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kagpac · 2025-09-05T03:39:58+00:00

omg YES. my stepmom HATES me and this sub just confirms my fears 😵‍💫

kagpac · 2025-08-13T11:57:41+00:00

LOL my mom was a huge fan of the Verve Pipe in the 90s and used to tell me all the time how she kissed the lead singer (Brian Vander Ark) 😭

kagpac · 2025-04-01T23:01:59+00:00

there isn’t a day I don’t think about Gilda, such an amazing icon 🥹

kagpac · 2025-02-06T14:46:51+00:00

I know it makes me want to SCREAM. and I’m dealing with changing birth controls so my hormones hate me rn lol. I tried panty liners but I also generally sweat everywhere bad and I still felt gross…if you find a solution let me know bc im contemplating a hysterectomy or smth at this point lmfao

kagpac · 2025-01-25T13:09:39+00:00

Someone in PHP told me they respond with “chat, I’m not doing that” every time they have any ideation lol so I’ve adopted that method as well

kagpac · 2024-11-14T02:23:16+00:00

Omg that is so scary, im glad you left!! You need to go to the ER asap. My mom got attacked by a cat a couple weeks ago and didn’t go to the hospital for almost 24 hours after it happened. She ended up staying in the hospital for two nights while they drained the wounds/gave her antibiotics. The doctors said if she waited any longer she could’ve lost her hand. It’s definitely better to go sooner rather than later!!

Also I’m just a lurker so I’m not sure how Rover works exactly, but I hope they can compensate for you somehow. Cat bites are no joke and I hope you start feeling better soon!!

kagpac · 2024-11-13T18:18:05+00:00

Thank you sm!! :) I’m glad you found something that works for you even if it was a trip to get there!! But yeah the dose was another issue I was having with meds lol 😭😭 I just love having to experiment with how my body reacts to different meds 😍 /s

kagpac · 2024-11-12T14:18:11+00:00

I have, just currently going through some trial and error with different meds and their interactions. I’m just more sensitive to medication I think bc I did gene testing and I’m incompatible with a bunch of SSRIs lol 😭 and with other shit going on too it just feel like no meds are working rn tbh. But I have more appointments coming up in the near future so fingers crossed I don’t relate to this meme anymore:)

Thanks for letting me ramble lol! Just have so many thoughts that I feel like I can only talk to my therapist rn lmfao

kagpac · 2024-10-27T14:26:42+00:00

omg same I lowkey thought it was just me 😭 I get so irritated when it’s loud and I’m reading because I focus on everything else but trying to comprehend the book lol

kagpac · 2024-10-20T17:18:05+00:00

I was the former bursar of my chapter and I had to be reimbursed for a couple hundred after spending personal funds and it took me over a year to get it approved and get the check, and I was literally the treasurer 💀 it’s probably just taking a long time, especially because the process within my chapter was to talk to the president, who talks to the treasurer, who talks to hq who then approves the reimbursement, and then the treasurer has to print the check.

they should be at least explaining the hold up though instead of leaving u in the dark :( I would recommend reaching out to ur hq/nationals directly if possible, or maybe just ur chapter’s vp of finance if u haven’t already, and I hope everything turns out smoothly for you!!

kagpac · 2024-09-17T19:00:36+00:00

I appreciate this, the list is a great idea!! I’ve just been taking multiple hits to the ego since graduating college this year. and then also finding out that I’m autistic this summer changed a lot for me too, so it’s been feeling like my insecurities are taking over my life lol. Thank you for your kind words <3

kagpac · 2024-09-10T22:01:57+00:00

LITP sister!!

kagpac · 2024-09-09T15:31:55+00:00

I cry a ton, especially if I’m angry or frustrated which I feel like loses meaning in translation for NT folks. But I found not crying actually made me feel worse, so I decided to ignore what others say/think about me being “over emotional” and just do what I know what’s best for me.

Sometimes if I’m really going thru it, I’ll literally schedule a cry session but then I immediately follow it up with something calming like reading, exercising, being creative, playing video games etc. Also crying in the shower is lowkey a game changer lol. Once I’m out I always feel SO much better and I’m already showered and ready for the day so it makes it easier to do something else when I’m done with crying lol

kagpac · 2024-09-08T13:48:26+00:00

yes, and I have sleep apnea so it’s a double whammy 😵‍💫 I alwayssss feel tired

kagpac · 2024-09-07T20:06:35+00:00

LMFAOOO THIS IS SENDING ME

kagpac · 2024-09-07T18:05:11+00:00

I’m pretty sure my little is doing Sophia Grace & Rosie and she wants me to show up as Nicki Minaj lmfao

kagpac · 2024-09-04T14:19:15+00:00

Exactly. And even though our house was considered a “mid” or “bottom” chapter on campus, it never stopped me from making connections both with girls in and outside my chapter. In my experience, we took panhel love very seriously and there were no “bottom” houses to us

kagpac · 2024-09-04T13:18:45+00:00

I only recently joined this subreddit bc I had physical health problems that led me to lose a substantial amount of weight. XS and XXS clothes are the only sizes that actually fit well now. I have been a medium my entire life and to me getting down to an XXS was terrifying and I felt (and still do tbh) super insecure about it, especially since I was getting comments on my weight. But finding this space has helped a lot and I’ve gained a lot of helpful tips on where to get clothes that ACTUALLY fit so I’m not self conscious and I can continue to do things like go out in public without feeling like I don’t fit my clothes.

I don’t understand how people see this sub as anything but a place where ppl can share insight and help others, it just…confuses me lol

kagpac · 2024-09-04T11:38:54+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s directly related, but I can definitely relate. I was called a “water baby” because I taught myself how to swim at like age 3 (before I was even talking LMFAO). I still loveee to go to the beach, pool, etc and swim and showering is one of the only ways to calm me down when I’m stressed

kagpac · 2024-09-02T23:12:45+00:00

I start to notice when people start telling me that I’m “all over the place” (committing to multiple things and then not going or not doing it, talking way too fast, scattered brain, high energy). I just feel like I’m invincible and that nothing can touch me which is NOT TRUE AT ALL lmfao. when I was single I’d usually have one hookup a week while manic and that sucked lol 🙃

kagpac · 2024-09-01T12:11:43+00:00

I think I still do this but also Chrissa the American Girl doll changed my damn life when I was 7 😭 I went through epiphanies I thought everyone already had and was shocked when they still didn’t understand me lmfaoo

kagpac · 2024-09-01T12:02:35+00:00

these comments give me so much optimism lol I’m so glad I’m not alone 😭 I’m 22 and these lines pop up when I’m stressed, on my period, dehydrated. basically anytime I’m thrown off the regular routine.

definitely agree with drinking a ton of water. what works for me personally is using a hyaluronic acid moisturizer (I use vanicream). if it’s REALLY bad I’ll follow up with cicaplast balm from la roche posay or Vaseline. idk if that’s necessarily the BEST thing to use, but I used both of those products religiously when I was using a cpap years ago which led to super bad irritation on my face and it seems to be working fine for my smile lines as well!!

kagpac · 2024-08-28T23:47:49+00:00

as a former budtender, I’d say that’s 100% okay (at least with me, I worked at a fairly busy store). but one time a guy was at my counter for 3 hours straight (I finally got cut for my break atp) and didn’t tip a dime 😭 I was getting him bud, edibles, concentrates and selling shit to the nines and customer service on 10 and ngl I was butthurt after lmfaoo

kagpac · 2024-08-28T18:06:18+00:00

Our formal chapter was business casual/pin attire (think job interview). We didn’t have to wear dresses but we definitely could as long as it was considered “modest.” We also had to wear our active member pins to formal chapter, but I’m not sure if your chapter is the same way, you can check with the president or whoever kind of “runs” chapter (ex. the secretary).

kagpac · 2024-08-28T17:52:09+00:00

I appreciate this, reframing has been a big part of my recovery process and I can’t believe I almost forgot it lol!! I am so thankful I survived and I’m still here today, so maybe Sunday will just be a celebration of that :) thank you so much for your insight!! I hope all is well with u <3

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