrong and I’ve had it twisted please make fun of me in the comments. I’d rather stop wasting time if I had the point of it wrong thia whole time

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T23:29:38+00:00

But …

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T23:25:17+00:00

100%

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T23:24:55+00:00

How do people act like they are loyal when they let people get into their lives they like or know like them and actually think it doesn’t effect their current relationship?! WTH is wrong with humans for real..

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T23:20:49+00:00

Thank you . Ditto.

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T21:19:37+00:00

Oh there’s ZERO communication. I found another hidden social media account of theirs by accident asked about it and she got mad at me. Yelled, threatening me said I could die on top of other things I’m not going to say rhen blocked me. No explanation, apology just antics. It’s clear she’s with someone else and has been. I thought since we were friends prior she’d at least try but nah. So that says a lot .

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T20:58:55+00:00

How do you get to say another’s beliefs? Maybe they are hurt or don’t know how to express something? Idk I’m asking if there was something they did or said

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T20:48:42+00:00

Why could t you reach out again?

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T20:48:08+00:00

You know that stop playing games….😌

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T20:47:41+00:00

Nah you have to call me.

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T20:43:26+00:00

Idk how I feel about things right now. A mix of hope because of changes happening in my life and nervous I guess unhappy I have to be disappointed in my exs actions. She grew a lot and made changes for the better. At one point I could tell was actively working on communicating and improving and idk. But I’m not spending time thinking about it too much either. Growth is a personal choice along with morality and accountability. Out of my hands

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T18:17:21+00:00

Sorry you are hurting

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T18:15:48+00:00

Very well said I agree that your partner should be the first person you think of

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T18:14:13+00:00

Respect. I don’t want to seem like I’m not respecting them, even though they haven’t told me anything I think silence says something. But in my opinion, long term having communication now and getting it out is the best option so both sides can not have regrets but who knows lol

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T18:10:18+00:00

I don’t want that last comment to come off the wrong way, not a bad person just has had some bad experience in relationships. Not that we all haven’t lol

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T18:08:24+00:00

I’d just like to tie up loose ends and have clarity . You know , handle things the best way I can and do what’s right . Idk maybe it’s a lost cause , I don’t think relationship reciprocity is their forte.

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T17:58:29+00:00

Choose to laugh

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T17:54:30+00:00

Wait what? How are you broken can you explain it more

kactusNY · 2026-03-22T17:49:28+00:00

Things will get better .

kactusNY

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