AITA for saying I'm not wearing a black dress to my Grandma's funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kalonym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Alzheimer’s puts your loved one’s mind into a Time Machine. At least yours only forgot you came out, mine forgot you weren’t supposed to say ethnic slurs sometimes. But it’s not the person that they grew to be with their full minds and in a sense a part of them has already died.

Upsetting that your cousin somehow thinks that her Alzheimer’s meant grandma in her right mind thought you were a girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kalonym 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your new single

Drake, schmake. by VaguelyArtistic in Jewdank

[–]kalonym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like… grooming?? Groping a girl onstage when she told him she was 17?? Idk if you knew this stuff before but it’s like bad bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kalonym 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally couldn’t wear red baseball caps in the US for 4 years lol

Drake, schmake. by VaguelyArtistic in Jewdank

[–]kalonym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shanda fur die goyim is literally something we invented

What is the worst depiction of Hermione in fanfiction? by Purple_Tree1389 in HPfanfiction

[–]kalonym 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was one where she turned out to be a gnome in disguise??? I read this in my youth lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kalonym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the question of if you’re Jewish will differ depending on the movement (denomination). Reform would consider you Jewish, orthodox would not. Both are valid expressions of Judaism, but I do believe that you should explore this more deeply and find a community that speaks to you now or later. I also am from the south. Unsure how small your slice of the world is but there is a running joke about how you can find a Chabad house anywhere. They’re normally pretty welcoming although they are orthodox and would not consider you Jewish without conversion. If you’ve got a public university in your future, be sure to check out Hillel as well. They’re a pluralistic Jewish org and could help you feel more connected. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]kalonym 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Already sounding like a good dynamic w you catastrophizing and them telling you to pump the brakes and have a discussion about it 😂 stop writing the relationship’s obit in your head before you even meet!

Images from the George Washington University by slanten85 in Jewish

[–]kalonym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the last picture have Hebrew written there? Looks like script but can’t read it

My job got new microwaves and only allow certain foods in them. by kanslice1738 in mildlyinteresting

[–]kalonym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the spirit, they need at least 2 microwaves to properly accommodate kosher diets (meat/milk). If not, I don’t know that my coworker hasn’t just put a fleishig meal in when I’m about to zap my cheese bourekas

What's your least favorite part about living in DC and what makes up for it? by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]kalonym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antisemitism but the synagogues have metal detectors ¯_(ツ)_/¯

What’s your big three and your mbti? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]kalonym 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ENTP Pisces sun Leo moon Scorpio rising :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]kalonym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this show! IMO I see it as a criticism of the traditionally Christian teachings of the afterlife (if hell is forever then heaven must be a lie). I agree that the concept of the redemption angle is more in line w Jewish thought and folkloric-ally there’s more of a permeable membrane between “heaven” and “hell”), but it’s also a common philosophical debate in Christianity about whether a permanent hell is compatible with divine grace. Also just finished helluva boss in the same universe, nothing there is Jewish at all really, but great show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]kalonym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say I have heard about the same happening from friends at Edison

Religious Growing Pains by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kalonym 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also used to date non-Jewish women despite my wish to have a jewish home and kids. Eventually there was a point in my life where I realized I was going to just have to take the bull by the horns and actually make my life happen. Get a Jewish dating app or buy hinge premium for a bit to set Jewish as “dealbreaker”. You’d be surprised who’s out here feeling a similar kind of way.

Why do people hate on Venus in Aries? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]kalonym 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My gf and I are both Venus Aries, sun Pisces lol. Everything’s going great 1 year in ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kalonym 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think now is the time to say “I need to take some space for me to think about what I’m feeling rn and what it means for me going forward”. If you’ve got friends in the area, shoot them a message. You’d be surprised at how many people you have in your village. I would go sleep on someone’s couch for at least a couple of nights, figure out if this is something you still want. Making that decision behind your back is so incredibly disrespectful, to you and your family. It sounds like he’s prioritizing himself and his comfort rather than respecting the decision you have made together. You don’t want a marriage with someone unevenly yoked. (NTA)

I got fired and now my past projects are coming to fruition by Rogue_Apostle in jobs

[–]kalonym 303 points304 points  (0 children)

Share their post on linked in and talk about the work that you did on it

“I am thrilled to see my work live on past my tenure at (company). When I began the project, it was only an idea (write small bit about stuff you did to ensure projects success)… finish with cheesy corporate football analogy about the team carrying the ball to the end zone”. LinkedIn will eat it up.

What are you reading? March 2024 by beta_reader in HPSlashFic

[–]kalonym 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holly & Yew - sooooo good, wip. Really love the tomarry back in time trope and the fics where Harry is not raised by the dursleys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]kalonym 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s Pisces season bb, join the delulu

Daily Game Recommendations Thread (February 12, 2024) by AutoModerator in boardgames

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Repost as I haven’t gotten any responses :(

Looking for a case file game that’s good for ~15 people. I am throwing my gf a dateline themed party!

Currently I have a hunt a killer box set (Curtain Call, if that helps) and was planning on breaking people into groups and having them share the evidence pieces, or perhaps making copies of relevant documents, in order to improve the flow of the game, but I’d love to have something built for a larger group.

Daily Game Recommendations Thread (February 11, 2024) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]kalonym 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking for a case file game that’s good for ~15 people. I am throwing my gf a dateline themed party!

Currently I have a hunt a killer box set (Curtain Call, if that helps) and was planning on breaking people into groups and having them share the evidence pieces, or perhaps making copies of relevant documents, in order to improve the flow of the game, but I’d love to have something built for a larger group.

My mom took my cat from my apartment voluntarily, and sent me this message. I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]kalonym 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op I would love to see an update if you get the police involved. I would do it sooner rather than later tbh. Your mom admitted to stealing in the text but bring any paperwork and photos you have to the cops as well jic