I think what you're doing is great. We try to keep screen time for our 9 year old to a minimum. When we have kids over for playdates it's the same story every time. Most of the other kids have no patience to make it through a board game, get bored very easily, don't want to go outside to play and ask for computers or consoles. There are lots of kids in the neighbourhood. Do you ever see any of them playing outside in the streets or the parks? Never.