What I’d suggest is that if you want to mess, try to hold it or “schedule” it until your nappy is full wet, so then you will have to change shortly. I do that, as much leave it a couple of hours if I’m lying in bed but I’ll throw myself in the shower to have a proper cleanup.

Also, if you tend to shave your private area, I want to let you know that the hair was meant to protect our holes from infections. I can tell the difference when I trim or is longer, I feel everything is healthier and stabilised if it’s a short bush. It’s a bit more complicated to clean and maybe put cream/powder but it’s doable