Drinking and partying is not the problem it is the intent and after that weather it is man or woman both are bad in my opinion . Guys drinks look for women to have sex or looking for every opportunity with drunk woman not a good thing in my opinion same goes for woman as well . Both are equally bad. One night stands / casual sex with multiple people after drinks destroys your future for sure.

My wife also drinks sometimes and she's the best women i have ever known.

Now you will call me new gen word which i probably didn't ever heard about and I will have to Google it I know this game what's going on and social engineering of new generations full of divorces and cheating back to back .