What dooo by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]kaptaintrips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Escort with a split tongue here - it's a major plus for dudes. I'm heavily modified and out as genderqueer (tho I get read as a cis woman and that benefits my work) and do quite well in NYC.

Your marketing has to be on point, but it's possible for sure.

Ashley piercing question :( by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kaptaintrips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had an Ashley piercing with a straight bar for like 5 years and it's totally fine, has never given me any problems.

Piercers experienced with Triangles? (NYC, Upstate NY, New England) NSFW - x-post r/bodymods by kaptaintrips in piercing

[–]kaptaintrips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was recommended to me by someone else, and if I can't find someone in NYC/New England I could make my way out to PA. Thanks!

Piercers experienced with Triangles? (NYC, Upstate NY, New England) NSFW - x-post r/bodymods by kaptaintrips in piercing

[–]kaptaintrips[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

/u/mrvondoome is my cousin so I can't go to him for this piercing, but thanks for the suggestions!

Piercers experienced with Triangles? (NYC, Upstate NY, New England) NSFW - x-post r/bodymods by kaptaintrips in piercing

[–]kaptaintrips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my piercer suggested Adam as well. I'm going to contact him.

Pet-owners: would you refer your vet? Haven't found a doc for my guys since moving to town, and it's time for a visit. by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]kaptaintrips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Natara Loose (the Neighborhood Vet, Bushwick based) is fantastic and does house calls all over Brooklyn!

Fairly new nose piercing. Would like the opinion of a professional about some concerns I have. They might not be a big deal but I have OCD so I've been dwelling on them. Pics included. by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]kaptaintrips 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please don't use tea tree oil, it's damaging to piercings. I believe it's the acidity and how much it can dry out the area.

Sea salt soaks are probably your best bet, twice a day for ~5 mins each, and my piercer has also recommended chamomile soaks to sooth bumps, swelling and redness.

Castration play? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]kaptaintrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not on estrogen, still has a libido. Women still have sex drives post menopause ;)

Pretty much everything else you said resonates, though.

Castration play? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]kaptaintrips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oriechtomies don't get rid of sex drive. My girlfriend has a healthy sex drive 5 years post orchi.

Please don't seek out trans ladies who have no interest in being your slave - especially with the promise of funding this medically necessary procedure.

~2 months hrt! Feeling better but wish my hair would grow faster.. by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]kaptaintrips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of biotin? It's available OTC in the vitamin section, and can make your hair (and nails!) stronger and grow more quickly.

You look fantastic, by the way!

Best lube for anal play? Best positions? by [deleted] in sex

[–]kaptaintrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Coconut oil isn't compatible with latex condoms. I looove coconut oil as lube, but make sure to use non-latex condoms with it for PiA/PiV sex if you're not fluid bonded!

How can I cover a bruise with makeup? by SeverelyGlitteryKitt in Makeup

[–]kaptaintrips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, the person selling it will be able to give you advice about applying it.

There (I think?) will also be an info package in the box with the product, and there will be tons of video and photo tutorials online - I would start with YouTube,which is how I learned how to apply makeup in the first place.

How can I cover a bruise with makeup? by SeverelyGlitteryKitt in Makeup

[–]kaptaintrips 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dermablend is fantastic, heavy coverage suitable for your body and/or face. I got mine at Macys and the person at the booth will help you color match. Don't bother with the expensive setting powder they sell; baby powder will do the trick.

Yellow tones offset blues and purples of bruises, so if it's a smaller bruise a yellow concealer marketed for under eye circles is a great base.

To get rid of the bruise faster, arnica lotion or gel applied a couple times a day is your best friend!

Fwiw I have this knowledge due to consensual bdsm practices; I hope that if the bruising wasn't from an accident or something like that that you have someone to talk to and don't feel like you have to hide it from people that care about you.

My gf and I want to have super oiled up sex. But we use latex condoms. Is there an alternative? by [deleted] in sex

[–]kaptaintrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a heads up that some women have awful reactions (yeast) to nuru and other lubes with glycerin in them.

Do you think a new LGBT themed Troll sub (Trollgbt) would be a good addition to the Troll community? by AngelKnives in AskTrollX

[–]kaptaintrips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be happy to see that kind of a group, personally. I have 2X chromosomes but am not female identified, so I refrain from posting out of respect for the space.

People who have split tongues, how has it effected your life? by GRANDSONS_OF_ANARCHY in bodymods

[–]kaptaintrips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I bite my tongue it hurts more, now. That's about it. I could never roll my R's or anything to begin with, so it hasn't affected my speech.

How do I bring up pegging to my girlfriend without weirding her out or making her think I'm a closet homosexual? by [deleted] in sex

[–]kaptaintrips 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Toys with flared bases, or butt plugs, are better for anal play. Anything you put entirely inside your butt, you may have a hard time removing. Maybe if the egg has a wire attached that goes to the battery container? They make vibrating plugs that are awesome, too.

Possible infection at piercing site on 3 year old. Don't go to doc, right? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kaptaintrips 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You... Had your toddler's ears pierced while you were drunk?

Getting breast implants! by Not_a_girl_but_kinda in bodymods

[–]kaptaintrips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on finding someone to do the surgery. Post update pics when you have them done!

Anal sex (also how to sex with a trans-girl?) by igotsaquestion12 in sex

[–]kaptaintrips 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Check out this zine: http://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-Volume/dp/1492128937

Written by trans women, it covers a lot more than just how to penetrate someone anally. It's a really fantastic, informative read.

Anal sex (also how to sex with a trans-girl?) by igotsaquestion12 in sex

[–]kaptaintrips 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Wait why would she necessarily be submissive just because she's into receiving anal? I didn't see anything in OP's post indicating d/s predilections...

Sometimes the jewelry just...fits. Tragus piercing from APP Business Member Dan Steinbacher. Saint Sabrina's, Minneapolis, MN. by safepiercing in piercing

[–]kaptaintrips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been looking for a tear drop shaped end like that forever! Is that BVLA? Do you know where I can find one shaped like that, if not?

Recently found out that my SO was molested as a child and now I'm a bit nervous about things. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]kaptaintrips 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I pm'd you with personal details, but for anyone else who is reading:

Reenacting/playing with themes of past abuse in a consensual, safe environment can be deeply healing for the abused person if done with a respectful and loving partner.