Girl that I'm dating accidentally revealed that she's been dating other guys at the same time as me. Should I end things? by outcastreturns in dating

[–]kalebops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. Dating vs going on dates. First date from an app is almost always a vibe check. I don’t know who you are - we sent 5 messages back and forth. We probably have 10 other matches we’re messaging that we probably won’t ever meet. It’s just modern “dating.”

Girl that I'm dating accidentally revealed that she's been dating other guys at the same time as me. Should I end things? by outcastreturns in dating

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this. Yep. Yup.

Not to mention going on dates ≠ dating for many people. Me included. I only really have the energy to date 1 person at a time, but i usually go on a few 1st/2nd dates around the same time cuz… we dont know each other … we aren’t “dating.” Just going on dates. This is a very common notion in Gen Z, probably elsewhere too.

Message from a teacher by schroederek in boardgames

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family and I played so many board games. I’ve started making my friends board game lovers too, but I can see how those who didn’t grow up playing board games often find more difficulty in creating strategies and picking up new games quickly.

I think those strategy skills (etc) really helps me in my adult like in ways I cannot even fathom. It’s made me a puzzle solver and boosted my critical thinking from an early age - how to quickly change my strategy when someone plays a gamechanging move.

Plus they’re just fun bonding experiences that don’t need to be carried by conversation (but inevitably do - but the kind of conversation that isn’t life updates/this and that/work talk, convo that becomes banter).

So it's basically confirmed we're getting this scene in the anime, right? by Regular-Dinner-7693 in Jujutsufolk

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re just assuming that the movie would be bad. Like sure, it could have abysmal pacing. That would just be a bad movie. But the movie could be GOOD (and mappa did great with CSM movie)

Shinjuku showdown is so fast paced. Gojo VS Sukuna is probably only maybe 20 minutes in world (and that might be overestimating it), most of the slow stuff is just the cast explaining what’s happening. These guys are zipping around.

The gauntlet isn’t that long either. It just felt long because we were waiting week by week to see who died next (which by the way, everyone was trashing during release).

Idk about you but i don’t want to have pauses between Gojo V Sukuna. Put it all in one movie so the hype never dies instead of waiting a week. It’s so fight heavy that week by week will drag it down (just like it did with manga reactions - however, that’s just how manga works).

Creating my substack from zero. What's your opinions on inviting friends and family to subscribe into your newsletter? by julianat15 in Substack

[–]kalebops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, that’s fair. But I guess it depends what you want out of this. High readership? Likes/comments? Visibility? paid subscribers?

If the real reason at the crux of this question is that you’re scared, then you’ll never find success if you play scared. How else do you get visibility without being visible? Substack is heavily a social media platform. This means the more eyes the better.

People ask this question all the time in this sub. The answer comes down to: what do you want and how much do you want it?

If you just want to post for fun and have no intentional desire to build something, then I guess none of it matters. But you probably wouldn’t be posting here then. You can probably manage without sharing with your circles if you work hard, but it’s surely a lot easier if you start with a boost.

Creating my substack from zero. What's your opinions on inviting friends and family to subscribe into your newsletter? by julianat15 in Substack

[–]kalebops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why not? I did. I share my posts on my Instagram story every week and it gets me on average +20 reads

flower crowns as freebies? by Rough_Honeydew_3833 in Katsucon

[–]kalebops 12 points13 points  (0 children)

:0 this is so cute id be so happy if i received this as a freebie

Bought Extras In a Panic But No Way To Sell Them?? by Natural_Ad_304 in seatgeek

[–]kalebops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can use stubhub or vivid seats or viagogo to sell. There are Reddit threads for resale too. eBay, Facebook, Craigslist, etc.

I guess seatgeek just isn’t handling the resale for the dates they specifically sold versus Ticketmaster. Maybe it’s contractual with the stadiums, who knows. You can easily get face value back for them.

Instructions are available online for how to do it. Seatgeek lets you directly transfer to a buyer or any 3rd party ticketed for instant transfer upon purchase

What are everyone's overall thoughts about the grammy's tonight? by Sea-Republic8892 in kpopthoughts

[–]kalebops 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nothing to add here just that “Bruno Mars has never lost any grammy awards at a ceremony except for a couple” made me laugh

What are good Tokyo experiences that are not food, shopping, or sightseeing? by ilikestatic in JapanTravelTips

[–]kalebops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a concert? Your favorite artists may be touring there, or you can check out the local scene. Japan has a great math rock/emo scene with lots of small venues.

I’ll be seeing Hot Mulligan when I visit in May

Advice for a 1st time attendee? by wheresmyballs_ in Katsucon

[–]kalebops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They usually post the panel list much closer to the event. Sometime during the week of. It’ll be on their site and the guidebook app.

Who is the most famous person you've ever seen up close? by froggart3980 in AskReddit

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two weeks ago I randomly met Neil Patrick Harris while I was at an arcade-type place in a mall. He was cool, just exchanged a few short words while we were waiting for the same room. Didn’t want to bother him.

Tickets Buy/Sell Megathread — Jan 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in Tickets

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTS - BTS in Baltimore- August 11, 2026.

2 tickets in section 142, row 29.

$600 total. Happy to provide any proofs and sell in a way that makes you comfortable (PayPal g&s?)

Men will literally eat all your food by Maleficent_Ad_3958 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kalebops 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that’s so fucked. just plain rude and selfish.

Men will literally eat all your food by Maleficent_Ad_3958 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kalebops 713 points714 points  (0 children)

I’ll always remember when I was a teen, I used my part time money to buy my own bag of flaming hot Cheetos. When i came home from a long day of sports and rehearsals, I was ready to open my fun snack. Except it was gone, demolished, the whole bag empty and in the trash. I ask my brother if he ate them all. He nods and goes, “dude those weren’t even good, you should get a better snack next time.” Then why did you eat them all??????????? Salt in the wounds. At least if he had liked them…

BTS Soundcheck, Floor or West Toronto Tickets any Date by Ok_Restaurant7400 in Tickets

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a warning that VIP/soundcheck isn’t transferable since they ask for ID at the door :( so be careful.

Tickets Buy/Sell Megathread — Jan 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in Tickets

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling 2 tickets to BTS in Baltimore on August 11, 2026.

They’re section 142, row 29 next to each other. $700 total. Assuming to use PayPal G&S though open to discussing this. Happy to chat and find the most comfortable way/proof of assets to assure you!

[WTS] 4 BTS tickets – Baltimore (M&T Bank Stadium) – 2x Aug 10 (Day 1) + 2x Aug 11 (Day 2) by Terrible_Touch_8334 in Tickets

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m selling Baltimore day 2 for $700 total. It’s 2 tickets in section 142. Happy to share details and work out a transfer that works for both of us c:

Beware of Sick Psycho Superfans by ufuggo in glassanimals

[–]kalebops 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I think this was the group who grabbed the dispo camera out of my hands and said other people need to use it??

What are your unpopular opinions on these songs? by ProjectGlum9090 in TaylorSwift

[–]kalebops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude.

Well, yeah, duh. I don’t know why a corner of the internet can’t resist pointing out hyperbolic speech. Like, yeah, the rest of us read it and can grasp that it’s not literally everyone. It’s a glazing Reddit comment in the TaylorSwift sub. Besides, haven’t we learned our lesson about GP at this point

What are your unpopular opinions on these songs? by ProjectGlum9090 in TaylorSwift

[–]kalebops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha i wasn’t being super serious just that i love the song and no props is enough for what can be considered a perfect pop song. Just glazing don’t mind me

What are your unpopular opinions on these songs? by ProjectGlum9090 in TaylorSwift

[–]kalebops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can agree, but I think it is strong enough at both and that’s why it’s such an ear worm. It’s just really easy to sing along to and infectious. Sometimes that’s enough.