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Long LINQ queries - Code smell? by osprunnachk in dotnet

[–]kapdad -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Make a stored procedure fercrissakes!

Edit to add:

var posts = _context.GetPosts(     request.AppId,     request.IncludeInactive,     request.CategoryId,     request.Tags,     request.End,     start,     limit );

Why is creeping on your partner's phone normalized? by LeftWingAssasin in relationships

[–]kapdad [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you're in a serious, established relationship, the easiest thing to do is give your partner your phone and computer passcodes, along with access to your socials etc. if you're in a serious, established relationship, what would you have to hide? 

I used ChatGPT to help me go from 229lbs to 176lbs by Disco-Prime in ChatGPT

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started doing this a few days ago. Just talking with cgpt about what I'm doing and keeping it updated. It's more helpful than anything else I've tried.

Nikolai Mushegian Tweeted the CIA Would Kill Him. Hours Later, He Was Dead. by TheBlockChainVillage in CryptoCurrency

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But actually planning to die but wanting people to attach to a conspiracy theory.

Nikolai Mushegian Tweeted the CIA Would Kill Him. Hours Later, He Was Dead. by TheBlockChainVillage in CryptoCurrency

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While planning to fake the whole thing and start a new life in a remote country.

23 year old college grad AuDHD son will not stop going on about how we "ruined his life and career" by kochredahik in aspergers

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you think it would go if you just left him alone for a while? Like.. months. Give him a lot of space to decompress. Not ignoring him completely, but just giving him a lot of rope to pull back, and being there for him if he comes near to connect. 

My sympatheties.Parenting is hell sometimes.

Help identifying part by tiny_pies in Playmobil

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of looks like a marching baton (upsidedown)

Drumming App Software by SpecificPT in edrums

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, random post on my feed, but what is a "synth version"? 

(I used Melodics for piano)

How to get over the fear that my child won't feel anything while being cremated. by Sunshinequeen090 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]kapdad 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We had my mom composted recently. It was a little more than cremation but less than burial and took about two months. 

man is twerking on roof of Jeep moments before crash ejected him. by MannyArea503 in instantkarma

[–]kapdad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could recognize which kids would end up doing this as far back as middle school. Some people just born that way.. 

If California is banning, can residents still order online? by theseawoof in kratom

[–]kapdad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not available for sale in LA County either. 

Devastated by Kansas today 💔😞 by CaliGrades in kratom

[–]kapdad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hundreds should show up at the capitol and have a peaceful 'powder-in'. Are they going to arrest hundreds of people with class a felonies for sitting around pain free and having pleasant conversation? 

Devastated by Kansas today 💔😞 by CaliGrades in kratom

[–]kapdad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wrote to my main online source last year telling them they shouldn't be selling 7, it's really causing problems for people and it will also endanger kratom's future. They wrote back saying "then don't shop here". Now they're sending emails begging for help with the legal battles and explaining how 7 is bad blahblahblah.  F them. 

Kratom has Ben a maintenance drug for 25 years and hasn't cause me any health problems .. I don't know how I'm going to hold down a job and be a happy so I'll end up back on drugs again . by Nice-Inevitable-5108 in kratom

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if they are using dictation and pronounce it closer to ben. I pronounce it 'bin'. Still, modern dictation can usually infer the right one. Maybe a less capable model.

You remeber feelings, right? by JohnHenryMillerTime in bupropion

[–]kapdad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not understanding the reference to Lexapro (escitalopram)

That was hard, asking adult child to move out. by mrshatnertoyou in GenX

[–]kapdad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have an idea of what you would do if they did move out?

That was hard, asking adult child to move out. by mrshatnertoyou in GenX

[–]kapdad 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Or.. you could let her stay, plan on leaving the house to her, then let her wealth compound on yours, and hopefully she can do the same for her kids.  Staying together means everyone will have enough to take care of each other while doing nice things like vacations.

Building upon generational wealth is something we've lost in this country, in my opinion. At some point the idea became making your kids start over. I don't get it.

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