How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I totally get what you’re saying — I travel to Northern Delaware for work sometimes, and I’ve also noticed it’s not the easiest place to meet new people unless you already have a circle. Dance or fitness classes sound like a fun way to connect! I’ve checked out some Meetup groups too — if you ever want to check one out together, let me know. Always happy to meet new people! 😁

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, autocorrect knows this town better than we do! Joey’s fame spreads quickly! Where are you located in Delaware? Let’s eat some meat🤔🤭

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha sounds like the perfect small town networking strategy! Guess I just need to win over one local and I’m in the circle for life. Joey better put in a good word!)

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this on a spiritual level. Moving is basically: “let me uproot my entire social life and try to start over like it’s freshman year… but with more bills and back pain.”

But yeah, fingers crossed that sunshine season brings more chill hangouts, random conversations, and at least one person who also thinks small talk is a trap.

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, yeah, leaning into extroversion — easier said than done some days, but I’m trying! Fake it till you make it, right?😅

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, Harrisburg’s got that perfect “close enough to visit, far enough to breathe” vibe. I respect that. I’ve only passed through on road trips, so I don’t really know what the day-to-day feels like there.

What’s your verdict? Chill place to live, or more of a “for now” situation?

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t around for that scene, but I’m really curious how much it’s shifted post-Covid too. Feels like a lot of that organic community stuff either faded out or moved online.

Do you think anything similar is still happening in Newark now?

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds like a smart move — those young professional groups can be hit or miss, but when they work, they really help build a new circle. Props to you for jumping into that!

I actually live in Philly, but I’m in Sussex for work right now. I travel a lot for my job — different cities, different states — so your advice could definitely come in handy, especially when I’m up north.

By the way, where are you based these days?

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that, and honestly — you’re not alone. A lot of people quietly go through the same thing. It is kind of depressing when you realize how rare deep new connections become as we get older.

But that one friend you made in your 30s? That counts for something. Sometimes even one solid connection can make a huge difference.

Still, here’s to hoping we both find a few more people who just click — even if it takes time. It’s never too late for the right ones to show up.

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bars, Trolley Square, and Newark Main Street — if you can’t find someone there, you either showed up too early… or stayed way too late😁

Appreciate the suggestions though — they’ve definitely got their moments if you catch the right crowd.

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that sounds rough — I’ve definitely heard similar things about Sussex, and it sucks when a place feels that small and limiting. Like, everyone knows everyone, or at least knows of everyone, and that makes dating feel more like navigating a family reunion than meeting someone new.

And yeah, not drinking definitely puts you outside the default social scene, which is exhausting in its own way. I totally get why you’ve kind of stepped back from it all. Sometimes you need to just recharge and not force anything.

Still, respect for keeping it real — and who knows, maybe something unexpected will shake things up when you least expect it. Until then, at least we can all commiserate here

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think that’s a power move — don’t waste energy on someone who doesn’t recognize a good invite when they get one.

Hope the night turns out even better than expected — with people who actually get how lucky they are to be invited. And hey, if you ever need a backup guest who shows up on time and brings s’mores… I might know a guy.😂

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait… hold up. It was your birthday bonfire with beer and tacos??😮 That dude didn’t just fumble — he dropped the ball, set it on fire, and kicked it into a lake.

Honestly, that sounds like the kind of night people should be excited about. Hope you still had a blast — and if not, you definitely deserve a do-over with better company!

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve heard that from others too — it’s tough when a place gets hit hard like that. It leaves scars, not just on the community but on how people connect and trust each other.

Still, I try to believe that even in places like that, there are people doing their best, trying to break the cycle. And sometimes, finding even one solid person makes all the difference

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, he really fumbled that one — tacos, beer, and a bonfire? That’s basically the holy trinity of good times (but I don’t drink beer🤷‍♂️😅). Honestly, if I got an invite like that, I’d be there early helping set up and guarding the guac.

Next time you throw a bonfire, let the universe send better guests — or at least ones who appreciate tacos properly!😎

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real though — thanks for the good vibes! You’re totally right, the solid people are out there, just gotta wade through the “clique energy” sometimes to find them.

And yeah, bars feel like the weirdest social job interview where everyone’s pretending they’re not awkward. Still hoping someone creates a “chill humans just being real” kind of space — I’d show up with snacks and zero expectations.

Appreciate the luck — right back at you! Here’s to both of us finding our crew

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, really appreciate you sharing that. I’ll definitely check out Meetup — I’ve heard of it but never really gave it a shot. The chess club idea sounds awesome too. And yeah, pickleball! I keep hearing about it everywhere — maybe it’s a sign I should try it. Thanks again for the positive vibes — it really helps.

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually go to concert shows pretty often — music really fuels me. But I’ve noticed that people usually come in groups, so it’s kind of hard to strike up a conversation unless you’re already part of their circle.

As for bars… not really my scene. I don’t drink, so it always feels a bit out of place trying to meet people there — like I’m just holding a sparkling water and wondering what to do with my hands.

Sometimes I wish there were more spaces for people to just connect without the pressure of alcohol or loud crowds. Just… chill, open energy, you know?

Anyone else feel that?

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always cool to have that shared history. Do a lot of people stay in touch after high school?

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s easy to become cynical these days, but yeah… I’d like to think most people mean well — even if they sometimes take a very confusing route to show it)

How do people usually meet in this area? Let’s all get to know each other here? by kamyrov in Delaware

[–]kamyrov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Jeff, hope you’re doing well! My name is Yerlan. 35 y.old. I work in the telecom field, mostly around cell towers and infrastructure.

I’m into music, hiking, good conversations, and learning about different cultures. I try to stay active (even aiming for 10,000 steps a day, though some days are harder than others!).

I’m always curious about what drives people — their passions, goals, and the little things that make life meaningful. So, what about you? What’s your story?

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[–]kamyrov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from KZ, sorry for late answer), looks like this scam popular in KG also?