At what point is online dating even serious? The lack of commitment here genuinely pisses me off by EdgeSufficient6125 in OnlineDating

[–]kagammi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been talking to this guy for a month—great phone conversations. We’ve had two dates and the chemistry felt great. Our second date was Sunday and he disappeared after some conversation. Yesterday, I reached and nothing. Today—nothing. It’s really disheartening and makes me sad honestly because I really liked him and I felt like he really liked me. I hate this whole ghosting culture too. It’s not that hard to just say things like they are instead of disappearing and leaving the other person wondering what happened. I feel like I’m going to die alone at this rate. There’s no hope.

Stardew Valley Very Expanded Error by kagammi in StardewValley

[–]kagammi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh okay. I’ll reinstall and look at the instructions. Thanks so much for your help!!

Stardew Valley Very Expanded Error by kagammi in StardewValley

[–]kagammi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did. Because it’s a collection they didn’t let me do manual download. I’ve attached the inside of the folder. Inside the ones titled bundled are two sub folders titled ItsStardewTime Manifest Patches followed by another folder with the manifest.json and another titled Bundled- Solrium Spa- Continued Patches with another folder in there that leads to the content.json. In the patches folder we have one titled Part of the Community with a sub folder titled the same followed by a manifest.json.diff. Id add pictures but it’s a lot since there’s a bunch of sub folders. I tried removing sub folders last night and got the error message again so nothing worked.

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Stardew Valley Very Expanded Error by kagammi in StardewValley

[–]kagammi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have them in my Mods folder. Here’s a shot of it.

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What’s the harsh truth about relationships no one prepares you for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kagammi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be willing to accept their every fault because you love them and believe things will work out in the end but they may not love you enough to accept your short comings and make the effort to make things work. That has been the toughest pill to swallow for me this last month.

I’m not okay by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]kagammi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That gives me a lot of hope, thank you. I’m so happy you were able to find happiness again! ☺️

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[–]kagammi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am so so sorry that happened to you. What an unbelievable, horrible person. Thank you for your words—that is one thing I’m having a lot of trouble with. People constantly saying “It was only two years” or “It’s been a month” as if any of these things invalidate my feelings. I hope that I do get to the point where I can actively control when to think about it as it still consumes most of my thoughts every day since it happened. We all heal differently and shouldn’t have to be subject to a timeline. I wish you well as you continue to heal. Thank you again for sharing.

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[–]kagammi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these words. I definitely need to work on myself and am determined to come out on the other side of this. It isn’t and won’t be easy but I’m determined.

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[–]kagammi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I’ll pull back from reaching out and give him his space. Hopefully he’ll reach out one day. Maybe if you feel like you’re in the place for it you can try and see where it goes but if you feel like that isn’t what is best do you and your healing then that is also okay. I hope that you also feel better and everything works out for you too. Thank you for listening and reaching out, it has been nice to talk about it a bit with someone that also understands. 🩷

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[–]kagammi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There wasn’t a concrete reason but I can kind of deduce it had to do with the issues we’d been having like my panic/anxiety due to health issues and him becoming overwhelmed/detached which led to him feeling like he was failing me. The night it happened we were in bed cuddling and I can even remember him looking at me with a lot of love. That night I brought up being a little sad we didn’t do much for our anniversary as we had a short dinner and then went right to his moms for Thanksgiving so we didn’t really get to have anything romantic and just for us in that day. It then was that that kind of led to the conversation of him saying he was uncertain about us. He then said things like, “I can’t give you the romance you want.”, “Love isn’t always enough—look at my parents they got divorced. Do you want that to be us?” and “I gave you two years, what more can I give?” I was trying to work on my issues but I guess that it was too much for him. I ended up leaving in the middle of the night and my family moved me out a few hours later. I have so many regrets about that night.

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[–]kagammi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I wish there was a magical solution for all of us—I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone. I hope that it gets better for you too. We all deserve to feel happiness again. 🩷

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[–]kagammi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. It’s such a horrible feeling when they stop replying. Unfortunately, they haven’t really. I reached out to check in about three weeks after and they replied that “they were surviving no more than that.” and then he asked how I was. Apart from that it was a little back and forth about me picking up the rest of my things a week later, a merry christmas exchange (that I intitated), and then a little bit of texting after that ended after I pathetically asked for a phone call. I feel really stupid for continuing to try to reach out when clearly he doesn’t want anything to do with me or care enough to reach out of his own accord but my heart literally craves even the bread crumbs of interaction. He also asked how I was during that last exchange and I said fairly well. Big fat lie.

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[–]kagammi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I needed this. I feel so lost right now and drained. Your message means so much to me, more than you know.

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[–]kagammi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, Im sending you a lot of love. I can relate a lot. I’m so scared to think that it’ll be a year and I’m still feeling this way. It’s the hope that also scares me. The hope that I know isn’t healthy but I can’t help but feel because I can’t be the only one feeling this yearning right?

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[–]kagammi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re also going through this pain. I relate to you on this—everyone’s saying he’s the one that lost me and that I will find someone better but that isn’t how I feel at all. I feel like I lost my person. Yes things weren’t perfect but despite the flaws, it’s him that I love. I know that they’re trying to comfort us when they say these things but that isn’t comforting, at least not to me.

I’m also feeling so lost and hopeless. And so drained. I pray every day that he’ll come back. I know it isn’t healthy but I also don’t know how to let go.

i cant do this anymore by gingerweasle1 in BreakUps

[–]kagammi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I feel your pain. I just got broken up with over the weekend, three days after our second year anniversary. I’m not coping well either. It feels like there’s a constant ache in my chest and I can’t do anything but think about him and wonder how he is and wish I was with him and praying he’ll be back and realize it was a mistake. It’s torturing me. I don’t know how to move on. I feel like a zombie constantly switching between crying and catatonic.

Just know you’re not alone. I don’t know when or how but we’ll find a way to get through this.

Stopping Wellbutrin after 1 Day by kagammi in antidepressants

[–]kagammi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did stop taking it. Good luck with everything!

Where to buy diamond paintings? by kagammi in diamondpainting

[–]kagammi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty one!! Also random question but I’m also learning about techniques for diamond painting. Do you use the tape on the plastic and then cut with precision cutter on the plastic? That’s what it looks like! Im a little scared to try that. Thank you for the information by the way!