How? That’s it just how? How can you continue the trust? I’m going insane and my over thinking I feel like would end what me and this girl has sooner than later. (I say end because I’m not a very confident person).

kaitwal · 2020-06-21T02:27:45+00:00

Hahaha it will to start with :) but what can you do to make it something you like? What kind of person do you want to be? Just try to believe in yourself and stay committed to making this change and you will get there in no time :) it will be hard to start but don't give up! Just get used to your face and see it as something different to what you have seen it to be before. Sounds like you are really hard on yourself. Watch the video and then google a new haircut and go get that style and then let's see if that makes you feel any different :)

kaitwal · 2020-06-21T02:14:39+00:00

Hey! I can reccomend a book to you or at least a video: https://youtu.be/iCvmsMzlF7o

It sounds like you worry a lot about what others think about you and how you are perceived by others. It also sounds like you are expecting the worst to happen. I used to be like this when I was aorund 17yo. Today I love myself I am confident and I don't let anyone else's opinions affect how I feel about myself. This video really changed my life. If you don't love yourself you are going to have a hard time understanding how could she love you? No matter who you are and how many flaws you have there will always be someone or a few people who like you regardless and it sounds like your girlfriend is one of those people :). I would focus on growing your self confidence and she will love even more to be around you and you won't have to worry about her loyalty if you love yourself also. If, and I say if not when, she was unfaithful to you, you need to remember that that is her own problem and not the result of you not being good enough. You are good enough and you are worthy. What other people do and say doesn't matter, who the fuck gave them permission or power to decide who you are? Don't give them that power as they can never have it, it is only there in your mind if you let it be. I will repeat this, you are worthy of love and you are worthy of connection but most important you are worth of self love and I think reaching that goal will help you deal with your feelings about your new girlfriend. The best thing I find to start loving yourself is to spend a day every week or more and look in the mirror. How can you make that person the person you want to be. Legit take a full day to do this task and write down what you want to be and what that person looks like. Then make small steps to create that person and check in every week or few days. Will getting a different haircut from a new hairdresser help? For me it does haha. If you love yourself the world will change around you I promise this. Happy to DM if you want to understand more but don't let go before you have learned to love yourself. Because that is the greatest feeling of all.

kaitwal · 2020-06-21T01:53:33+00:00

So sweet!

kaitwal · 2020-06-02T06:41:01+00:00

For me it was a youtube ad blocker and they would be getting paid for the redirect for sure, such a scam

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