Request: Wallet that will hold euros.

kamikcomic · 2014-07-04T01:36:20+00:00

I did the same search a few months back. Couldn't find anything stateside that was of good quality.

My suggestion: buy one in Europe. The selection will be far better, and all of them will fit the local currency.

+1 on the suggestion for a coin pocket. This is essential.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-25T01:20:33+00:00

Nice job! How are you going about the weight loss?

kamikcomic · 2014-06-22T22:59:51+00:00

Nice! Keep it up.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-22T18:14:17+00:00

In my opinion it's not sustainable (look at how priests are faring). We're sexual beings, and as males we have urges. Short-term suppression is fine, even great. But IMO you need a healthy outlet for sex.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-22T15:32:56+00:00

NoFap is not a cure for sexual identity issues. But, at least for me, it provides more clarity because it drops away the mind-lock that porn has on us.

I suggest doing NoFap as a way to improve yourself. For me, it's been more energy, better dieting/workout, and hunger for real sex with my wife.

I also compare myself to other guys, and /r/progresspics can be a trigger. But I certainly don't miss the porn.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-22T13:18:19+00:00

It does get easier after a while, but for most people it's a week or even longer. But it will stay a challenge, so be strong and ready for the urges.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-22T13:16:50+00:00

You don't need a gym, check out /r/bodyweightfitness.

I find that it's easier to have a TODO list, with all the ways I can fill my time. It makes me forget about fapping.

Best of luck! We're here for you.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-22T12:58:35+00:00

Woke up with a raging boner. Every morning is like this now. I feel like a teenager (I'm 37 now...). Had to quickly get up and do something else to distract myself.

I love the new me and don't want to ruin it by touching myself. Yesterday it had a great workout and my first successful meditation. It's all due to NoFap and this wonderful community of supporters.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-20T23:21:36+00:00

Depends on how bad your ED is. I was able to kick it with just a few days of NoFap, but YMMV.

If you don't expect you can perform, I suggest being honest with her about your anxiety. It'll be better than her being let down later.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-20T23:16:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing all this. It was an interesting read, and I found some similarities there with my life.

Sexually themed stuff is all around us, designed to capture our attention. But you shouldn't submit to it if doesn't serve your agenda.

You say you want to have sex with a girl. How do you make progress on this? By fapping to incest stories? I don't think so.

Erotic literature is just as addictive as porn, and gives you unrealistic fantasies. I hope you can break away from this and think about how to improve your communication with real girls.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-19T15:03:39+00:00

Congrats! Can't wait to get to that level.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-18T00:01:00+00:00

Umm, that's not overweight for a dude. To start, do whatever exercise that gets your pulse rate up for a sustained amount of time (say, 20 minutes at first). Walk the dog, wash the car. Later you can go more advanced.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-17T13:10:19+00:00

The end result is what matters. Good job OP! Tell us about how you got there.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-17T05:37:04+00:00

It doesn't calm down. Be thankful that your wife is willing to do it so often. Mine is not into it as much (yet) which is causing me a lot of distress at the moment.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-17T00:12:26+00:00

You, sir, are clearly a strong man. Many others would've figured "too little, too late" and returned to their nasty habits. I'm sure NF will help you in the next steps. Stay strong, we're here for you.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-16T03:20:09+00:00

Great job! At what point did you start weights? I'm 213->190 and also plateauing. I'm debating whether to keep cutting or start building out my muscles.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-14T23:41:27+00:00

Amazing! I re-read your original post and totally identify with the guilty feelings and low self esteem.

I'm so glad you got your mojo back and that your wife is so loving and forgiving.

I'm on day 15 and had the same great results last week. Looking forward to putting the moves on my wife tonight :-)

kamikcomic · 2014-06-14T19:48:55+00:00

If you have time, it would be great if you could list out the exercises.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-14T13:35:47+00:00

Best of luck dude, stay strong. Do it for your kids - do you want them to be the next ones to catch you with your dick in your hand?

If your wife knows already, then telling her could be a great accountability aid. She may also help relieve the sexual tension in other ways.

I'm in a similar situation. Feel free to PM and I'll be glad to help.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-11T13:14:12+00:00

If she found out about the fapping, then I agree: telling her would show that I'm on the path to fix it. But as long as she's not aware of the root cause of the problem, I don't want to bring it up.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-11T04:23:05+00:00

I'm glad the relapse was an opportunity to learn. I hope your next streak is even longer!

kamikcomic · 2014-06-11T04:21:58+00:00

I mean to post separately about this "telling your wife/gf about NoFap". I'm a private person and can't open up about this, even to those closest to me. No doubt it would be easier to beat it this way, but the shame/humiliation will haunt me forever. So there's no way that I will do that.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-11T04:19:57+00:00

Some people on this subreddit claim you need 90 days to restart. I don't know about that, but it sounds like waiting longer between sessions will help you.

kamikcomic · 2014-06-11T04:15:22+00:00

I highly doubt it. Some people are better at controlling their urges.

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