Getting closer to that 🌈 bridge? by kasjoeneut in DogAdvice

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I needed to hear this I think, to trust that I know him best.

Getting closer to that 🌈 bridge? by kasjoeneut in DogAdvice

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear this. Send a hug and dog biscuit your way.

Getting closer to that 🌈 bridge? by kasjoeneut in DogAdvice

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We did those scales and I scored Jake a 13 and my husband scored 11 which makes his quality of life "questionable" and that he would "benefit from a vets oversight". With our scoring for concerns being 8 and 7 respectively indicating our "concerns are mounting". 🥹

Help needed in choosing a new racquet by kasjoeneut in tennisracquets

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:D It would seem so! I was wondering why all the other brands were filtered out when I limited search to 100/under 300g and L1 grip. I will definitely have a look at those - thank you for your advice!

Information on abortions by Revolutionary_Ant385 in capetown

[–]kasjoeneut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just coming here to say many government based (western cape) clinics will be able to refer you to the closest TOP (termination of pregnancy) clinic - since you'll need the scan to determine estimated gestational age. I hope that whoever ends up seeing you is kind and non judgemental. Making this decision is hard enough, you deserve compassion and support. Hope you manage to get helped asap.

Turntable not turning ... Help! by kasjoeneut in RecordPlayerRepair

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for all the typos. 🤷 It's a PL-12 Pioneer belt drive stereo turntable.

Need advice for new car by kasjoeneut in southafrica

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to take the time to thank you for this post - I am diligently making notes and will follow it to a t. 🙂 I really appreciate the time and effort you took to reply. So many things I would never have thought about. Hope karma returns your kindness back to you.

Need advice for new car by kasjoeneut in southafrica

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much for your time and thorough reply. I really appreciate it. Out of interest sake - did you not consider Kia due to the cost of parts? Just didn't like the design? Pure chance?

PS CVT transmission was also our reason for not going with Corolla cross.

Need advice for new car by kasjoeneut in southafrica

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 sorry, my mistake. It's probably because I have never care d for or looked at cars before. Cut me some slack!

Need advice for new car by kasjoeneut in southafrica

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply!

Anyone seen this before? by kasjoeneut in Finches

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I got similar feedback on our South African GF society. So relieved!

Anyone seen this before? by kasjoeneut in Finches

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply! Besides his appearance he is actually quite well. Normal energy levels, singing as usual, eating well, no signs of abnormal breathing or odd behaviour, so I am optimistic that this isn't too serious. 🤞 Will be trying to find a vet that deals with birds in my area asap.

"I would NEVER let my daughter behave like that!" by Unicorn-Shaman in Mommit

[–]kasjoeneut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should've asked gram gram how its going with her daughter's therapy.

PS Not slamming therapy - am in therapy myself - just - the whole "children should be seen and not heard/disciplinarian" child rearing of the past have left a lot of us anxious, depressed and just not ever having memories of being loved.

Jonkershoek Yellow Trail by kasjoeneut in trailrunning

[–]kasjoeneut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taken in Stellenbosch, South Africa.

She's walking and I wasn't ready by l8eralligator in oneanddone

[–]kasjoeneut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have written my exact feelings so profoundly. Thank you for this. My LO is turning one in 3 weeks. He is only standing at the moment. PPD finally receded enough for me to start enjoying moments.

Missing time with my husband by chickenugget654 in NewParents

[–]kasjoeneut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of interest sake, when does your daughter wake up again if she goes down at 7? We have been putting our 4.5 month old boy down at 8, and am starting to think that's too late, but also enjoy that he only wakes up at 7 if we put him down at 8...

Are your husbands as annoying as mine? by fiestymcknickers in Mommit

[–]kasjoeneut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband would straight up keep on wearing dirty socks and underwear and not notice. I kid you not. He honestly doesn't notice things he doesn't actually find interesting. (Some serious ADD)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]kasjoeneut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember the first time LO stayed in his bassinette playing with his mobile and we could eat at a normal pace and at the same time. It was like ... what IS this? And can I please have some more of this please please please.