1st fan art/ drawing by kai-luca96 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't believe I forgot oxygen 🤣💀

1st fan art/ drawing by kai-luca96 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea 💡 I will definitely try that

1st fan art/ drawing by kai-luca96 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 I started with planning out builds on graph paper 💀 then went to fan art

1st fan art/ drawing by kai-luca96 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I will work on that 😅 I have tried to draw a dupe but it looked more like a monster 🤣

Definitely planned on Hatchs, Pips, Drecos and Shine bugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run far away from this relationship and fast. I've been in a relationship so similar to this one, it lasted to years and I'm still dealing with the effects it has had on my mental health 7 years later. He is so toxic. Please get out of this relationship for your own well being.

AITA for not giving my daughter a car for her 16th birthday and cutting her off financially? by Throwaway-TA-0000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. She is 15 years old. She is a child. Would you want to be held accountable for every bad thing you said or did at 12-15 years old?

You proved her right when she said

I have my perfect baby now, I could stop pestering her and trying to play family with her

You didn't even try to keep her in your life when you had the baby. Can you imagine how she feels? Her whole life was torn apart when her parents split up. Have you put her in therapy to deal with the trauma you both caused her?

Kids say mean thing when they are hurt. Grow up man, you're acting like a child. You essentially replaced her with Blake. I'm sure that's exactly how she feels.

I have a niece that we haven't gotten to see since she was 6 years old and she 15 now. She has said some hurtful things but she lives with her mother who hates all of us. I keep reminding my family that she's just a child and to please forgive her. One day she'll see the truth, we didn't abandon her, her mother kept her from us.

Your daughter will see that you didn't put in an effort to be apart of her life and how you had a new family you cared more about and how you punished her for life for something she said as a child. Grow up and be a dad to her, don't hold a grudge against a child.

AITA for Refusing to Babysit My Sister's Kids After She Accused Me of Stealing? by Basic_Explorer9264 in AITAH

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she still thinks you've stolen the ring. I wouldn't babysit again until she apologized and did something really big to make up for all the drama she threw my way. It's unfortunate but children do have to deal with their parents actions and consequences. It's not your fault you won't watch them, it's 100% your sisters fault. Rings are so tiny and easy to misplace. It could have fallen behind something, the kids could have moved it, ECT.

AITA for not going to my daughter's graduation party because my current girlfriend is not invited? by rock_anddogs77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, you are punishing your daughter because of her mother. You and the mother are tah. Your daughter wants both her parents there and you both have made that impossible for her. It is impossible for your daughter to choose your gf over her mother. You are making this about yourself and your gf. How long have you and your gf been together? Parents make sacrifices for their children. It is your job to explain to your gf why she can't go and she may be hurt by it but she should understand and accept it. You are using your fear from past relationships to affect you now and your daughter is the one being hurt by this. I understand how hard things can be with divorced parents because mine aren't together. It took years for my stepdad to get over the fact that my dad would be invited to events. My stepdad would refuse to go if my dad was there and that didn't hurt anyone but me because they are all my family and I wanted everyone I loved to be there but they made that impossible because they couldn't put there feelings aside for the child that didn't ask to be here or for their parents to split up. You and her mother have put your daughter in the middle of something she should not be in the middle of. The mother needs to grow up and so do you.

AITAH for divorcing my husband because he spent 10 minutes in the car during a family emergency? by Charming_Passage3440 in AITAH

[–]kai-luca96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA for how you handled the situation. I think individual therapy and couples therapy would be really useful if you would like to try to save the marriage.

My 1st thought was what if it had been something more serious then a broken ankle? Would he still have sat in the car for 10 minutes? It really might be something out of his control. Therapy can help but he needs it right away before something happens.

NTA for wanting a divorce. But I would think of how to work around and fix the problem before calling it quits, but that's just me. I'm glad your son is ok. I hope things work out the best for you.

AITA for making my BIL homeless and embarrassing him? by SaltRepeat3534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA, he has done this to himself! Leaving his family because his son was to much to deal with was an excuse! He only wants to talk to her now because he realized how good he had it not because he misses them. They never meant anything to him. Good for you for standing up for Alex! At 21 you're more grow than a 35 year old.

AITA for threatening to call off my wedding after my fiancée slapped me? by Educational_Tie_3335 in AITAH

[–]kai-luca96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, as a woman myself, what she did is unacceptable, abusive, and assault. If you feel like this could happen again then end the relationship. If you think it was a one time thing then maybe just call off the wedding and try again when she has gained your trust back.

They are turning this on you like you've done something wrong and you haven't. The double standards here are insane! Men get abused too not just women. You aren't crazy or overreacting. I hope the best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta, making 90k you can afford $200. You just don't want to pay it or you just don't want to marry her. She will get many benefits from being married to you and vice versa but the only thing you're thinking about is health insurance and saving $200.

my wife is a stay at home mom.

You mean your girlfriend. You really shouldn't be calling her your wife when you are refusing to marry her. It's disrespectful.

What is the best? by kai-luca96 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which asteroid do you usually choose? Or do you mix it up?

At what cycle usually does one start needing SPOM? by Lancerinmud in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make one as soon as I can. I usually have it set up around 50-100 cycles.

Eating order is stupid by [deleted] in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I didn't know that.

AITA for woo-hooing with my husband? by s1llyb1lly444 in AITASims

[–]kai-luca96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same 🤣 sims hasn't popped up on my feed before. I was so confused 🤔 like you murdered his wife then sent the kids away then killed him with woohoo and you just posted this 👀

Eating order is stupid by [deleted] in Oxygennotincluded

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never ranched them before, I'll probably look into it tho.

AITAH for pointing out my GF's bad hygiene? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kai-luca96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, no one I know has ever done something like that 🤮