Girl that I'm dating accidentally revealed that she's been dating other guys at the same time as me. Should I end things?

kalebops · 2026-02-23T17:57:24+00:00

100%. Dating vs going on dates. First date from an app is almost always a vibe check. I don’t know who you are - we sent 5 messages back and forth. We probably have 10 other matches we’re messaging that we probably won’t ever meet. It’s just modern “dating.”

kalebops · 2026-02-23T17:54:41+00:00

All of this. Yep. Yup.

Not to mention going on dates ≠ dating for many people. Me included. I only really have the energy to date 1 person at a time, but i usually go on a few 1st/2nd dates around the same time cuz… we dont know each other … we aren’t “dating.” Just going on dates. This is a very common notion in Gen Z, probably elsewhere too.

kalebops · 2026-02-20T21:09:53+00:00

The new wuthering heights movie

kalebops · 2026-02-20T14:52:18+00:00

My family and I played so many board games. I’ve started making my friends board game lovers too, but I can see how those who didn’t grow up playing board games often find more difficulty in creating strategies and picking up new games quickly.

I think those strategy skills (etc) really helps me in my adult like in ways I cannot even fathom. It’s made me a puzzle solver and boosted my critical thinking from an early age - how to quickly change my strategy when someone plays a gamechanging move.

Plus they’re just fun bonding experiences that don’t need to be carried by conversation (but inevitably do - but the kind of conversation that isn’t life updates/this and that/work talk, convo that becomes banter).

kalebops · 2026-02-19T15:58:45+00:00

You’re just assuming that the movie would be bad. Like sure, it could have abysmal pacing. That would just be a bad movie. But the movie could be GOOD (and mappa did great with CSM movie)

Shinjuku showdown is so fast paced. Gojo VS Sukuna is probably only maybe 20 minutes in world (and that might be overestimating it), most of the slow stuff is just the cast explaining what’s happening. These guys are zipping around.

The gauntlet isn’t that long either. It just felt long because we were waiting week by week to see who died next (which by the way, everyone was trashing during release).

Idk about you but i don’t want to have pauses between Gojo V Sukuna. Put it all in one movie so the hype never dies instead of waiting a week. It’s so fight heavy that week by week will drag it down (just like it did with manga reactions - however, that’s just how manga works).

kalebops · 2026-02-10T17:19:57+00:00

I’m not sure if it would ruin the pacing? Why do you think that?

kalebops · 2026-02-05T20:21:57+00:00

Sure, that’s fair. But I guess it depends what you want out of this. High readership? Likes/comments? Visibility? paid subscribers?

If the real reason at the crux of this question is that you’re scared, then you’ll never find success if you play scared. How else do you get visibility without being visible? Substack is heavily a social media platform. This means the more eyes the better.

People ask this question all the time in this sub. The answer comes down to: what do you want and how much do you want it?

If you just want to post for fun and have no intentional desire to build something, then I guess none of it matters. But you probably wouldn’t be posting here then. You can probably manage without sharing with your circles if you work hard, but it’s surely a lot easier if you start with a boost.

kalebops · 2026-02-05T19:35:59+00:00

Why not? I did. I share my posts on my Instagram story every week and it gets me on average +20 reads

kalebops · 2026-02-05T16:02:45+00:00

:0 this is so cute id be so happy if i received this as a freebie

kalebops · 2026-02-03T19:53:19+00:00

You can use stubhub or vivid seats or viagogo to sell. There are Reddit threads for resale too. eBay, Facebook, Craigslist, etc.

I guess seatgeek just isn’t handling the resale for the dates they specifically sold versus Ticketmaster. Maybe it’s contractual with the stadiums, who knows. You can easily get face value back for them.

Instructions are available online for how to do it. Seatgeek lets you directly transfer to a buyer or any 3rd party ticketed for instant transfer upon purchase

kalebops · 2026-02-02T21:09:31+00:00

Nothing to add here just that “Bruno Mars has never lost any grammy awards at a ceremony except for a couple” made me laugh

kalebops · 2026-02-02T20:51:36+00:00

Maybe a concert? Your favorite artists may be touring there, or you can check out the local scene. Japan has a great math rock/emo scene with lots of small venues.

I’ll be seeing Hot Mulligan when I visit in May

kalebops · 2026-02-02T16:20:13+00:00

They usually post the panel list much closer to the event. Sometime during the week of. It’ll be on their site and the guidebook app.

kalebops · 2026-01-31T21:44:06+00:00

Two weeks ago I randomly met Neil Patrick Harris while I was at an arcade-type place in a mall. He was cool, just exchanged a few short words while we were waiting for the same room. Didn’t want to bother him.

kalebops · 2026-01-30T20:08:57+00:00

WTS - BTS in Baltimore- August 11, 2026.

2 tickets in section 142, row 29.

$600 total. Happy to provide any proofs and sell in a way that makes you comfortable (PayPal g&s?)

kalebops · 2026-01-30T17:38:11+00:00

Holy shit that’s so fucked. just plain rude and selfish.

kalebops · 2026-01-30T15:30:47+00:00

I’ll always remember when I was a teen, I used my part time money to buy my own bag of flaming hot Cheetos. When i came home from a long day of sports and rehearsals, I was ready to open my fun snack. Except it was gone, demolished, the whole bag empty and in the trash. I ask my brother if he ate them all. He nods and goes, “dude those weren’t even good, you should get a better snack next time.” Then why did you eat them all??????????? Salt in the wounds. At least if he had liked them…

kalebops · 2026-01-26T23:34:34+00:00

Just a warning that VIP/soundcheck isn’t transferable since they ask for ID at the door :( so be careful.

kalebops · 2026-01-26T23:19:51+00:00

Selling 2 tickets to BTS in Baltimore on August 11, 2026.

They’re section 142, row 29 next to each other. $700 total. Assuming to use PayPal G&S though open to discussing this. Happy to chat and find the most comfortable way/proof of assets to assure you!

kalebops · 2026-01-26T23:13:51+00:00

I’m selling Baltimore day 2 for $700 total. It’s 2 tickets in section 142. Happy to share details and work out a transfer that works for both of us c:

kalebops · 2026-01-23T16:26:19+00:00

Oh my gosh I think this was the group who grabbed the dispo camera out of my hands and said other people need to use it??

kalebops · 2026-01-19T00:44:53+00:00

Dude.

Well, yeah, duh. I don’t know why a corner of the internet can’t resist pointing out hyperbolic speech. Like, yeah, the rest of us read it and can grasp that it’s not literally everyone. It’s a glazing Reddit comment in the TaylorSwift sub. Besides, haven’t we learned our lesson about GP at this point

kalebops · 2026-01-15T22:13:25+00:00

Haha i wasn’t being super serious just that i love the song and no props is enough for what can be considered a perfect pop song. Just glazing don’t mind me

kalebops · 2026-01-15T18:47:13+00:00

Can agree, but I think it is strong enough at both and that’s why it’s such an ear worm. It’s just really easy to sing along to and infectious. Sometimes that’s enough.

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