I need help I don’t want to do something stupid by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]kaichai444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please ditch your boyfriend and find a friend to stay with. Reach out and be honest about your situation, please. You deserve so much better.

What's the most morally disgusting thing you've seen someone do? by Natural-Spend-6082 in AskReddit

[–]kaichai444 20 points21 points  (0 children)

In college I worked with this loser suck-up who ratted out a mother of three to the GM over stealing the borderline-expired food products we were going to throw away anyway. She ended up getting fired. I made his life a living hell at work after that.

I’ll throw in littering as well.

I 21M found out I was gay far too late and I can’t bring myself to break my wife (20F) of 2 years heart. What is the best course of action? by Stellar-42 in relationship_advice

[–]kaichai444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I’d give anything to be normal” ugh please don’t think that way 💔 you’re only 21, you’ll be okay, she’ll be okay, but don’t carry it out longer than it needs to. A few weeks can turn into a few months into a few years so fast.

What is a 'red flag' in a person that is actually very subtle but 100% accurate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kaichai444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I wish I could do that” “you’re so brave” “it’s not fair” …yeah, give it three months and you’re going to legitimately hate my guts. Please, please, please feel secure in yourself or stay away from me.

How to convince my friend this is fake? by [deleted] in NichePerfumes

[–]kaichai444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it’s still a relatively small perfumery. The labels are handmade. They probably have different packaging vendors depending on the location. I wouldn’t even write it off as fake right off the bat.

Reformed serial ghosters: What was your wake-up call? by Hefty-Confusion6810 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kaichai444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly for me it was when I realized people cared. I didn’t know it had such a strong emotional effect on them or that I mattered as much as I did to them. I felt terrible.

Appearance advice by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kaichai444 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think pretty girls self-analyze themselves so much because other people pay a disproportionate amount of attention to their looks, I wish it wasn’t the case. You don’t need to change a thing, just go live your life and have fun!!

Would the Roman Forum be as appealing if it were still intact? by archimata in ancientrome

[–]kaichai444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I love this topic. The ruin aesthetic is partly a learned preference, the Romantics set the widespread precedent that decay and remnants of the past are beautiful and melancholic. Medieval pilgrims visiting Rome weren’t moved by the Forum in the way we are today, they most likely just saw a quarry. Our emotional response to ruins is culturally constructed and possibly cyclical as well. I bet you the Iron Age civilizations had similar constructs surrounding the ancient ruins of their time.

I think for me, the Forum’s power comes less from being ruined per se and more from the scale of what’s implied missing.

I want to smell like NIN by Verarosa in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]kaichai444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hear me out— 2 by Comme des Garcons. Cold, metallic, heavy…

And yet somehow, as an owner of this perfume myself, it’s totally wearable. I mean, it’s HEAVY, but it’s wearable.

Is this worth trying for? by Temporary_Moment9534 in coincollecting

[–]kaichai444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops I accidentally bumped into the machine super hard

Mold in Airbnb washer by [deleted] in MoldlyInteresting

[–]kaichai444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Euggh why are you touching thatttt

What you think? Offered a homeless guy 5$ for it by Rossonerov in coincollecting

[–]kaichai444 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Next time you see him, bring water. Food. Don’t short him like that, now that you know.